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iamme:
and usacarlos, not to be too blunt, but unless she has a penis, i seriously doubt ill find “the right girl”… some just need to accept that people are who they are, because i guarantee you, your not in danger of being infected with “teh gay”…
how would you know if you never tried it!
 
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USA_Carlos:
i think you are probably living the lie now. if you dont beleive in god and the bible. jesus and god are peaceful and loving and want you to get eternal happiness. there is only one way to be happy forever, my friend. god has even shown you how. by giving us the model of adam and eve. not adam and steve. a man and a woman. if you accept god into you heart and follow the church you would be much better off, yes?
well, i suppose youre entitled to your opinion, but having never met me, nor lived the life that i have lived (grew up in the church of christ while not so ritualisticly catholic, and was baptised) which was rather pleasant, upper middle class, im going to have to assume that that which goes on in my mind and my heart are quite truthful and accurate, thank you… and when exactly did you meet adam and eve, that they were such great role models, who not only got us kicked out of eternal paradise, but also raised a murderer?
same guy as above:
how would you know if you never tried it!
well now, wouldnt premarital sex also send me to hell?
and if you didnt read earlier, up until i was 18 i1 dated nothing but girls, and felt nothing other than “hey, youre a cool chick, wanna hang?”… but because of you, next girl i meet, im gonna bang ban g bang, just to see if shes the right one :rolleyes:
 
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iamme:
actually, you said one of the morally vacant atheists who visit this site, which doesnt imply that all atheist are immoral, just the ones that post here…
You’re obviously looking for an argument, so I’m not going to humor you. I think that’s a consequence of homosexuality, open homosexuals always want to cause a scene, just another way of rebelling I suppose.

God Bless
Levi
 
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iamme:
a person also cannot be happy living a lie either, which is also a sin, so im assuming its damned if i do, damned if i dont?
Actually if as mentioned above you are a virgin who has a dispositon toward same sex attraction then you have not likely committed a grave sin. A person’s homosexual disposition is certainly not in inself sinful. Many great Catholics in this situation, while not having to lie about their disposition, are living in perfect conformity to Church teaching.
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iamme:
its also saying alot about several posters here who have chosen to focus on my sexuality as opposed to my agnosticism… is trying to say im going to hell for being gay somehow easier than telling me im going to hell for deciding its beyond my means to prove in the existence of a deity, and therefore not wanting to worship me?..
Firstly, no one said you were going to hell.
Secondly, they addressed the homosexual issue because you yourself brought it up.
Thirdly, they probably focused on it over the agnostic position because most people are agnostic/athiest because of some other underlying issue in their life. They may have had a bad experience with a religious person or may have had an overbearing parent that made them fear authority, etc. It seem a logical conclusion that your same sex attraction and your feeling of being attacked by the faith for that disposition could easily lead you to a difficulty in believing in God. Hence some of us choosing to focus on that first.
 
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levi86:
You’re obviously looking for an argument, so I’m not going to humor you. I think that’s a consequence of homosexuality, open homosexuals always want to cause a scene, just another way of rebelling I suppose.

God Bless
Levi
actually, i came here seeking opinons, not condemnation, also, i wasnt the one who started in on anothers lifestyle… i understand that for organized religion, that gays are the new bogeyman, but i guess we all need something to persecute…

man i miss the inquisition…

also, people are instigative jerks, regardless of sexuality…
 
You’re a heathen, pure and simple boy. God did not intend, in all his grand design, for you to create an abhorrence of that sort. You need to go to Sunday mass, kneel down and pray [without doing what you usually do on your knees], and ask your Lord and Creator sincerely for forgiveness, and for the holy light to shine upon you.

You can do this. I have faith in you. Take God into you. Let him guide you.

Brian.
 
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iamme:
immoral is easier to type 😃
Perhaps the word you’re looking for is “amoral”, meaning morally vacant.

‘Immoral” states that a person violates morals instead of just not having any like I sated.
 
