''I was raised Catholic'' and cafeteria Catholics

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This video got me thinking. How many times have you ever heard the phrase ‘I was raised Catholic.’’ I have quite a few family members, they would probably consider themselves Catholic but if you asked them anything about the faith they probably couldn’t tell you much. Maybe this happens among other Christian denominations too, ‘I was raised Baptist,’ ‘I was raised Evangelical,’ but it seems more common among ‘Catholics.’ There are also the cafeteria ‘Catholics’ who only go to Church once a year, Christmas or Easter. Have you ever heard a person say ‘I was raised Muslim?’ Or a person say ‘I was raised Hindu?’ Rarely. Even then it is usually because they converted to another religion isn’t it?

Catholic apologist Peter Kreeft
compared the devout Muslim’s readiness to serve God to the “humility and obedience displayed by Christian saints.”

He also commented that this example could serve as a lesson to today’s Catholics, “who all too often treat the demands made by their own faith as mere suggestions, to be taken or rejected by the self-directed individual conscience.”

zenit.org/article-31287?l=english

Why is there lack of devotion to Catholicism among some Catholics, and lack of knowledge of the faith among some ‘Catholics?’ How do we fix this?
 
How many times have you ever heard the phrase ‘I was raised Catholic.’’ I have quite a few family members, they would probably consider themselves Catholic but if you asked them anything about the faith they probably couldn’t tell you much. Maybe this happens among other Christian denominations too, ‘I was raised Baptist,’ ‘I was raised Evangelical,’ but it seems more common among ‘Catholics.’ There are also the cafeteria ‘Catholics’ who only go to Chuch once a year, Christmas or Easter. Have you ever heard a person say ‘I was raised Muslim?’ Or a person say ‘I was raised Hindu?’ Rarely. Even then it is usually because they converted to another religion. Why is there lack of devotion, and lack of knowledge of the faith among some ‘Catholics?’
Believe me, this is not exclusive to Catholics. I am not even sure it is even more commion among Catholics, esp. with the wide variety of different Protestant beliefs, even within the same denomination. I think your exposure to Protestanism may be limited.

There are serious, practicing Christians among Protestants, and serious practicing Christians among Catholics. And then there are those among both that don’t have a clue, or never set foot in a church–which is probably the majority.
 
This is definitely not exclusive to Catholics or Christianity for that matter.

Mass or its equivalent is simply a Sunday happy pill to a lot of people.

How do we fix it?

I think the only thing that can fix it is great teachers in Catechism programs.
 
I thought “I was raised Catholic” meant “I don’t consider myself Catholic anymore, but the Catholic Church still claims me on their membership rolls.”
 
This video got me thinking. How many times have you ever heard the phrase ‘I was raised Catholic.’’ I have quite a few family members, they would probably consider themselves Catholic but if you asked them anything about the faith they probably couldn’t tell you much. Maybe this happens among other Christian denominations too, ‘I was raised Baptist,’ ‘I was raised Evangelical,’ but it seems more common among ‘Catholics.’ There are also the cafeteria ‘Catholics’ who only go to Church once a year, Christmas or Easter. Have you ever heard a person say ‘I was raised Muslim?’ Or a person say ‘I was raised Hindu?’ Rarely. Even then it is usually because they converted to another religion isn’t it?

Catholic apologist Peter Kreeft
compared the devout Muslim’s readiness to serve God to the “humility and obedience displayed by Christian saints.”

He also commented that this example could serve as a lesson to today’s Catholics, “who all too often treat the demands made by their own faith as mere suggestions, to be taken or rejected by the self-directed individual conscience.”

zenit.org/article-31287?l=english

Why is there lack of devotion to Catholicism among some Catholics, and lack of knowledge of the faith among some ‘Catholics?’ How do we fix this?
This is far from unique, both in Christianity and other religions. How to fix it? Be the best Catholics we can be, raise our kids with a sold faith foundation, and pray.
 
Helping others be better Catholics starts with you being a better Catholic.
 
I thought “I was raised Catholic” meant “I don’t consider myself Catholic anymore, but the Catholic Church still claims me on their membership rolls.”
Yes, it could mean that, or it could just mean what it says, that a person was raised Catholic even if they are still a practical Catholic.
 
To be honest, what do you expect from the watered-down rubbish we’ve been getting since the 1970’s? It has spread its wings across the world. Children hear maxims in Mass like “I am special - you are special” and “the family that prayed together stayed together”… but the former, as we know, is just silliness… and the latter is meaningless without teaching.

Now, being a newly-born Catholic (April 23), I can sadly say that my faith was not created by any missionary activity whatever. It may be granted that I’m a very solitary person, and history was my own route… but it would have been nice if one single cradle Catholic had given me some advice. I don’t count my Franciscan friar friends, because that’s “their job” - to evangelise visibly. How lovely it might have worked out to be if even one member of the laity had helped in my conversion. I came to the local cathedral because my parents were married there… the one Catholic I knew well was an apostate who had only gone on Sunday because his grandmother had gone to Mass! Ironically, I dragged him to go to Mass, and now he’s struggling to care enough to be confirmed… 😛

There is so little interest among the laity here in Canada. Part of it is attributed to the priests and bishops, part of it to the people, and part of it to the surrounding culture influenced by totally relativist, nihilist Existentialism. Sartre and Russell did a lot more harm than anyone cares to recognise - not just in university libraries and academic quarters, but in every pathetic, shriveled young mind that can no longer think logically.
 
