I think there are quite a few people who genuinely enjoy being alive, for whom life is an adventure.
My life is wretched, but maybe meltzerboy is not particularly anxious by nature, has quite a few gifts and is quite content with his life, friends, family, occupation etc., so don’t go making monolith statements generalizing everyone’s experience of life. I agree with you about hell. Don’t even spend a minute worrying about Purgatory, but hell is a real cause for concern. Some people are overwhelmed with suffering, are desperate to find a place of rest, to think that a brutal condemnation to eternal hell (please spare me the rose-water “people choose hell” BS please) may be what awaits them is well beyond troubling. The eternal beatitude of 75% of all the people who have lived here doesn’t justify the 25% of collateral damage. The thought that my son, who is the apple of my eye, could be afflicted in hell, while I play harp in Heaven and am unbelievably happy and content in the company of the one person who is responsible for keeping my son miserable, is an abomination. If I see an old, sick dog that wants to bite me because the pain drives him mad, making damn sure it stays alive as long as I can sustain him so I can get the satisfaction of seeing him suffer would not cross my mind. But it does God’s. if you’re loving one second and infinitely cruel the next, then you’re not a loving person. God is not a loving person. Loving him back is not an option. We have free-will because God didn’t want us to be robots.

I’d like to do a “Job experience” in reverse: take away the threat of hell and see how many people love God for his own sake and not because of what he can do to their eternal souls. Eternal hell came from the mind of a loving God, I shudder to think what he would have come up with had he not been a loving God?

x1000 The story of the prodigal son should have had an epilogue where the fate of the son would have been described had he not gone back to his loving daddy. Add “annihilationism”, and I gladly recant everything I said in this post. There is something deeply unsettling about God’s unrelenting will to sustain the damned so they can be eternally and hopelessly mortified. Think about this next time someone says God
is love.
As a
possibility, suicide is a wonderful thing for people acquainted with despair, it’s a defense mechanism that allows you to think: “If things get too bad, i have this last resort way out”. If life lasted 200 years and suicide was not possible, I’d go insane.