Im turning into a mean cold shouldered woman

[OLHope]

If you ever really need to the extra umph it will take to say no to this guy just picture him with a big clown nose and Halloween devil costume horns(that is what he is trying to get you to give up). Then picture him dressed that and behaving that way on a date. The mere adolescent humor of the thought ought to quell any social pressure. :yup::extrahappy::bigyikes::hypno::bounce::whacky::juggle:uch:

He already looks like this.

 

[OLHope]

Ok, I wrote him:
“Hey Ian…, I do have another commitment that night, so it doesn’t look like I can make it. You have a great birthday!”

He wrote back:
“Thanks Hope. I’ll catch up with you later…”

Done! Phew! (Hoping for no later)!