I know that not being completely devote to your religion is not just a Catholic thing. I think the people that aren’t true Catholics are just more honest about how they view religion than others. I live in the South, and I know a lot of kids around my age (ranging from 12-18) just say “I’m Baptist”, but they don’t really know what that means. So…saying “I was raised Catholic” just meant that if they went to church as kid, they went to a Catholic church. 🙂
 
This video got me thinking. How many times have you ever heard the phrase ‘I was raised Catholic.’’ I have quite a few family members, they would probably consider themselves Catholic but if you asked them anything about the faith they probably couldn’t tell you much. . . .
Better than parroting a faith is to practice it, and there’s no one alive who cannot grow more in the faith or practice it more devoutly or have more love for God and neighbor.
 
This video got me thinking. How many times have you ever heard the phrase ‘I was raised Catholic.’’ I have quite a few family members, they would probably consider themselves Catholic but if you asked them anything about the faith they probably couldn’t tell you much. Maybe this happens among other Christian denominations too, ‘I was raised Baptist,’ ‘I was raised Evangelical,’ but it seems more common among ‘Catholics.’ There are also the cafeteria ‘Catholics’ who only go to Church once a year, Christmas or Easter. Have you ever heard a person say ‘I was raised Muslim?’ Or a person say ‘I was raised Hindu?’ Rarely. Even then it is usually because they converted to another religion isn’t it?

Catholic apologist Peter Kreeft
compared the devout Muslim’s readiness to serve God to the “humility and obedience displayed by Christian saints.”

He also commented that this example could serve as a lesson to today’s Catholics, “who all too often treat the demands made by their own faith as mere suggestions, to be taken or rejected by the self-directed individual conscience.”

zenit.org/article-31287?l=english

Why is there lack of devotion to Catholicism among some Catholics, and lack of knowledge of the faith among some ‘Catholics?’ How do we fix this?
It took a long time.

1960 The FDA approves the birth control pill.

1967 The Pill enters widespread use, promising freedom from worry about unplanned pregnancies.

1968 Pope Paul VI has Humanae Vitae published. He tells Catholics what will happen if they start using artificial birth control. There are protests inside and outside the Church. Some priests even sign a letter against it. The so-called Sexual Revolution begins. And increased promiscuity.

1970s What should be private and limited to marriage is exposed to the public. Adult Bookstores selling images of prostitutes appear everywhere. It’s legal, so why not? Christians protest but the owners’ high-priced lawyers yell Freedom of Expression! First Amendment! We’ll look at whatever we want to look at!

The National Organization for Women launches a campaign against men. All women are now victims, all men are the enemy. Universities begin offering course in Women’s Studies as if a species relationship no longer exists between men and women. This creates an atmosphere of fear and suspicion between the sexes, which makes it easier for…

1980s No-Fault Divorce sweeps the country. A classified ad I saw read: “No kids? $75 and you’re out. Call 800-DIVORCE.”

Porn on cable.

1990s Into the abyss. Shock jocks, rap, filthy talk on the radio. Then the internet.

I grew up in the 1950s and 1960s. We sinned but the difference between then and now was simple: We tried. We controlled our words and actions and what was private stayed private. I thank God for the positive role-models I had. Even as a boy, I could see their self-restraint. Bad words were not meant to be said out loud. There were rules about talking to other people. You said please and thank you. You addressed adults as Mister and Missus. We had an appropriate sense of guilt and shame.

But how much shame do we see exhibited by actors and actresses today? In the 1970s, I was surprised to find out a Hippie friend of mine was living with his girlfriend. When I brought up marriage, he said, “I don’t need no piece of paper to live with my old lady.”

The media helped during that time period by showing people acting out behaviors that were consistent with our upbringing and we had mostly good, kind and helpful neighbors.

So as time passed, people gradually began to act out immoral behaviors because they thought it might make them happier or make life easier, and then the media put this immoral acting out on TV and in the movies.

The quickest fix is to be authentically Catholic, be aware of what the media is giving us, and avoid it once you understand it. Example: A new TV show titled Happily Divorced. Or Dexter, a show about a serial killer who only kills bad people.

I think even some born and raised Catholics are wondering what to do, especially if there was an abortion, a divorce and other sin they think they can’t confess. One lady I knew told me after her second, civil marriage: “I’m not getting an annulment, then my kids would be bastards.”

Destroying the family and the mutigenerational family ties that go with it was job one.

The Church wants everyone back, even if it’s been 30 years or longer.

Peace,
Ed
 
I thought “I was raised Catholic” meant “I don’t consider myself Catholic anymore, but the Catholic Church still claims me on their membership rolls.”
I was raised Catholic but the Catholic Church no longer has a claim on me

drywall 👍
 
I was raised Catholic but the Catholic Church no longer has a claim on me

drywall 👍
That’s not true. Baptism leave an indelibles mark upon the soul which can never be erased. Once a Catholic, always a Catholic.
 
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