If you were traveling with a girl to whom you weren't married and could only find one hotel room what should you do?

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I think you need to take a realistic look at yourself. Is this a serious temptation? If so, sleep in the car to be safe. If not, share the room with a blanket or curtin between you.
 
i would lock the door.the question then would be. 'keep her in or keep her out.🤷
 
To be frank the sin is not in “sleeping together” its having sex or creating the believe the sex outside of marriage is ok. So long as you don’t do either,
 
To a certain extent, that’s their problem. Like, you probably shouldn’t make moaning sounds or something to mess with the nosy neighbor, but at the same time, you can’t live your life obsessed with making sure nobody misunderstands you.

note: man view point is good, but GOD’s is Supremely Best.
**Blessed day! **Yes! 1. it’s true that, not all men are attracted to all women, ( not all ) **but a **man can be attracted to a woman. 2. **Unmarried man and woman **need to be good and righteous in the Eyes of GOD as if, they are Praying in a closed door. for GOD’s Glory. ****If no. 2 is the case, it’s SPIRITually healthy. Thank you and ****GOD Bless…
 
junietan said:
note: man view point is good, but GOD’s is Supremely Best.
**Blessed day! **Yes! 1. it’s true that, not all men are attracted to all women, ( not all ) **but a **man can be attracted to a woman. 2. **Unmarried man and woman **need to be good and righteous in the Eyes of GOD as if, they are Praying in a closed door. for GOD’s Glory. ****If no. 2 is the case, it’s SPIRITually healthy. Thank you and ****GOD Bless…
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Huh? :confused:
 
If this happened to me, and for some reason there was no other option but to share the room, the guy would probably sleep on the floor with some of the pillows and blankets from the bed and I would sleep on the bed. If there were two rooms, then he would sleep in the other room. If not, he would probably sleep at the other end of the room.
 
HannahLisa said:
If this happened to me, and for some reason there was no other option but to share the room, the guy would probably sleep on the floor with some of the pillows and blankets from the bed and I would sleep on the bed. If there were two rooms, then he would sleep in the other room. If not, he would probably sleep at the other end of the room.
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I still say it’s easier to sleep in the passenger seat while the other continues drivng:p
 
HannahLisa said:
If this happened to me, and for some reason there was no other option but to share the room, the guy would probably sleep on the floor with some of the pillows and blankets from the bed and I would sleep on the bed. If there were two rooms, then he would sleep in the other room. If not, he would probably sleep at the other end of the room.
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I love how you said YOU would get the bed, but HE would get the floor!! HAHAHA 👍
 
boppaid said:
I love how you said YOU would get the bed, but HE would get the floor!! HAHAHA 👍
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😉 Any guy I know well enough to take the risk of getting into that situation with him in the first place would probably insist I got the bed. If it was my boyfriend, I KNOW he would insist I got the bed. 🙂

AHapka – that’s very true. In my case, right now, I can’t actually drive. 😛 That would be an option definitely. If for some reason it wasn’t, though, that’s what we would do instead.
 
My now-fiance and I were in this situation last year.

We had to rush back to school (7 hours away) from our hometown after Christmas break to beat a big storm. The thing is that our on-campus dorms were both still officially ‘closed’ from break and would not, under any circumstances, be opening until the next day. We pleaded with our respective rectors, but to no avail.

So we set off on our drive back without any idea where we would be staying. Meanwhile, his mother booked us a hotel suite in town. It had a living room with a pull-out couch and a bedroom with a door.

She spoke with me on the phone to ask if this was OK–I told her that I trusted her son, and knew that they trusted US, and that it would be fine as long as he slept on the couch and I slept in the bed. I had PJs with ample coverage, as did he.

I called my own parents to see if it was OK–and I mean, it really was the only logical option. To suggest he should have slept in the car is not only unsafe, but rather absurd.

No one knew that this happened but our parents, so no “scandal” that I know of arose from the situation.
 
I once was in a similar situation. My friend and I went to Rhode Island to pick up her brother(who happens to be very attractive), and we had to rent a hotel room due to weather conditions. Even though nothing happened and my friend and I were in one bed and the hot brother in the other, I was tempted. For the first time in my life I actually desired to fornicate. Thank God his sister was there. He was so gorgeous sleeping that I honestly had the desire to hop right in next to him and…

I don’t mean to give TMI, but my point is that when people are very attracted to each other and in bedroom environment the urge is going to be there, and it’s hard to resist. I wouldn’t risk it. If you were trying to stay sober would you go to a bar?
 
I’ve shared a room with girls before but it was a case of several boys and several girls in there, I’d be much less inclined to if it were just me and one girl
 
Do you find yourself in this situation often. Or are you planning on this situation happening. My first advice would be to not open the bottle of wine until you find a separate room.😃
 
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