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matthias:
Actually if as mentioned above you are a virgin who has a dispositon toward same sex attraction then you have not likely committed a grave sin. A person’s homosexual disposition is certainly not in inself sinful. Many great Catholics in this situation, while not having to lie about their disposition, are living in perfect conformity to Church teaching.

Firstly, no one said you were going to hell.
Secondly, they addressed the homosexual issue because you yourself brought it up.
Thirdly, they probably focused on it over the agnostic position because most people are agnostic/athiest because of some other underlying issue in their life. They may have had a bad experience with a religious person or may have had an overbearing parent that made them fear authority, etc. It seem a logical conclusion that your same sex attraction and your feeling of being attacked by the faith for that disposition could easily lead you to a difficulty in believing in God. Hence some of us choosing to focus on that first.
to be truthful, my “problem” with god is that ive had 7 of my best friends die by the time i was 22, as well as watching my entire church excommunicate my mother because she had an affair… they did so because god said what she did put her out of his eyes… im agnostic because im too smart for my own good… ive seen too much of this world to blindly follow something that cannot be proven… BUT i cant disprove the possiblilty, so im not going to worry about it either way…

also, mortal sin = hellbound…

on yet another note (damn im long winded) there is no greater showing of love than the physical act, correct, so when i do fall in love, i will consummate it, nor will i regret it, simply because it will be an act of love, not lust, not because im horny, but because im in love, which is more than i can say for most of my christian friends who are having premarital sex with several different people, but hey, where is it my place to say what theyre doing is wrong?
 
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levi86:
Perhaps the word you’re looking for is “amoral”, meaning morally vacant.

‘Immoral” states that a person violates morals instead of just not having any like I sated.
But if they didn’t have any, wouldn’t they be killing and robbing left and right?
 
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mystruggle:
You’re a heathen, pure and simple boy. God did not intend, in all his grand design, for you to create an abhorrence of that sort. You need to go to Sunday mass, kneel down and pray [without doing what you usually do on your knees], and ask your Lord and Creator sincerely for forgiveness, and for the holy light to shine upon you.

You can do this. I have faith in you. Take God into you. Let him guide you.

Brian.
i havent called anyone an idiot yet, so instead ill just say youre illiterate…

IM A VIRGIN, and im assuming youre a hick… thanks for the (name removed by moderator)ut…

plus, not catholic, dont feel like getting molested anytime soon…
 
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iamme:
well, i suppose youre entitled to your opinion, but having never met me, nor lived the life that i have lived (grew up in the church of christ while not so ritualisticly catholic, and was baptised) which was rather pleasant, upper middle class, im going to have to assume that that which goes on in my mind and my heart are quite truthful and accurate, thank you… and when exactly did you meet adam and eve, that they were such great role models, who not only got us kicked out of eternal paradise, but also raised a murderer?
adam and eve were gods first children this is true. but god made people able to choose. and they make choices that are bad and can lead to bad things. adam and eve also teach us this to it is true. it is also a tale of caution. but by choosing god only good things can happen. and thats how one gets into heaven.
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iamme:
well now, wouldnt premarital sex also send me to hell?
and if you didnt read earlier, up until i was 18 i1 dated nothing but girls, and felt nothing other than “hey, youre a cool chick, wanna hang?”… but because of you, next girl i meet, im gonna bang ban g bang, just to see if shes the right one :rolleyes:
well no you should not have sex outside marriage. but this is different thing to talk about.
but also, life is not just about sex. i love girls and even i am know this. ha-ha. you do not have to always be having sex to know this. i date many number of girls before i meet the one i love.
 
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Liberalsaved:
But if they didn’t have any, wouldn’t they be killing and robbing left and right?
maybe they would if they thought they wouldnt get arrested by a police.
 
Do over…
Christ is about Truth in Charity.
This thread seems to be devolving into mutual attack and is as such probably not likely to be fruitful.

iamme said:
1) i am not confrontational and appreciate civil discussions…

This was an excellent way to start. Thank you for beginning in such a civil way. Perhaps we can start over. I’m sure we could really a heart felt discussion with you about your inquiries.

