I think my marriage is doomed

[Carjack1]

You have my prayers. Could you convert your husband?

I am certainly going to try . I am not going to force it though.

 

[Tracy10]

The way I see it, a child can’t be prevented from implanting and growing because once the child is there, he or she has already been implanted. You can’t unimplant something that’s been implanted; therefore only a seed can be prevented from being implanted. This is likely the argument most churches have used, which is why many have approved birth control pills.

This is the type of argument that could probably go on for months however, without reaching any conclusions except to depress this poor distraught lady more, and upset and possibly even tear the entire family apart, something God would surely prefer people didn’t contribute to.

At any rate, it’s not healthy for anyone in the family – mother, father, or children, to bring children into a family when either the father or mother doesn’t want it. Not only does that child have a serious chance of being neglected, but the entire family can suffer as a result. Children should be brought into a family only when they are welcomed and loved. So many neglected children today are neglected mainly because they were brought into the world without being wanted.

Unfortunately you can’t force people to either love or want something they don’t love or want. You can only force them to go through a pretense which will be exposed eventually, and the first one to notice that exposure will be the poor suffering child. That’s a sad fact.

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Every birth control pill works two ways, the hormones trick into not ovulating and they have a backup, if you do ovulate and concieve a child, the child is prevented from implanting and growing, thus you have a spontaneous miscarriage - aka - abortion.

Look on the insert paper that comes with any of them, it tells you this.

 

[ElizabethAnne]

The way I see it, a child can’t be prevented from implanting and growing because once the child is there, he or she has already been implanted. You can’t unimplant something that’s been implanted; therefore only a seed can be prevented from being implanted. This is likely the argument most churches have used, which is why many have approved birth control pills.

If you want to use an analogy, the seed would be the sperm, not an already formed and growing embryo. Once the sperm and egg meet in the fallopian tube, conception occurs and a new being with its own DNA is formed.

Birth control pills thin the lining of the uterus, taking away what that small child needs in order to continue to grow. The child dies. That is abortion.