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Tomyris
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The problems I have with the way it is done in the Catholic system are two fold. One is turning it into a ritual with a penance and looking at it as as legal transaction rather than as a relationship. The other is with maintaining a sharp separation between venial and mortal sin. All sin can be mortal, can be fatal spiritually. To say ‘don’t worry about this stuff’ is good advice for the overscrupulous, but that could be fatal to the hard of heart.I’ve done the same as a protestant. Talked to a pastor behind closed doors about a particular sin I struggled with. Actually, confession in the Catholic Church has not been a adjustment for me at all. I think it’s good for our souls to bring all sin into the light now, as it will all be exposed later, anyhow.Thankfully our priests are more problem solving oriented such as the pastor you mentioned. Never been told to say 7 Hail Marys.
I think whether we are confessing to a Priest/pastor or to Joe Parishoner over at Doubting Thomas Church down the road, either way, it’s a positive experience, spiritually…
So for those non Catholics who have a big issue with confession, I fail to understand the problem with it. Seems you understand the benefit.
In regards to the comment about no priestly intervention mentioned, keep in mind this is the same author of John 20:21-23. Sometimes things go without saying.
I am glad you have priests that are practical with the advice. I had a number of talks with the Catholic priest when I was in RCIA and he was very down to earth and pragmatic. I think if I had gotten to the point of going to confession I would have looked forward to it with him.
There is a place for talking to a pastor or priest that cannot be filled by a lay neighbor. Marriage problems (thinking of my prior example). Forgiveness. Loss of faith. Relationship failures. Loss of job and loss of self-esteem, etc., that he is trained to give wise counsel in. So we are back to the thread topic! :yeah_me:
And back in 1 John 5, there is a textual variation back in verse 10 and one in verse 18. The one in verse 18 is a shift, translated, between him and himself which is the difference between auton and eauton : but the one born of God keeps [him]self: but the one born of God keeps him or but the one born of God keeps him. I’m using the United Bible Societies Third Edition for this.