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zenith15
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How does one take someone crippled by, say, MS, or severe COPD, or chronic severe pain, or who has had multiple heart attacks, etc and “show them a way out of their dependence”?I would choose where we are, but not as we are. The USA that I was born into in the first half of the 20th century was a land of opportunity. God, family, marriage commitment (between one man and one woman) were the norm. Abortion was not an option for the average person. Homosexuality was considered an abomination, or something not to be paraded in public. We spoke with love and pride of our country. We knew that if we set our minds and hearts on something, with hard work we could achieve it. Maybe I’m a whiner, but that is no longer the country that I live in. We are growing into a nation of dependents, waiting to be taken care of. Oh to see us shake off the need for handouts and stand proudly on our own again. This is not to say that we shouldn’t help the needy, but also to show them a way out of their dependence. America in the first half of the 20th centuty went from poverty and dependence on government aid, to a proud self-reliant nation – the leader of the world. That’s the country I yearn to see again.
How does one take a young, single mother who has been persuaded by pro life workers to have her several children, but who now has no real education, no realistic work prospects because she has a criminal record from when she took a phone call for her abusive boyfriend regarding a drug deal which made her an accomplice in “organized crime” according to the law, and no low cost daycare for her three preschool aged children, and “show her a way out of her dependence”? Any job she might get would be minimum wage at best, likely provide either no insurance or none she can afford the premiums for, and pay around $300 a week for full time work, an amount which would easily be eaten up in full by the cost of daycare for three children. She may not have relatives at hand for free long term daycare for three. She may not have rich parents who are willing to fund the cost of schooling for her and daycare while she attends school. She may not have the grades from high school, if she even graduated, to get into a college if she DID somehow have the money for it. Climbing out of poverty is much harder than people seem to think it is for such folks who have no assistance from family, or who have criminal records, no matter how old they may be, or who have serious health conditions.