For those of you who may have seen a recent investigative report on immigration & smuggling, the journey is fraught with risk and fatality, with about a 25% survival rate, and one so physically demanding that elderly relatives of those migrating generally do not come along. Yet the Mexican household, especially the rural one (from which the bulk of the undocumented migrants come), operates as an extended unit, with important family members supplementing the raising of children and the disciplining of them in the child’s home (grandparents, aunts, etc.).
When unskilled workers with low literacy rates head North, they are confronted by an economically brutal environment which even with the recent housing deflation, requires both parents to work full time in order to survive. But for the unskilled, it is worse: the minimum wages they earn, if they’re feeding more than their own mouths, are usually insufficient for U.S. cost of living, anywhere. That requires them to work much more than 40 hours/wk in order to pay rent & bare essentials with extreme frugality, and leaves them no money for child care. …[etc.]
So the reality of “a better life,” falls far behind the ideal – for those who do not come with a basic education which they then might improve upon after arrival. …And the more important point is that the conditions which are the natural consequence of illegal immigration are morally problematic for these migrants, apart from effects upon the broader community.
I favor a combination of two things:
~a NAFTA redux, IOW not based on the previous NAFTA which displaced rural families, but one which would allow Mexican famliies to stay put while earning a better living than they do now, from U.S. companies with branches in Mexico; that would also have to be overseen by either a U.S. or a U.N. joint team, so that the wages Mexicans earn would not be siphoned off in some corrupt manner by the usual thieves in the Mexican gov’t.
~a restructuring of legal immigration to include extended families, so that social/cultural continuity can be maintained…[etc.].