I would like to ask some questions to former Protestants turned Catholic (Catholics welcome too).

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Well, I’m an Anglican, but I can say that many of your issues are probably not things to worry over.
#1. Mary. She is my biggest problem. The Church teaches that she was born sinless, remained a virgin all her life, was assumed into heaven body and soul, and now is “Queen of Heaven”. As a Protestant, that’s really hard to swallow. Also the rosary,# I bought one at a Catholic gift shop, and I memorized the prayer and everything. So I thought I would pray. In the middle of the prayer, I began to feel such guilt that I was hurting Christ by doing this. So I stopped and haven’t prayed since. I don’t know what to do or where to go from here.
Remember that the perpetual virginity and sinlessness of Mary has been the constant teaching of the Church - it is as old as the Bible itself. Scripturally, we look to the words of the angel who said that she was “full of Grace”. Ask yourself what it would really mean to be actually full of Grace, and to ask God to dwell within us as completely as Mary did.

Also, the teaching is always that Mary remained sinless through the Grace of Christ, just as any of us may have the opportunity to do so now. This brings up an important point - while Many Protestants talk about having a “sin nature” that isn’t really something the apostolic churches talk about. They do not say our nature was actually changed to a bad sin nature - it remains good as God made it. What Catholics do say is that it bears a “stain” of Original Sin. This stain makes it very difficult for us to do the right thing, or sometimes to figure out what the right thing is. But with Grace it can be healed and united to Christ. The CC teaches that this happened perfectly with Mary, and even from the time of her birth.
#2. Praying to the saints. I was always taught that praying to dead people was useless, and it would not be Heaven for them if they saw the sufferings here on earth.
That is an interesting question, but if it is true, does it mean that people in Heaven no longer remember the suffering they saw or experienced on Earth? What about the suffering of Christ? I think it would be better to say that for these people, they no longer perceive suffering in the same way. They see how it is all part of God’s plan and contributes to his Glory one way or the other.
#3. Purgatory. Not in so much of its existence, but do we really have power to help the dead by praying prayers?
The Catholic Church is very specific about purgatory, and I don’t personally accept their entire understanding of it. But as far as praying for the dead - it has again been the continual teaching of the Church that it is proper to pray for the dead. Remember that we are all, including the dead, still part of God’s Church - as we see in Revelation with the saints praying around the Heavenly Throne. We can all, in some way, affect each other with our prayers.

Remember to that we do not know how God uses our prayers to help others. God is not bound by time. It is entirely possible that God may take our prayers for the dead, and apply them to a time when the person was still alive.
#4. Statues. Now I don’t mind using them for decorations like the nativity scene, but using them as a visual when praying, doesn’t that go against the verse in the Bible where it says that we are to pray in spirit?
Praying using images, without praying in spirit and truth, would be a bad thing. As would praying to statues and mistaking the representation for the thing itself. But those are not what is taught.

A statue or image is a representation of something real, usually something physical. In the iconoclastic heresies, the argument has been that it is not approprite to depict the dead or Christ. The councils of the Church rejected this though, saying that to reject images of Christ is to reject the Incarnation. The reason we can make a picture of Christ is because he really did become a man and is not just a spirit. The saints are alive in Christ and themselves will be one day re-embodied.

So having images is an affirmation of the Incarnation and in the Ressurection of the Body. Interestingly you will see fewer depictions of the Father, and in the Eastern Church it is not allowed to depict the Father. There are also theological reasons for that.

There are good practical reasons for images too. Historically many could not read; it is helpful to those who learn visually; and perhaps most importantly, correct images help prevent us from imagining images of our own when we pray or read Scripture - something which can be difficult to prevent. The images that our imagination comes up with are often theologically incorrect or factual incorrect, and sometimes we don’t even realize we are focusing on them. We now the icon or statue is just an image, but we can mistake the thing in our mind for the “real thing” more easily.So using a correct image can prevent that kind of problem.

Remember to that an image is a symbol of something, like a word is a symbol. The important thing is that religious images, like Scripture, is a symbol of something real. But neither is actually the real thing it symbolizes.
#5. And finally the Pope. Is he really the representative of or Lord Jesus Christ on earth, and can he change things?
Well, I don’t think so in the way Catholics do, obviously, but I am sure others can comment on this issue.

Take care and God Bless.
 
One key thing to remember about Mary and her role in salvation, as well as her titles and honors is that they all relate to her as a subordinate creature to Christ. Her position as Theotokos, or the one who brought the Incarnate Word into the world is one of great honor, but it is only an honor because it is Christ Jesus who she was the chosen vessel to bring to us. Her glory is that she unlike the rest of us, gave herself fully to God and His will. She is a shining example of what God can do with and through each of us. Any honors given her, are for how she reflected the Goodness of God in her life, and how she takes any honors given to her and offers them to God her savior.

