I feel somewhat stunned at this report.
I’d not read this post previously, but all I can think of right now is that I have a sister and her husband who raised and homeschooled their biological five children, and then adopted a Downs syndrome baby, whom they’ve lovingly raised to adulthood with every opportunity they could give him, a prayerful happy young man. He prays every night for all the family. He’s an altar-boy. He manages a few hours of work each week. He enjoys dancing
My sister and her husband also adopted a very damaged baby boy, whose life has continued far beyond his prognosis. He has required various surgeries. He has limited understanding and communication, but does very well, and cheerfully. They’ve helped him to develop as much as is possible to him, and all the family treasure both boys.
One of my brothers and his wife raised three biological children, and then adopted three childen ovr a period of a few years: an older boy with mixed disabilities, a Down’s syndrome child, and a little girl who couldn’t speak, couldn’t eat except through a tube. They obtained whatever surgery helped her to progress. She still cannot speak, only click, but she also is happy, she seems intelligent, and she communicates through a kind of sign language.
These five children adopted thus belong in our family since infancy or early childhood.
Iceland would think my family crazy perhaps. Maybe lots of people would…but Iceland appears to be overlooking the true value of children/people who are different in some ways (and aren’t we all).
Knowing the love and value , and the appreciation that our family has for these children, I’m sad to know they are being eliminated in this way.
I’ve shared regarding my sibling’s families previously in CAF, because it fills me with wonder. Yes, to care for 'handicapped children, to assist their individual development is a huge daily commitment, but the blessings in the children’s lives, and in their family’s lives is incalculable.