That is discussing points of Truth but in a way that maintains each others dignity by maintaining an atmosphere of Charity.
 
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USA_Carlos:
adam and eve were gods first children this is true. but god made people able to choose. and they make choices that are bad and can lead to bad things. adam and eve also teach us this to it is true. it is also a tale of caution. but by choosing god only good things can happen. and thats how one gets into heaven.

well no you should not have sex outside marriage. but this is different thing to talk about.
but also, life is not just about sex. i love girls and even i am know this. ha-ha. you do not have to always be having sex to know this. i date many number of girls before i meet the one i love.
  1. dont eat apples and dont kill my brother…
    i folled their example so far
also, life isnt about sex, but to say that sex isnt a part of a relationship is foolish, again, im a virgin, but i dont see myself in a lasting relationship with some one who cant give me what i hope to them, and i think everyone feels that way…
 
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mystruggle:
You’re a heathen, pure and simple boy. God did not intend, in all his grand design, for you to create an abhorrence of that sort. You need to go to Sunday mass, kneel down and pray [without doing what you usually do on your knees], and ask your Lord and Creator sincerely for forgiveness, and for the holy light to shine upon you.

You can do this. I have faith in you. Take God into you. Let him guide you.

Brian.
See this is exactly the type of comments that are kurt and uncharitable. If a person wants to represent Christ and bring a person to true happyness then name calling is counter to the goal of Christ.

If he came here asking questions then offer him an olive branch and speak with him respectfully. Bring him to Christ. That’s what Christ wants.
 
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matthias:
Do over…
Christ is about Truth in Charity.
This thread seems to be devolving into mutual attack and is as such probably not likely to be fruitful.

This was an excellent way to start. Thank you for beginning in such a civil way. Perhaps we can start over. I’m sure we could really a heart felt discussion with you about your inquiries.

That is discussing points of Truth but in a way that maintains each others dignity by maintaining an atmosphere of Charity.
this is an attitude i have had yet to see here, and its refreshing… im not looking for some one to convert me, i simply wish to know why i am targeted more than anyone else, yknow? i dont see why something that 1) i didnt choose and 2) doesnt affect anyone other than me (at this point) needs to be demonized… ive suffered enough cruelties growing up, being a nerdy kid who read comics and kept to himself, that as an adult, i thought things would change and everyone would rise above it… in all honestly, im extremely jealous of all of you… you believe with all your hearts that god is there guiding and watching you, but i KNOW that hes not, and he hasnt seen me for a long time, and its been long enough that i dont want him to, i truly am past the point of no return due to my apathy, and i dont need people to tell me i can change, i know this, but he doesnt deserve some one who he says is an abomination…

wow… that went to a different place than i thought it was going to, but my brain and fingers went alot faster than i thought they would…
 
I think never is enough (yeah never is enough)
I never want to do that stuff
I think never is enough (yeah never is enough)
You never have to do that stuff

A song by the Barenaked Ladies that you could learn from. Good Catholic boys, despite the band name.

Brian.
 
iamme said:
1) dont eat apples and dont kill my brother…
i folled their example so far

also, life isnt about sex, but to say that sex isnt a part of a relationship is foolish, again, im a virgin, but i dont see myself in a lasting relationship with some one who cant give me what i hope to them, and i think everyone feels that way…

ha-ha. the apple means something else (they actually dont say it is apple in bible. just forbidden fruit). and of course killing is bad. there is more to the story i think. but that is enough for now.

of course sex is a part of things. but it is sinful to do this outside of marriage. and of course you cant marry another man because you couldt have children.
 
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mystruggle:
I think never is enough (yeah never is enough)
I never want to do that stuff
I think never is enough (yeah never is enough)
You never have to do that stuff

A song by the Barenaked Ladies that you could learn from. Good Catholic boys, despite the band name.

Brian.
ha-ha. does they still make music? i have not heard them since a long time ago. i think they try to be funny. even if we might not agree with everything they say.
 
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