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AlanFromWichita
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I’ve heard from two different priests, one who mentioned it in his homily and the other who just quietly endured, that they found it extremely distracting and rude when people (typically old ladies but not always) would sit in the front row and be holding their rosary and mouthing it. They said the least they could do is go sit in the back where it isn’t right in their faces.There was a thread in here not too long ago where people who were advocating saying the Rosary during Mass, that saying a private devotion during a public liturgy was acceptable. This despite the public external act that could show they aren’t investing fully in the Mass.
If the perception is wrong there, that there’s nothing externally wrong with that and they are investing in the Mass fully, perhaps the perception of that some have with raising of the hands is off too.
On the hands raising issue, neither priest ever mentioned it as a problem.
The difference is, in one case the “abuse” is synchronized with what’s going on in the Mass, and in the other case it’s totally in collision with what’s going on.
So you want to make your parish priest happy? Get together with some others, get to church early enough to claim the entire front row so the whisperers and the mouthers are at least partly obscured. As an added bonus, you won’t be burdened with seeing “orans” on laity. You’ll probably need to be there 40 minutes early the first week (earlier each week after), and pretend you’re deaf and blind when they fuss at you to move and give them back “their” seats.
Alan