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KerryR
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I am sterilised, my last pregnancy was extremely tricky and all of my labours have been extremely difficult. In addition I lost a baby past the 23 week stage to an encephalocele and spinal bifida. Three of my pregnancies resulted in c-sections. My situation was a case of had I conceived again medically my womb would have ruptured and my children would have been without a mother. I have no doubt that I did the right thing by consenting to a sterilisation as to leave my children without a mother would have been immoral. As such I believe situations and necessity alters cases, for example a woman HIV positive would be better advised not to have children as this would result in their suffering. Both the old and new testaments promote treating others as you would wish to be treated and no one hopes for a life of suffering. Medical factors, like the rape factor must be taken into consideration.
With regards to abortion, I had an abortion many years ago and painfully regretted it. I wa sin a poor position, under duress and estranged from my husband at that time. None the less the guilt and pain was soul destroying and then I learnt about the suffering of the baby. It took years to get over it. I still would like to go to Rachel’s Vineyard but there are none close at the moment. The experience taught me that abortion is never right.
With regards to abortion, I had an abortion many years ago and painfully regretted it. I wa sin a poor position, under duress and estranged from my husband at that time. None the less the guilt and pain was soul destroying and then I learnt about the suffering of the baby. It took years to get over it. I still would like to go to Rachel’s Vineyard but there are none close at the moment. The experience taught me that abortion is never right.