If you could join an order, which one would you join

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I go back and forth wethere the Lord is calling me into his ranks. I’m already in the ranks of the US Army (HOAAH AIRBORNE!) and have a great pious relationship with a girl I want to make my wife. If the Lord calls of course I will drop it all withouth hesitation.

After the intro . . . I think I would want to join FSSP.
 
I voted Benedictine

…Ora et Labora…

the other group that I find intresting are the Mercidains
 
I voted “other”:

Mercidarians or Trinitarians. Still learning and searching to see which one I’d preferr (was leaning Trinitarian, but now swaying back to Mercidarian…)

I like both because they both espouse particular charisms that, on one hand I wholly agree with, and find to be very virtuous and am really drawn to; and on the other hand, touch on subjects that I could use a bit more christian formation on. So, they both hold something for me that is recognizable on a spiritual level, and key to some of my strengths, but also offer a chance of developing myself in some of my weaknesses, an area of importance to me that truly would affect my relationship and usefulness to others, allowing for growth in a “real” Christian manner.

Caritas numquam excidit
 
Well…I am a Third Order Lay Carmelite, but I am very interested in Opus Dei and The Jesuits…maybe one day…🙂
 
Wow! It’s amazing how long this thread has lasted. I’m really surprised that so many people voted Carmelites! That’s cool, though. Thank you everyone for your responses.
 
Ever since I was ten (wasn’t even Catholic yet) I wanted to become a cloistered nun. I have always felt so drawn. But in college I met the one who’s supposed to be my husband. In 2001 I converted to the Catholic Church. I would have to say if I did join an order, it would have been the Discalced Carmelites, probably of Terre Haute, IN. And if not them, then the* Poor Clare Nuns of Perpetual Adoration* (at Mother Angelica’s location). In high school I so much wanted to be a nun, that I hid Catholic magazines under my bed, hidden away from my protestant mother. But I suppose God had other plans for me, and now I am happily married :).
 
I have done quite a bit of study and prayer on this topic, and I even spent some time with the TOR Franciscans and Miles Jesu…I liked the idea of the Franciscans (as well as the Dominicans) at first, but after looking into them (at least in my area) they very liberal and I wanted something more faithful to Rome. I then spent some time with Miles Jesu and I like them a lot (I also really like the CPM - Fathers of Mercy)…however at this time it looks like I may be getting married. 😉

I am a member of the Association of Mary: Queen of All Hearts as part of my consecration (a la de Montfort), and I think that I might become a vinculum member of Miles Jesu.
 
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Madaglan:
Wow! It’s amazing how long this thread has lasted. I’m really surprised that so many people voted Carmelites! That’s cool, though. Thank you everyone for your responses.
Here’s another vote for the Carmelites (OCDS). 🙂 I’m in formation now and will be clothed in the Brown Scapular in 3 weeks . . .

Dave.
 
Well, I plan on entering the Jesuits after high school…I know a lot of them are liberal, and that’s too bad, but their particular organization fits me:

They are Clerics Regular (or “Clerks” Regular), meaning they are Priests primarily, which I want to be, religious secondarly, which also fits me, and get to wear the dress of a secular priest (cassocks!!! yay!) But they are not Canons Regular so they are not tied down to any one Church, but are free to be moved around.

They also, technically, are mendicant because they vow not only poverty, but poverty in common. It is an aspect not emphasized, but is an added bonus charism. The Catholic Encyclopedia says:

“Several institutions of clerks regular, notably the Society of Jesus, make profession also of poverty in common and are thus at the same time clerks regular and mendicant orders.”

They are in the true sense of the word an Order, not just a Congregation or Society of Apostolic Life. This means that they makes Solemn Vows, not just simple vows, and have an official Rule, not just statutes and stuff.

They call themselves “Active Contemplatives” meaning they are a mixed order. They are not just active, but are not monastic either, which is a life-style I am not sure would be spiritually healthy for me. Monastically I might use it as an escape from the world or get lazy…or on the other hand, not get enough sleep from all the waking up in the middle of the night and stuff.

The Catholic Encylopedia says the following on religious orders:

“Besides the common end of religious life, which makes it a school of perfection, the different orders have special objects of their own, which divide them into contemplative, active, and mixed orders. The contemplative orders devote themselves to union with God in a life of solitude and retirement; the active orders expend their energy in doing good to men. If their activity is spiritual in its objects and requires contemplation for its attainment, they are mixed orders; such as those which are devoted to preaching and higher education. The orders keep the name of active order if they devote themselves to corporal works of mercy, such as the care of sick persons and orphans. The dominant note of their mode of life gives us, as we have seen, clerical, monastic, mendicant, military, and hospitaller orders. The vows divide them into orders with simple vows and solemn vows: even the number of vows differs in different institutes”

The Jesuits add an extra vow of obedience to the Pope, and though they are not monastic, they are clerical, mendicant, can be very militareseque at times (even if they are not technically an Order of Knights) and do many different types of works that make them a mixed order and including teaching, missionary work, hospitaller-type social work, and now they even allow the cure of souls in parish life.

The Catholic Encyclopedia describes the non-monastic orders, specifically mendicant, as such:

“The mendicant orders are marked by two characteristics: poverty, practised in common; and the mixed life, that is the union of contemplation with the work of the sacred ministry. Moreover, the mendicant orders present the appearance of a religious army, the soldiers of which are moved about by their superiors without being attached to any particular convent, and recognize a hierarchy of local, provincial, and general superiors. The order, or at least the province, takes the place of the monastery. Other important points may be noticed: the mendicant orders are founded only by favour of an express approbation of the sovereign pontiff, who approves their rules or constitutions. They adopt the form of vows which relates explicitly to poverty, chastity, and obedience

Definitely something I want to be a part of.
 
  1. Carthusians
  2. Carmelites
  3. Trappists
I’m going to join one of those 3. Still working that out… 🙂

Mike
 
You have to be careful when generalizing about entire orders being modern or traditional. In a lot of cases it depends on the community, especially if they are autonomous. A few examples, I know Benedictine sisters in the south who, while not conservative, are a lot more traditional than the ones I met in California (very New Agey). Also, Benedictine men who are tradtional. Same for Poor Clares. There are some who wear habits, some who don’t, some who aren’t even strictly cloisetered.
 
My wife and I are in formation and will have our Rite of Candidacy for the **Secular Franciscan Order ** over Labor Day weekend.

We did find it to be a calling from God rather than a choice we made, and find it well suited to our gifts and the lifestyle of simplicity and conversion that we seek.

Peace,
 
I would join the Jesuits - if I could build a time machine and go back to their hey-day…

nowadays? not so much
 
I’m on the path to becoming a Benedictine Oblate…very blessed state of events! I love monasteries and their quiet, peaceful, prayerful lives.
Anyone else becoming an Oblate?
 
I’m on the path to becoming a Benedictine Oblate…very blessed state of events! I love monasteries and their quiet, peaceful, prayerful lives.
Anyone else becoming an Oblate?
I have been wanting to become one for years. I just discover that the Benedictine Monastery about 45 minutes away from me is starting an Oblates group. I will be checking into it after I become an Associate with Opus Sanctorum Angelorum in October.
 
Carmelites - I could sit and pray a lot every day, I think. (As long as I don’t snooze off doing it,though).😛
 
Jesuits. For whatever reason, they seem compatible. By this I mean orthodox, obedient, reasonable Jesuits. Not liberal ones that disagree with the Church.

Or something knightly. I’m not a fan of hereditary nobility, though I used to love Arthurian tales and other such legends. Some of my ancestors have been knights… not like others haven’t been peasants. I guess it just stays around. Everyone up the line seems to have been a soldier except dad himself, but he did his paramilitary part anyway and he’s a warrior type, so I guess it just stays. I’m probably going to be the first one who breaks out, but I still have it in my personality. 😉
 
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