True Catholic Mariology is centered not one and in Mary, but in Christ Jesus, from whom the Great Glory and Graces originate. Mary may appear to some to be the focus, but due to her humility, any honors paid to her, are for how she reflects God’s goodness.

If you look up at the moon at night, what you see is a reflection of the sun off the moon. If you look at the brightness of Mary, it is that she deminished herself so the God could shine through her, and be reflected to us. One day we will hopefully be with Her in heaven, there we will be able to look directly upon Her son Jesus and see all things according to God’s original plan.
 
Thank you, I really do need prayers right now. I have 2 follow up questions, if its ok, on Mary and purgatory. How do we know these things to be true, if its not in the Bible, then how do we know about the teachings on Mary? Was it the Pope or a council? And where did they/he
get it? Was it something passed down, or revealed, and if it was revealed, how does a
revelation happen? A dream, vision or like it just sort of happens? Lol sorry for all the questions, I just want to be totally informed on how everything works. Thanks!
 
Regarding purgatory, this is a strange doctrine if you think of it in terms of location. If you think of it as a state of being, between Heaven and life on Earth, it gets easier. Scripture tells us that no unclean thing will enter the Kingdom of Heaven, will we be “unclean” when we die. If we have an attachment to this world or imperfections, it cannot enter the Kingdom. Purgatory is a chance to perfect ourselves, kind of like a grace to help us enter Heaven. We will be able to let go of this life and embrace the world to come. I think of it as the desert in the Exodus. We will only be there as long as it takes to separate us from this life and our sinfulness.

As for prayers to Mary and the Saints, we are asking for their prayers on our behalf. Christians who die are very much alive in heaven, what do you think they do? My understanding is that they serve God, this includes prayer for us. If you ever ask for a friend to pray for you, it is the same with these types of prayers. That said, I don’t call on Mary or the Saints very often. I don’t have much in the way of devotion to them, but I am a “new” Catholic. I know people who only started praying the rosary after 40 years of being Catholic.
 
So I thought I would pray. In the middle of the prayer, I began to feel such guilt that I was hurting Christ by doing this. So I stopped and haven’t prayed since. I don’t know what to do or where to go from here.
Even though I was born catholic, there was a time when I read some things and felt really guilty when praying the rosary. My advice for this is just keep praying! I’m sure that its satan doing everything he can to stop you from praying this very powerful prayer! just keep trying!
 
Hi, my name is David, I am 17 and am looking to become a Catholic. But I have a few stumbling blocks on the way, and I can’t ignore them. Right now I am currently an Evangelical Baptist, but I am not, how do you say, happy and full in my spiritual life, and something is pulling me to the Catholic Church. The unity, the love, the respect in your churches for the lord is just amazing. But like I said, there are a few things stopping me. So I was hoping, that people who were once Protestant, who understand my position, would share their experience in converting to Catholicism, and how they got through some of things that are a stumbling block like:

#1. Mary. She is my biggest problem. The Church teaches that she was born sinless, remained a virgin all her life, was assumed into heaven body and soul, and now is “Queen of Heaven”. As a Protestant, that’s really hard to swallow. Also the rosary,# I bought one at a Catholic gift shop, and I memorized the prayer and everything. So I thought I would pray. In the middle of the prayer, I began to feel such guilt that I was hurting Christ by doing this. So I stopped and haven’t prayed since. I don’t know what to do or where to go from here.

#2. Praying to the saints. I was always taught that praying to dead people was useless, and it would not be Heaven for them if they saw the sufferings here on earth.

#3. Purgatory. Not in so much of its existence, but do we really have power to help the dead by praying prayers?

#4. Statues. Now I don’t mind using them for decorations like the nativity scene, but using them as a visual when praying, doesn’t that go against the verse in the Bible where it says that we are to pray in spirit?

#5. And finally the Pope. Is he really the representative of or Lord Jesus Christ on earth, and can he change things?

These are pretty much it, I think. As for everything else, I believe, like the true presence in the Eucharist (even Martin Luther believed that), the sacraments, child baptism, etc. But the five things I listed have been bugging me, I mean I have heard Catholic apologetics on EWTN answer these questions of mine, but still, it feels like a huge leap for me. So if you could please share your stories with me, I would be very thankful. Hopefully, I can soon join the Catholic Church. Thanks so much and may God Bless You All!
I am just going to tell you my story.

