If one takes into consideration the variety of factors that played into the overall decline in Mass attendance, those factors added together equal a particular ‘attitude’. You don’t usually get a group of wildly dissimilar actions or non-actions that together create a ‘whole scale exodus’ of ‘patrons’. What tends to cause people to ‘leave’ a faith is more like an incident that is piled onto a similar incident but more ‘severe, piled onto another similar but even MORE severe, until one gets to the straw which breaks the camel’s back.
If, for example, I was in charge of a reading group which had been successful for a few generations in my town, and if I carefully surveyed the participants, their reading patterns, their personal needs and desires, and found that the majority of them wished to center their discussions around classic women’s fiction and also around parenting. . .and as the new leader I went out and started off the first meeting with a discussion of the Iliad and the Odyssey, and followed it with a meeting about the phenomenon of DINKs in society, I would expect a few raised eyebrows and some dissatisfaction. If the next year I started off the first meeting with discussions of F. Scott Fitzgerald and Ernest Hemingway, and followed it with a discussion about Fast Food Nation (all the above, you see, because they fit in my narrative of what people ‘should be discussing’ everywhere), I shouldn’t be surprised if several women left the group (and if my superiors didn’t hear that I was not addressing my groups’ needs).
But what if my superior, like me, believed that the subjects I wanted to introduce were indeed FAR MORE IMPORTANT and indeed absolutely critical to the knowledge of these women. That if these women didn’t know these ‘fundamental things’ they had no business with the topics they had been discussing. That the other issues regarding women’s fiction, no matter how well researched and built upon over decades, was simply ‘no longer necessary’.
Well, there you have it. Now, over the course of time, while the majority of the women left the group, a few women (and some men, who were admitted because the original group had been deemed ‘sexist) came in. And they came in and stayed in because they either were interested in the topic, or were shamed into feeling that they SHOULD be interested in the topic, and over the years they forgot completely about the original group and when reminded, felt embarrassed that they had ever been so sexist and provincial about wanting to pursue those things.
Were there several factors involved the major ‘exodus’ of the original woman’s group? Sure. They did not receive the discussions that they desired, and their discussions were first ignored and then slammed and mocked.
The overwhelming ‘cause’ was the stunning lack of concern from the leaders over what the people themselves desired, and the forcing of an alternate ‘view’ by means of ‘authoritarianism’ and shaming and indoctrination.
But the main ‘difference’-format of the group remained the same, with discussion of literature—was the substitution of one TYPE of literature for the other.