Sasha, I hear of so many marriage in trouble and I know the Evil One is responsible for destroying so many marriages. I will pray for you and your husband and hope that you can get through this. Trust in the Lord to do what is best for you. Offer up your husband to him and ask Jesus to ask the Father to bring your husband to Him. Keep praying for that, even when it looks like it is over. The devil wants to destroy your marriage and you must fight for it with all that you can, like prayers, the Sacraments and using Sacramentals. Use all you can and of course, use the Word of God in the Bible to help you and strength you. Currently, we are praying for four couples whose marriage are in trouble. One has already filed for divorce. Pray and don’t give up hope no matter what. He just wants a separation for now and that is not a divorce, so continue to pray for reconciliation. And you are correct, it is not all your fault and it rarely is just one person’s fault. Pray and pray and pray some more. Offer up sacrifices for your husbands stone heart to change to the Lord’s heart. Offer up sacrifices for him to change his heart is what I mean.
I hope and pray that the Lord will give you many more years together and your right marriage is forever but some don’t believe that in todays world and where selfishness has set in so much.
I know it is difficult and you must cry alot. I have seen two sisters go through this and it is not easy to see and it was not easy for them to go through, but they got angry and just gave up and allowed their husbands to go without trying everything possible. The husbands left but as long as the divorce was not set, there was hope. Hugs for you…:hug3: :console: