I want to be a priest

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I’m 17, I feel called to be a priest, I feel lucky that i also want to be a priest. I am a senior in high school in San Antonio TX. I was wondering if there were like any orders i could join straight out of high school. All the ones i have looked at you need a BA in order to begin the seminary, but i don’t want a BA, lol, i am not opposed to learning, I just don’t feel like I can waste time with the world about to end in 2012.

Just Kidding… Anyways… I feel called to do something with the people, not like a monastic/ community life, or like a contemplative community. I also want to live simply.
 
Every priest requires a serious amount of education. It equips you for your future role advising people, educating them about the faith and so on.

Whether you were in seminary or out of it, you’d spend at least that amount of time studying, you’d never become a priest straight out of high school in any event.
 
Every priest requires a serious amount of education. It equips you for your future role advising people, educating them about the faith and so on.

Whether you were in seminary or out of it, you’d spend at least that amount of time studying, you’d never become a priest straight out of high school in any event.
Thank you for your reply, but i never claimed I would become a priest right out of high school, and i also acknowledged that I would need to study, I was just wondering if their were seminaries where I could join the seminary right out of high school, not become a priest right out of high school
 
There are some seminaries that are now accepting young men out of high school. Here are a few (I know of at least one young man out of high school to be admitted to each of these institutions):

The F.S.S.P. (Latin Mass) has a seminary in Denton, NE. Website

The Norbertines have an abbey in Orange County, CA. Website

The Carmelite Monks have a monastery in Clark, WY. Website

May God bless you and help you in your discernment!
 
a vocation to the priesthood is a beautiful calling. but a very serious one, it is not someting to be entered into lightly. it takes a lot of prayer and thought and talking to friends and family. I would recomend (if my advice is worth anything) discern the priesthood first and if you feel called to that after much prayer, then worry about which order or diocese you are called to. but the bottum line is if you surender yourself to the Lord and let Him guide you you can never go wrong
 
First, get a spiritual director.

Second, you will need a BA in philosophy for most religious orders and all dioceses that I know of.

The requirements for entering a major seminary are 30 credits of philosophy (hence the major in philosophy) and 12 credits of theology.

In the major seminary you will complete the Masters of Divinity program which is a four year professional masters degree program.

If you truly do not wish to continue studies then the priesthood is not your calling.
 
I am delighted to hear that you would like to be a priest - but having established what you want, you will have to spend the next number of months finding out if it’s what God wants! So, you should speak to the diocesan vocations director very soon, or else talk to a priest whom you know and trust. As you probably know, one doesn’t just enter the seminary in the autumn - there is the discernment process which will involve meetings with the vocations director, interviews, and probably psychological testing… so get the ball rolling now!

Are you dismissing diocesan priesthood because of the B.A. requirement? If so, you will need to do a lot of research, because I don’t think there is any religious community that won’t require you to undertake studies in philosophy. In fact, while training for diocesan priesthood normally takes around seven years, I know that there are some orders where it would be twice as long before you make your final vows.

In addition, you may not be suited to life in a religious community - you may be more suited to diocesan priesthood. There are major differences between the two, so don’t rule either out too hastily. You will be unhappy and unable to give your best for God if you’re not in the right place.
 
Clarifications: I NEVER want to quit studying 😛 I am just interested in doing my studies whilst already a part of religious life. you know? And for the sake of this thread, lets assume God wrote me a letter that said, ‘be a priest’. Lol, And I know I need to do a lot of discerning, and a lot of that jazz, and I don’t take it lightly, honestly, I’m scared…

Kind of off topic, but i feel like God has given me a great gift, past the calling (that I feel I have) but the fact that I WANT to be a priest. It’s like I have this want, and He’s told me to run with it :D. Thats why I say what I want a lot. I don’t think I explained that very well, but I know how I feel, lol, and thanks again for yalls help
 
Clarifications: I NEVER want to quit studying 😛 I am just interested in doing my studies whilst already a part of religious life. you know? And for the sake of this thread, lets assume God wrote me a letter that said, ‘be a priest’. Lol, And I know I need to do a lot of discerning, and a lot of that jazz, and I don’t take it lightly, honestly, I’m scared…

Kind of off topic, but i feel like God has given me a great gift, past the calling (that I feel I have) but the fact that I WANT to be a priest. It’s like I have this want, and He’s told me to run with it :D. Thats why I say what I want a lot. I don’t think I explained that very well, but I know how I feel, lol, and thanks again for yalls help
I understand you wanting to do your studies while, as you say, already being part of religious life. But to me, that sounds like what you might get with a religious order, though I’m not sure - but didn’t you say in your first post that you don’t want to be in a monastic community? So, I think you really have to look beyond your studies - we know that a number of years of study is unavoidable. Do you see yourself living in a monastery with perhaps 20-30 priests/monks/friars/brothers etc., or do you see yourself ministering as a diocesan priest - where you would more than likely be living on your own or with only one or two others. If it’s the latter, then you will have to look at the diocesan seminary really - though as far as I’m aware, many orders may send their students to the seminary anyway for certain courses. Depending on which seminary you choose (or are sent to) there should be a good sense of being in a religious community anyway - with things like daily Mass, Divine Office, Adoration, meals taken together, etc.
 
I feel I am called to serve people, so like a religious community that ‘caters’ to the community around them, or abroad. I’m not quite sure I completely understand the way religious orders work well enough to explain what I am talking about. If someone could better explain it, that would be nice
 
I feel I am called to serve people, so like a religious community that ‘caters’ to the community around them, or abroad. I’m not quite sure I completely understand the way religious orders work well enough to explain what I am talking about. If someone could better explain it, that would be nice
As I’m in Ireland, I don’t know what sort of options are open to you in San Antonio - are there many religious orders in the area? You know, like Dominicans, Franciscans, Augustinians, etc… There are bound to be some at least. There could be many orders in the area that you don’t know about - they don’t all live in big monasteries: some small groups occupy simple houses that are no different from anyone else’s (on the outside at least:D).

Most orders, especially if they’re situated in the city, will have some sort of contact with the community. Some may teach in schools or universities, others may be chaplains to hospitals or schools, some may be actively involved in parish ministry & they may have a parish entrusted to them by the bishop. I think it might be worth your while looking into some local religious communities and seeing what they do. One order that comes to mind in terms of community involvement is the “Franciscan Friars of the Renewal”. They’ve done some marvellous work here in Ireland…building on successes on the other side of the Atlantic!

You also mention about working abroad - missionary work perhaps? You’d definately be living a simple life in that case! I don’t know much about the missionary orders, but there are many - one that was popular in Ireland was “The Holy Ghost Fathers”, now known as “The Spiritans”. The local diocesan office could probably give you some relevant contact details if you drop them an e-mail.
 
It’s great to hear that you are considering the priesthood. believe me, i know where you’re coming from exactly, i have been in your shoes. i wanted to finish high school and be ordained asap (ie, i wanted to choose the fastest track to ordination). i don’t know how long you have been considering the priesthood, but now is the time to do some pretty major things to move beyond just considering.
first off, if you want to be a priest, start living the life of a Christian man. secondly, tell your parents what you’re thinking. i kept my desire/curiosity about the priesthood/religious-life secret (aside from online) for over four years. if you can do this easily, then i’m happy for you, but it isn’t always that easy.
Next, contact your diocesan vocations director, talk with you pastor- these men have already gone through what you’re experiencing, and they should be able to help you discern. Even if you don’t know whether or not you’re called to the diocesan priesthood, i would still do this and share these feelings/thoughts with these men.
If you are thinking more along the lines of joining an order, then i would start researching now, and then contact the director of vocations and visit the community.

random advice:
prayer- i was encouraged to start pivotal hours of the Office (morning and evening). i personally find the rosary a great in my prayer life
sacraments- i can’t stress the importance of confession and eucharist for everybody, but as somebody discerning his vocation, even more so.
finally, as you discern your vocation, look for the three A’s
attraction- does this life appeal to me? can i see myself doing this until i die?
aptitude- do i fit this life? have i been given the gifts for this life?
acceptance- have i been accepted by the order/bishop?

you’re in my prayers
p.s.
sorry, just a tic of mine, but don’t use like so often when you speak, let alone write
 
Thank y’all, Everyone know I want to be a priest, I learned it myself in front of 70 people 😛
My friends like to introduce me with an added, ‘he wants to be a priest’. (someone actually came up to me the other day and asked if I would hear their confession, don’t really know why they thought that 😛 (of course I told them I couldn’t ( Actually I said I could, but I had no right to absolve them ) lol ))
 
Make an appointment to sit down and talk to a priest about this. Pray to the Holy Spirit for light direction and strength. You learned you might be called to be a priest in front of 70 people how did that happen?
 
I have been talking to a Fr. Banks O.M.I.

I was on an ACTS retreat (co-director) and I was asked to give a ‘speech’ on how God calls me, and I was thinking about what to say, and all I could remember was how I had kind of thought about being a priest when i was younger (hadn’t thought about it one bit for about 4 years) and also about this nun I had heard speak at a Regional Catholic Youth Conference, and about what she had said about her calling. ( She was in Adoration and God ’ got down on one knee and proposed’, and he didn’t stand up until she had excepted the call a while later. And i was giving this ‘speech’ and while I was talking about Gods love, something clicked in my mind, and I began to weep, and it was beautiful, and I haven’t really thought of doing anything but becoming a priest since.
 
Let’s clarify something here. Does the OP want to be a priest? Does he want to be a religious? Does he want to be both?

