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Thank you.

I really am trying to be patient and trust in God’s plan for me. I know that if we are supposed to be together one day he will come back but in the mean time I need to continue with my life but it is so hard.

God bless you all
 
milletsmo said:
Thank you.

I really am trying to be patient and trust in God’s plan for me. I know that if we are supposed to be together one day he will come back but in the mean time I need to continue with my life but it is so hard.

God bless you all
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Yes. That is what you need to do. I will pray that it becomes easier for you …

Hail Mary,
full of grace,
the Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb,
Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death.
Amen.
 
I am trying to be positive I really am, and I feel slighlty better than I did yesterday so thank you for your prayers but it still hurts too much.

I feel like the closer I get to God and the more I pray the more things are going wrong.
I am on antibiotics again for a rare skin infection that hasnt affected me for at least 9 months but has come back due to the stress of the break up, it is really painful. Then yesterday my laptop totally broke which is obviosuly another stress seeing as I am starting my final year of university in two weeks and it will not be fixed in time. My cousin has been diagnosed with bi-polar disorder, and several other more trivial things which all add up and I feel like I can’t cope.

I know God has a plan for me and that if I am supposed to be with this man things will work out in time but this does not take away my pain. It is so hard watching people live happy lives who don’t believe in God. I know they still deserve to be happy and I know I shouldn’t be jealous or judge, and I’m really trying not to but I can’t help it. I feel bad for being jealous. I also feel bad for feeling bad when there are people who are worse off than me.

I just don’t know what to do

thank you all God bless.
 
Thanks.

The main reason why I decided to post on here is because the majority of my friends are agnostic at best so I don’t really have many people to talk to about if God has given me signs, God’s plan for me etc etc.

Yesterday I was in a shop and saw his Grandparents. I didn’t talk to them because I saw them in the distance but it made me really sad. After nearly 3 years you do start to become a part of each others family and it reminded me so much that I have not just lost him.

I am crying less so I guess that is an improvement though I do still want to cry all the time I am just trying to keep myself busy more often.

I am just hoping that if I am patient and do not contact him until he contacts me (however long that is) he will sort through his problems enough to realise what we had was worth dealing with the distance (especially as it is only 8-9 months until I move home for good!) and that he will give us one more try.

thank you all for your prayers.
God bless.
 
Thank you for your prayers.

I am doing ok.

Last night I couldn’t sleep so I decided to delete some texts from my phone as the inbox is always close to being full. This resulted in me reading all the texts he has sent me before, during and after the split. I am now certain it was his depression that caused him to change his mind about us, which also makes me a lot more positive that in time we might be able to get back. Its deffinatley more likely than if we argued constantly or if there was someone else etc.
I would however aprieciate if you could keep praying for me and also him, so that he seeks help for his depression and then maybe in some time he will miss me. The most important thing is that he is happy though so I will deal (somehow) if his depression gets sorted and he still doesn’t want me.

Thank you again
God bless you all
x
 
Our Father, who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.
Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on
earth as it is in Heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread. And
forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us
And lead us not into tempation,
but deliver us from evil.

Amen
 
O Lord, Holy Father, omnipotent and eternal God, I give You thanks and I bless Your holy name. I know I’m a poor miserable sinner but hear a cause that is just, pay heed to my cry, turn your ear to my prayer, no deceit is on my lips. Amen

For your intentions

Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name; thy kingdom come; thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.
Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now, and at the hour of our death.
Amen.

Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, as it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end.
Amen.

Lord Jesus, hear our prayers. Amen
 
Thank you for your prayers, I’m super grateful.

I recently met up with my friend who also lives with my ex (they have lived together since June). She mentioned that since they’ve lived together she has noticed him get more and more depressed. She is trying to encourage him to get help.
This has convinced me that it is due to his depression why we split up (we broke up in August) and therefore I believe once he has got help and sorts himself out there is a chance we will be able to be reunited as apart from his depression we were so right for each other. It is ok for me to cling on to this hope right?

Please pray for him to get help. Also please pray for my friend as she has recently split witrh her boyfriend resulting in her heart breaking.
We should pray that the Lord helps to heal all broken hearts and either helps us rekindle our relationships with our lost loves or nudges us down the path to find a better one.

Thank you again.
God bless
x
 
Don’t be impatient, let it run its course…be prepared to accept whatever happens.

Virgin Mary, most loving Mother,
please give me a heart like yours,
firm in its attachments and of unshakable loyalty,
an affectionate heart which radiates a discreet tenderness and which is open,
a pure heart which lives in the flesh without being burdened by it,
a generous heart,
quick in forgetting its hurts and always ready to forgive,
a considerate heart which hides a great deal of love in the smallest details,
in the most humble service,
a magnanimous heart which rejoices in other’s triumphs
and shares in their sorrows,
a heart which condemns no one,
and does not tire of being confided to,
a heart taken up by Christ,
totally given to His infinite love.

Amen.
 
Continued prayers……

O Lord, Holy Father, omnipotent and eternal God, I give You thanks and I bless Your holy name. I know I’m a poor miserable sinner but hear a cause that is just, pay heed to my cry, turn your ear to my prayer, no deceit is on my lips. Amen

For your intentions

Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, as it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end. Amen.

Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name; thy kingdom come; thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now, and at the hour of our death. Amen.

Lord Jesus, hear my prayer, listen to my cry for help. Amen
 
Thank you for your continued prayers.

I would like to be at least friends with him and I know he wants that at least too.

Today and yesterday have been really bad days even though I was (and continue to try to be) really positive.
Please continue with the prayers for me and also for him so that he gets help and/or sorts himself out alone.

Thank you all and God bless
x
 
Hail Mary,
full of grace,
the Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb,
Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death.
Amen.
 
O Lord, Holy Father, omnipotent and eternal God, I give You thanks and I bless Your holy name. I know I’m a poor miserable sinner but hear a cause that is just, pay heed to my cry, turn your ear to my prayer, no deceit is on my lips. Amen

Continued prayers……

For your intentions

Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, as it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end. Amen.

Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name; thy kingdom come; thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now, and at the hour of our death. Amen.

Lord Jesus, hear my prayer, listen to my cry for help. Amen

“If God brings it to you- God will bring you through it.”
 
Thank you.

I really feel like I can’t cope anymore.

I have been crying non-stop (and still am as I type this).

We hadn’t spoke for nearly 3 weeks. I owe him a bit of money for a festival we’re going to in December and was waiting on my cheque book to be posted to me. It arrived today so I sent him a little message on fb chat telling him he will get it soon depending on the postal strike. He said ok and he understands the post is being silly at the moment. I asked him if he was well and he said I’d either not believe him or he’d say something I don’t want to hear and asked me if I was well.

I honestly feel like I’m dying or that I’m trapped in a nightmare that I can’t wake up from. I cannot imagine feeling a worse pain than this. People say that it takes time, and while I understand I don’t at the same time because the pain is honestly just getting worse and worse as the weeks go on. It has been nearly 3 months since we split now and I hate it.
I know depression can change your feelings/personality/etc but I do not understand what happend. We were SO happy and so much in love and so right for each other. Being apart is unbareable and I honestly feel like giving up.

I am praying as much as possible and trying my best to put all my faith into God that this is his plan and that we’ll either be reunited one day or I’ll get over it but these thoughts and prayers don’t seem to be giving me any comfort. I am trying to distract myself but it is so hard as EVERYTHING reminds me of him. Literally everything.

I don’t know what to do anymore 😦

Thank you all God bless
x
 
Hail Mary, full of grace
The Lord is with thee
Blessed art thou amongst women
And blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus

Holy Mary, Mother of God
Pray for us sinners
Now and at the hour of our deaths

Amen
 
Thank you.

I have been reading up about depression and the effects it can have on relationships etc. I honestly believe that it is his depression which made him doubt loving me and in turn broke us up. I am hoping for the best that once he helps himself and/or seeks medical help we can maybe give it another go. However I am failing at being patient.
I believe God has given me signs that one day we will get back together and that this break up will make us a much stronger and happier couple if we do reunite as we will be closer and won’t take each other for granted etc.
I just really am sufferring. The pain is leading me to be impatient and question God. I am trying my best not to but it is hard.

My great Aunty always tells me to “offer it up” whenever things get tough, which I try to do but as I am sure you have all experienced in some way that it doesn’t instantly take the pain away. She also tells me that there is no point in me worrying when she and others are on their knees for me as “thats like poking God in the eye with a stick”. While I know this is true it doesn’t take the pain away, or at least it hasn’t yet.

Now more than ever I wish I could have a conversation with God. I just honestly don’t know what to do 😦

God bless you all
x
 
Definitely praying for you. Lift your pains to the Lord, and trust me, as dark as it is right now, life will come.

Creationlover
 
Thank you very much.
I am trying my best I just wish he would let us have another go but I have to accept he is not ready for that (and might never be)

God bless
x
 
Hail Mary,
full of grace,
the Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb,
Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death.
Amen.
 
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