I’ve been dating an Atheist for over a year now, but it has to end. You can probably guess how it is… When we were first together I naively thought that our beliefs wouldn’t come between things but now I see that they simply MUST come between things, otherwise one of us can’t be true to what we believe. At first I had peacefully come to accept this but when I tried to explain to him why it couldn’t work out between us he just said everything would be okay and managed to convince me to stay But that didn’t last long and now I’m in an even worse position because his flying-spaghetti-monster, who created God, because it’s good for society, there’s no way to prove beyond doubt arguments are just driving me crazy… Even worse though than this is our morals are so vastly different from each others… He basically doesn’t care much about anything because as he puts it “it all doesn’t matter in the end”.
The problem is though I say all of this I am deeply attached to him and I care for him deeply too… When I go to try and break up with him I just break down crying and don’t know what to say exactly and then he’ll comfort me and convince me it’s okay, but I know it’s not…
There might not be anything you can really say, in the end I just have to deal with it and do what needs to be done, but even if you can just say a prayer for me your help is appreciated
Part of this I guess is the need to vent it…Thanks God bless
