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Nordar
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Would renting an illegal apartment in your home be a mortal sin?
Is there a way for you to have another person in your home to help with expenses without formally renting space to him/her?Would renting an illegal apartment in your home be a mortal sin?
No there is no agreement to sell the house, there has been no agreement for anything yet. I understand what you are saying about a grey area, that is why my initial post question about it being a mortal sin. If I know about it and I am benefitting from it then aren’t I just as guilty?But it does not sound like you are the one holding the bag here. You are not accepting the money directly so its a grey area. Are you both agreeing to selling the house anyway? If so these renters need some notice to find another place to live!
I think you need your divorce attorney to advise you on this right away.
Thank you, Nordar!Water I can only tell you the requirements for where I live, you need special permits. For one thing, It has to be owner occupied, Meaning that whatever home the apartment is in the owner of that home has to also live in some part of it. It has to have special Building Code viariances, Fire exits, Drainage, Storm windows and screens. ETC.
Then you live in the house, the same building as the apartment, right? In an earlier post, you mentioned that the owner had to live in the same building. It sounds like you meet that.I don’t understand why you are confused, I said apartment, it is an apartment in the front of the house.
Okay, I think I understand a little better now.I’m sorry I do not mean to be argumentative with you but I am not asking whether or not this is or is not an illegal apartment. I know it is an illegal one. I know all about the town codes and Variances which this does not meet. Plus he applied for no permits when he put the apartment in, and The Owner being my ex who recieves the rent does not live in the house he lives someplace else. These are not roommates I do not know how to say this to you this is a seperate apartment.
Thank you I can use the prayers, asking them to move would definately be out of the question my soon to be ex is not the nicest person. Asking him to put up the money to make the apartment legal that is most definately out of the question.Okay, I think I understand a little better now.
And, no, I did not think you were being argumentative.
Hmm. Balancing sin, safety and justice. That is a difficult thing. Ask the people to move out because it is not legal to rent it to them may well result in both you and them having no place to live.
On the other hand, if you wait until the divorce goes through, your ex, by court decree, may be required to pay you maintenance (alimony) and/or cover the cost of the house.
Your desire to obey the laws of the land is correct. That must also be balanced against the authorities evicting the tenets of the apartment. They need time to find a new place.
Better yet, get a private building inspector to tell you what really needs to be done as well as a very approximate cost. This would be best for everyone, you, your soon-to-be ex and the people who are living there.
If you have a divorce lawyer, I would talk this over with him/her. If you do not, get one. You may be able to get a preliminary judgment requireing your soon-to-be ex to pay the require improvements. He may have to take out an equity loan to pay for it. Of course, with renters gone, he may not able to afford it, judge or no judge.
As for your initial question about sin. I do not believe you are completely culpable here. It seems, to a great extent that it is your soon-to-be ex-husband that is most culpable. However, you can do something to stop it so you have some responsibility as well, I think.
I am sorry your marriage has failed. I am glad you are turning to God and seek to be closer to Him and seek to identify any sinful attachments. You will be in my prayers.
I have heard it said there are three people we should never withold anything from, your prierst, your doctor and your lawyer. It doesn’t matter your lawyer thinks, in order to properly represent you and your needs your lawyer should know about this. He may be able to offer you some innovative solutions!Thank you I can use the prayers, asking them to move would definately be out of the question my soon to be ex is not the nicest person. Asking him to put up the money to make the apartment legal that is most definately out of the question.
I know the tenants would need time to find a place to live, I just started to think that I was committing a mortal sin by knowing that the apartment was illegal. I didn’t want to ask my attorney I figured because he is Jewish he would think I was nuts if I gave him the reason for wanting to know.I am going to pray and I am just going to have to do what my conscience tells me to do.