I converted to Catholicism at Easter Vigil 2008. I was 61 years old and completely ignorant of what Christianity really is. I thought I was a Christian. After all I had called myself a Presbyterian all my life. But, I had never been baptized and I didn’t realize at the time that baptism was so important.

I never said the Sinner’s Prayer. It never seemed real to me. It always seemed a manipulative thing to me. The altar call. Couldn’t do it.

I had gone to church occasionally when I was young but not as an adult. After many years I started going to church. I just wanted to worship God. That’s all. Should have been so simple. But every place I went seemed so person oriented. Not God oriented.

Someone I had been doing business with told me about RCIA. Now I didn’t know at the time but he truly lives his faith. I went to see him one day but he wasn’t at work. When I asked about him I was told he was in the hospital. I didn’t even know he was sick! That’s when I found out that he had donated one of his kidneys to someone he doesn’t even know. Just a fellow Catholic at another parish. I have since met the person he donated his kidney to. He told me that he was given 15 more years of life because a man I knew truly believed and gave of himself.

It took me a year to actually start going to RCIA. You see, I knew the rule. I knew that if I became Catholic I would have to go to Mass every single Sunday and I just wasn’t sure that I wanted to give God one whole hour a week. I am amazed that I am still here to tell you this.

During RCIA, I went to Mass. And I knew. This is true worship. I kept going to Mass, every SINGLE Sunday.

I now am co-owner of a Catholic bookstore and go to daily Mass. God is so much more than we think. I thank God every single day that He made me Catholic.

Study and pray. Mostly pray and let the Holy Spirit lead you. It is amazing what God does. He is calling you. And in His Grace you are saved.
 
Hello David. Welcome to CAF. Just wanted to say, may Holy Spirit guide you on your journey.

God bless

jesus g
 
I like Fr. Robert Barron’s video on the role of the Church and it’s Authority:

youtube.com/watch?v=RWYwBDqFsuE&list=FLQQUSDeMWVwPfElwNC2mtLA&index=8

The authority of the Church is the main reason I came back to being Catholic. It became apparent to me that there was no authority in the protestant churches and without that I realized that anyone could make themselves a preacher and teach whatever they wanted. They could start their own church and be held accountable to no one. However, the Catholic Church is universal, that’s what Catholic means, and all remain accountable to someone else all the way back to the pope, who is the successor of Peter.

I wish you luck. I, personally, am so glad that God helped me become Catholic again. The Bible makes so much more sense now, life makes so much more sense now… and it’s really neat to be connected to a 2000 year old tradition that is so deep and rich in theology, philosophy, art, charity etc… It really is a wonderful feeling. I have prayed that God will lead you successfully in His will.
 
Thank you, I really do need prayers right now. I have 2 follow up questions, if its ok, on Mary and purgatory. How do we know these things to be true, if its not in the Bible, then how do we know about the teachings on Mary? Was it the Pope or a council? And where did they/he
get it? Was it something passed down, or revealed, and if it was revealed, how does a
revelation happen? A dream, vision or like it just sort of happens? Lol sorry for all the questions, I just want to be totally informed on how everything works. Thanks!
David: as I told you in my former post, the doctrine of Immaculate Conception of Mary and the Assumption took 1800/1900 years to reflect and to put it in dogma. It is impossible for you, at such a young Age,go through the thousand of pages that were written about the subject and some of them you would not understand as they are pure philosophy and theology. The Catholic Church does not go much for visions, dreams and private inspiration. If someone claims there is a miracle, He/She has to go through a battery of tests by independent doctors (even atheists) and a battery of interrogations from Bishops and Cardinals and even so … it is hard to have a miracle approved by the Church.

So, believe me, 1900 years of reflection cannot go wrong! When happened the last Mary’s dogmas, it was asked to the Bishops of all the world if it should be proclaimed, and out of 2000, only half a dozen said no. So, it is the Whole Church feeling around the Pope.

Again, if you trust the Feeling of the Whole church around the Pope, you trust.You trust because the Church feels so not because you read all the books about it.

As you may guess, unless you take a course of philosophy and theology, you may understand all the details of the whole Faith, and that is what Priests, Bishops and theologians do. We, lay people, do not have the time…
 
Right now I am going through RCIA myself, and have had many questions. My thoughts on praying to saints: Why not? You’re only asking someone else to intercede on your behalf. Why not ask someone else to pray for you? I personally feel like I can use all the prayers I can get. I know this is much less of an educated answer than the rest, but it’s what makes sense to me.
 
Hi, my name is David, I am 17 and am looking to become a Catholic. But I have a few stumbling blocks on the way, and I can’t ignore them. Right now I am currently an Evangelical Baptist, but I am not, how do you say, happy and full in my spiritual life, and something is pulling me to the Catholic Church. The unity, the love, the respect in your churches for the lord is just amazing. But like I said, there are a few things stopping me. So I was hoping, that people who were once Protestant, who understand my position, would share their experience in converting to Catholicism, and how they got through some of things that are a stumbling block like:

#1. Mary. She is my biggest problem. The Church teaches that she was born sinless, remained a virgin all her life, was assumed into heaven body and soul, and now is “Queen of Heaven”. As a Protestant, that’s really hard to swallow. Also the rosary,# I bought one at a Catholic gift shop, and I memorized the prayer and everything. So I thought I would pray. In the middle of the prayer, I began to feel such guilt that I was hurting Christ by doing this. So I stopped and haven’t prayed since. I don’t know what to do or where to go from here.

#2. Praying to the saints. I was always taught that praying to dead people was useless, and it would not be Heaven for them if they saw the sufferings here on earth.

#3. Purgatory. Not in so much of its existence, but do we really have power to help the dead by praying prayers?

#4. Statues. Now I don’t mind using them for decorations like the nativity scene, but using them as a visual when praying, doesn’t that go against the verse in the Bible where it says that we are to pray in spirit?

#5. And finally the Pope. Is he really the representative of or Lord Jesus Christ on earth, and can he change things?

These are pretty much it, I think. As for everything else, I believe, like the true presence in the Eucharist (even Martin Luther believed that), the sacraments, child baptism, etc. But the five things I listed have been bugging me, I mean I have heard Catholic apologetics on EWTN answer these questions of mine, but still, it feels like a huge leap for me. So if you could please share your stories with me, I would be very thankful. Hopefully, I can soon join the Catholic Church. Thanks so much and may God Bless You All!
I’m very excited for you, David!!! When I was 17, I too was drawn to the Catholic Church & received my 1st rosary.
  1. Mary. To address your concerns remember that Chapters & Verses weren’t added to the Bible for centuries after the Books of the Bible were written & read Rev. 11:19-Rev. 12:17 with special attention to Rev.11:19, Rev. 12:1-2, 5, 13 & 17. First Mary is described as the Ark of the Covenant that in the OT was so holy a sinful person would immediately die upon touching it & it was just the “seat” of God & Mary actually held God physically within herself, next it clearly says Mary has a crown…she is a Queen - the Mother of the King of Kings the verse says that her son is Jesus who will “rule all the nations”, next that she is Satan’s enemy (cross ref. Gen. 3:14-15) & lastly it says that Mary is the Mother of all Christians…you & me! As for the Rosary, I was told by my high school friend that the Hail Mary was in the Bible - the first half is simply an exact quotation of a couple of Scripture Passages…the 2nd half relates to #2
  2. Praying to the Saints: meditate on this verse Matt. 22:29-33 especially the line “He is not the God of the dead, but of the living.” & 1 Peter 4:6 - the dead are alive. The NT is full of verses that say that Christians should pray for one another & to ask each other to interceed for us with Jesus the Mediator between people & God the Father. BTW, relating back to #1 ~ who better an intercessor to Jesus for us than Mary, Jesus’ own Mom - Jesus at the wedding of Cana clearly didn’t want to make the miracle of wine, yet because His Mother asked He obeyed her and did His first miracle. 🙂
  3. Next, to know if it is beneficial to pray for Christians who are asleep in the Lord read 2 John 5:10-17, especially verse 16 & Matt. 12:32, Jude verse 23a & 2 Macc. 12:43-45.
  4. Using Statues: this was ardently defended the long-standing practice of Christians using Images in the 7th Ecumenical Council & I am in no position to offer a better defense than they provided; however, I will point out a couple of Bible Passages: Exodus 25, especially note that YHWH (LORD) is the one ordering the making of statues of angelic beings in verses 1 & 18-20. He also ordered the making of a Bronze Serpent to be made & lifted up for any who were bite by a vipor to look upon & be healed & Jesus Himself made reference to it. Statues are only bad if they are used as idols - giving them worship that should be given to God alone.
  5. The Pope: my best advise to you is to read The Biblical Basis for the Papacy by John Salza! That book will put to rest any & all doubts re: the Pope 🙂
You believe in the Eucharist & that’s the key! You can only receive Jesus in the Eucharist in the Catholic Church & Jesus said in John 6 that you have to eat His Flesh & drink His Blood to have life within you, so come join the Catholic Church & receive Jesus physically in the Eucharist 🙂 I can’t wait t welome you home!

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