They are not the same calling. Please, for God’s sake, I ask the lay people on these threads not to mix them up. The call to the priesthood is very different from the call to religious life. All of you are talking about “religious priests” as if there were such a thing in the Catholic Church. THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A RELIGIOUS PRIEST!

There are priests who are also religious or religious who are also priests, which ever way you want to say it. Their proper title is Regular Priests, becasue they live according to a religious rule (regula in Latin). But they are two different calls and one does not depend on the other. You can be either one or the other or both.

If you choose to enter a religious order or religious congregation, you must first complete your religious formation before you can be ordained. You can only be ordained if your religious superior calls you forth for Holy Orders. The fact that you say you want to be a priest, does not guarrantee that it is going to happen in a religious community.

There are religious communities that are clerical. It is assumed that all or most of their religious will become priests. However, they must show that they have a vocation to the life of that religiosu community, first. If they do, they will be allowed to make vows. Aftward they will be invited to be ordained deacon and priest. However, the community can decided against the ordination, even after a man has made vows. In that case, the man is bound to remain all the days of his life as a member of that community, observing the rule and constitutions and living the life of that community.

If the religious community allows a man to be ordained, the priest is still bound by the life of his community and can only engage in those ministries and works that the community allows. There is no guarrantee that a priest who is a religious will end up serving the laity in a parish. Many priests in religious communities never see a parish. They serve in the missions, in formation, administration or as teachers, college professors, retreat masters, itinerant preachers, confessors to convents and other institutions, prison ministry, hospital work, soup kitchens, social work, counselors, janitors, cooks, mass media communication, college ministry and so forth. Religious communities have many ministries. One has to select a religious community that has ministries in the field where one believes Christ is calling him.

If you join the Jesuits, chances are that you will teach or preach. The chances of serving in a parish are small. If you join the Franciscans, chances are that you will serve in a soup kitchen, walk the streets, do retreat work, or be a scholar. Your chances of being a parish priest are about 30%. If you join the Fathers of Mercy, you will more than likely end up in mission work. If you join the Marianists you will teach and so forth.

The point I’m making is that if you join a religious community, you will not have a choice in your minsitry. You minister where the community ministers. You have to discern what community Christ calls you to. That is going to be determined by what way of life Christ is calling you to.

One thing about all religious communities is that they all require at least a Master’s Degree. Very few will admit a candidate to their novitiate before he completes his BA or BS. Most require either a major or minor in philosophy. Br. David has already explained that his community requiers a BA in philosophy. The Franciscans do not. We require a minor in philosophy and a major in a subject of your choosing. For example, my BS is in math with a minor in philosophy. My masters is a four-year Master of Arts in Theology and my Doctorate is a five-year Sacred Theology Doctorate in Mystical Theology. But as you can see, both communities require a minimum of a Master’s Degree in the end. Rarely does a religious community admit you to the novitiate without a BA. In the Franciscans, you can’t enter the postulancy without a BA. The postulancy is a two-year program before you enter the novitiate. We make no difference between friars who are going to be ordained or not. All friars must have an MA in Theology or the professional degree, an M.Div. Both are four-year master’s degrees.

Hope this helps.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
I know while i was looking into the Capuchins, the process for me (coming out of high school), would be to go to their house of formation at Loyola University (i think, or another college in the Chicago area) and this would have been basically college seminary. Another order i looked into, required at least college OR two years of real life experience (working, military, etc), but it was suggested that you should finish your studies. again, speak with the orders that you have interest in and find out what they say. if you are really called, for example, to be a friar, but the order says you need a college degree first, this is probably God’s way of asking you to be patient and practice your obedience. The quickest way to your goal may not be the best way, so take your time in discernment (you don’t need to rush into active ministry to be the world’s saviour, we already have one).

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i looked at the OMI site, it seems that do some sort of primary training (getting a taste of religious life, testing the order, testing your calling) before they use St. John Vianney College Seminary to get a BA, followed by more schooling. here’s the website
 
Thank y’all again,
another clerification, when i said serve the people I didnt mean nececeraly as a parish priest. (If i said that I didnt mean to)
 
Thank y’all again,
another clerification, when i said serve the people I didnt mean nececeraly as a parish priest. (If i said that I didnt mean to)
That’s important to keep clear in one’s mind when exploring the religious life. There are many ways that priests in religious orders serve God’s people. Some have very active apostolates and others have very “anonymous” apostolates, such as the Carthusians who never leave their hermitage. But their prayer life is their ministry to God’s people. Then there are communities that fall between let’s say the active ministry of a Jesuit and the prayerful ministry of a Carthusian. Nonetheless, both are equally necessary to the life of the Church. I would venture to say that the ministry of the Carthusians is a greater source of grace for the Church than the ministry of a Jesuit, not because he’s a Jesuit, because prayer and penance are much more powerful than any other gift that we can offer for God’s people. However, not all of us will find salvation that way. God wants us to save souls, beginning with our own.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
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