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DeniseNY
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You don’t have to be specific, but in what area would something like this happen?But if I walk into a mass where they have a rock band blaring away it’s just an instant turnoff.
You don’t have to be specific, but in what area would something like this happen?But if I walk into a mass where they have a rock band blaring away it’s just an instant turnoff.
Such bands are usually in front of the right-most pews (when facing the altar).You don’t have to be specific, but in what area would something like this happen?
This is my sentiment also. My son who has had a wonderful spiritual life in the local diocesan youth ministry decided to explore the traditional Latin Mass community. He thought the Mass was really beautiful but couldn’t break into the community. He’s a beautiful chaste and kind person who fits in in the local Catholic community, so he gave up on it. I said nothing but advised my son that it maybe wasn’t his thing. But in the last month my daughter who is also very involved in the diocesan youth ministry has been going to the local Monday Latin Mass and subsequent lecture. She has also been distinctly excluded along with a group of friends she went with. I don’t know whether they think she is not good enough for them? She and my son have embraced the faith and all the Church teachings. They are really good people. Holy children trying their best. I think that you have to be a certain type of person to be accepted by the traditional Latin Mass people and prepared to reject much of the post VII Church and popes. I don’t want my children to be like that but I do find it sad that they were drawn to the reverent ways but were repelled by the judgement and clique-ish culture.I think you’d see a lot more “old school” trappings in parishes if more people could express their preference for them without putting others down. Joyful enthusiasm for something is more infectious than being told your ways are inferior. I have been to some parishes where they are slowly increasing their “old school”-ness and I guarantee it’s due to people who are able to express themselves that way.
I always figured parish council members, deacons, choir members, heads of various ministries, etc were individuals with some sway.I think this is an interesting idea – that individuals can influence a priest and his way of celebrating Mass, and the decor of a parish. I suspect individuals don’t really hold that much sway.