If You’re Bored At Mass, Go More Often To Discover The Cause of Our Greatest Joy

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This short video from Mark Hart, “Bored at Mass?”, will most likely speak to each and every one of us since it hits upon a very real struggle that many face – not only in the past, but also presently, and potentially in the future. But why?
Why is it that we can sometimes experience this boredom at Mass? As Mark Hart asks in the video, ‘is it God’s plan to bore [us] to death?’.
This video is a great way to get us thinking of the reasons we may fall prey to boredom and how we might begin to overcome them.
Saying “Hello” to Boredom: Here’s 3 simple reasons why we may experience boredom in anything:
Reason 1: We’re not interested.
If we’re not interested in doing what we are doing, and if we have no desire to be there, then we’ll soon be saying “Hello” to boredom.
Reason 2: It’s become a habit.
If we’ve done a thing so many times without really engaging with it – just doing it out of habit and going through the motions – then… “Hello” boredom.
Reason 3: We don’t know what’s happening!
I live with three computer scientists; when they’re talking about computer things, I don’t know what’s happening. As with anything, if we don’t know what is actually happening, then it becomes very easy to say “Hello” to boredom.
When it comes to the Mass, we urgently need to identify why we are finding ourselves struggling with boredom, and then we need to make our response appropriate to that.
Solution to reason 1: (We’re not interested) then… PRAY… and go to Mass!
If we don’t have the desire to go to Mass – if we get that feeling of ‘I can’t be bothered to go’ – then PRAY. If you know what the Mass is and yet you feel a dryness towards it (whichcan happen for a variety of reasons – ugly churches, un-inspirational sermons, a long day at work) then Pray. Ask God to help you see past these things. To see Him. To find that invitation in Mass which Mark Hart speaks of in the video. That invitation to come further into a relationship with God, to go deeper into the Life of the Blessed Trinity, and to mature spiritually.
Solution to reason 2: (It’s become a habit) then… Go to Mass MORE!!
If Mass has become a habit, and this may seem counter intuitive, but GO MORE! Don’t let the Mass be simply a routine habit once a week. Instead try going during the week as well, however, now when you go – go decisively, and go with intent. Focus on the words and the actions of the priest. Mark Hart tells us in the video of the purposefulness of the Mass. Find it. Don’t just be another body in the building, but be present to The Body. Be the Church, and be united to Christ and transformed by Him in the Eucharist.
Solution to reason 3: (We don’t know what’s happening) then…LEARN about the Mass. (And go to Mass!)
If we don’t know what’s going on in the Mass, then take time to LEARN about the Mass. This is the big one which Mark Hart is presenting to us in the video. When we learn about the Mass, and when we discover that God has called us to worship – created us to worship! – then we will find that our lives, and our very selves, only make sense in relation to the Mass.
St. Thomas Aquinas said that ‘The celebration of Holy Mass is as valuable as the death of Jesus on the Cross’, that is because the Holy Mass is that Sacrifice. Christ’s presence in Holy Mass is sacrifice. And St. Jean Vianney said that ‘if we really understood the Mass, we would die of joy’ – not boredom…
The Mass properly understood will only bring about joy, a deep, life-giving joy – a recognition of the great adventure of faith and life. You will not find boredom in understanding the Mass. You’ll find an inclusion into the greatest event in salvation history, so go for it!
catholic-link.org/2015/12/05/if-youre-bored-at-mass-go-more-often-to-discover-the-cause-of-our-greatest-joy/
 
Kudos to the priest for asking “How’s Mass for you today?” 🙂
 
I think after some time away from regular attendance, then going to a few parishes for Mass then returning to my childhood parish helped me in addition to going to some TLMs and Eastern Catholic DL amongst other things to not be bored at Mass. The video is very good. Also, I’ve been doing the Biblical Walk Thru The Mass series at my parish which is a big eye opener as well - I highly recommend the book for purchase even if you don’t do the study program that is about 6 weeks total.
 
In the past, I noticed that my kids get bored especially at the homily part. Simplistic as it may be, my advice is for them to at least LISTEN. Has worked for the girls, so far. Some kids may just have become accustomed to just shutting themselves that “getting bored” has become a habit.
 
We don’t attend Mass to get anything out of it; we go to worship God. It is for Him, not us.

Teach your children that and in time they will understand.
 
Some kids may just have become accustomed to just shutting themselves that “getting bored” has become a habit.
Could be. Or perhaps they feel that they are getting an overload of information already. Or worse, mixed information. The psychology behind this is worth investigating IMO.
 
Where does this quote come from? I want to use it for a retreat. Thank you!

“The celebration of Holy Mass is as valuable as the death of Jesus on the cross.” St. Thomas Aquinas
 
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