I'm not a real Christian if I have no Joy?

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I have heard this said a lot lately or at least said in a different way that if we are living a good Catholic life we should be very joyful people. I am a lifelong Catholic who started taking my faith seriously about 5 - 6 years ago and I am basically Joy-less. I have anxiety / depression and a slew of health problems. I always feel bad and tired. I try to live out my faith as best I can but often fall short due to how I feel. I often feel like a hypocrite because I “feel” like I should always be happy and cheerful but I am not. What’s wrong with me, am I really a Christian?
 
I have heard this said a lot lately or at least said in a different way that if we are living a good Catholic life we should be very joyful people. I am a lifelong Catholic who started taking my faith seriously about 5 - 6 years ago and I am basically Joy-less. I have anxiety / depression and a slew of health problems. I always feel bad and tired. I try to live out my faith as best I can but often fall short due to how I feel. I often feel like a hypocrite because I “feel” like I should always be happy and cheerful but I am not. What’s wrong with me, am I really a Christian?
ya you are. you are bearing your cross. I have recently been very sad about bearing my cross. your doing all right. continue to carry that cross now. And we shall gain everlasting life 👍
 
Friends of God > Human Virtues > Number 92http://www.escrivaworks.org/images/misc/pixtrans.gifhttp://www.escrivaworks.org/images/misc/pixtrans.gif92http://www.escrivaworks.org/images/misc/pixtrans.gifWhen a Christian fights to acquire these virtues, his soul is preparing to receive the grace of the Holy Spirit fruitfully. In this way his good human qualities are strengthened by the motions of the Paraclete in his soul. The Third Person of the Blessed Trinity, the soul’s sweet guest, pours out his gifts: wisdom, understanding, counsel, fortitude, knowledge, piety and the fear of the Lord.

Then one experiences joy and peace, a joyous peace, an interior rejoicing that goes hand in hand with the human virtue of cheerfulness. At the very moment when everything seems to be collapsing before our eyes, we realise that quite the opposite is true, ‘because you, Lord, are my strength’. If God is dwelling in our soul, everything else, no matter how important it may seem, is accidental and transitory, whereas we, in God, stand permanent and firm.

Through the gift of piety, the Holy Spirit helps us to realise with certainty that we are children of God. And, being children of God, how can we be sad? Sadness is the end product of selfishness. If we truly want to live for God, we will never lack cheerfulness, even when we discover our errors and wretchedness. Cheerfulness finds its way into our life of prayer, so much so that we cannot help singing for joy. For we are in love, and singing is a thing that lovers do.
 
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