I’m not being argumentative here. Just offering a different idea.
There’s a “whole other way” to do apostolate…and it doesn’t involve talking to a Protestant about “trying out” the Catholic Church.
That may work for some.
This other way involves “deep, quiet, costly friendship” with those people that God puts in your life…coworkers, neighbors, PTA friends, etc.
We must “become better friends to our friends”.
This idea is built on the following premise: Matters of the soul are so intimate that without a deep friendship, one risks turning people away from God. It becomes a sell job, a convince her job.
Unhurried friendship, sincerely desiring to serve the other, is an alternative.
Over time, the conversation moves from superficial topics (food, weather, events, recipes, sports) to substantial topics (family life, education, formation of the young, marriage, "the good, the beautiful, and the true), and then…and only then with a natural friendship in mind…after they see you living your Catholic life to the full and heroic and generous “full” will they start asking a bit more supernatural questions…“why do you have so many children…why are you pregnant again…how do you do it…why do you smile so much, why do the neighborhhood children congregate on your front porch?”
These are solid questions…but it requires that we’re really really living out our faith well…but with a trusting friendship in place…and with a base of “actuals” in place…then we can help our friends understand what happens at the Holy Mass, why we go to Confession, etc.
There are different approaches…and I am simply laying out a slow cook…sincere approach done at “God’s speed”.
5 years from now those neighbors may never have gone to our church…and they’ve moved to another neighborhood…and they run into another Catholic family…and the questions continue.