Wow! Well I certainly didn’t expect such a lengthy religious and philosophical debate!
To the person who said that a baptism and a mass aren’t usually one in the same, I have an answer for you, if you are interested: This coming Sunday, there will be a mass, followed by the baptismal ceremony; so while they aren’t one in the same, I am attending both with my family.
As for the ensuing debate, I do my best to respect the traditions of all faiths and religions. I had actually planned on receiving until I read up on what to expect in a Catholic mass, and learned of the protocol that said that non-Catholics should refrain from the Eucharist, and wanted to know from the very knowledgeable people in these forums if there were any other traditions that I should respect, as well. I would do the same if I were in a Baptist or Pentecostal Church. If I were visiting a Mosque, for example, as their guest and was asked to remove my shoes or to respect another of their traditions, of course, I would follow it as best I could.
Respect is something that (at least in my area), I find that is lacking when it comes to situations like these, and I try to live the values that I preach. I may not be Roman Catholic, but as a guest in a Roman Catholic Church, I will respect their customs and traditions to the best of my ability - both because I am not there to offend anyone, merely to celebrate a momentous and happy day with my family, and also because I was raised to be polite and respectful. I would never go into another person’s house as their guest and not follow their rules, and I believe that principle should apply to houses of worship, as well.
Thank you all for an interesting debate, though! It was very thought-provoking to read and I learned quite a bit! I’m very much looking forward to the baptism on Sunday, especially now that I have a better idea of what to expect. This thread has made me feel quite comfortable and very welcome in advance of the ceremony on Sunday.
Thank you all and may God bless all of you with happiness and health,
Casey