Do you mind an outsider coming in with a question that I have been wanting to ask for ages (I’m Orthodox and not Roman Catholic.)
At the time of the holy Archangel’s visit, Mary was free to accept or reject the invitation to become the Mother of God.
What happens if she refused? Would that mean there would be an immaculately conceived human being anyway? Or would God have cancelled her immaculateness and returned her to a normal spiritual state like other humans and sought out another girl to become the Mother of God?
Sorry for intruding but this has always interested me.
Of course, I cannot say anything for sure because I do not have that authority but I understand it to be that if the Blessed Virgin, in her free will, decided not to be the Mother of the God-Man, we never have God-incarnate ( He only had one women in mind in Genesis).
Check out the book of Job 42: 7-11.
Just as the Eliphaz and his two friends had to ask for the INTERCESSION of Job to obtain pardon for their sins, it was ONLY through Jobs cooperation in his FREE WILL that moved God to save those men. Likewise, it was ONLY through the cooperation of the Blessed Virgin Mary with God that we were offered the gift of Salvation by Jesus (it also works in the opposite sense too: ie: Adam and Eve, their sin, our sin; the covenant)
Her Immaculate Conception was a gift from God so that she may be a proper mother of Christ Jesus, if she accepted. I am sure that she would have kept regardless. Of course, these kinds of question always lead into speculation which is generally abstract and not very useful. The best approach is to concentrate on what did happen and work from there.
Jeremiah 1:5 can be applied to the august Virgin allegorically, this is why I hold that God, the Holy Ghost, her spouse, had
only one woman in mind that was ever going to be offered that tremendous honor of being the Mother of Christ.
God, not out of necessity, but out of His will, wanted Mary involved in our Salvation and accomplished this by involved Mary at key points during the Salvation History: Genesis, prophetically in the OT, at the Cross, and in battle with the Dragon. St. Louis De Montfort really does a nice job in teaching this, please read True Devotion to Mary if you have any desire to learn more about Our Mother.
The mere fact that it is recorded in the Holy Bible that Jesus gave us His mother, at the most powerful moment in Jesus’ triumph over the Devil, can only be something perpetual, not just some temporal thing. If it truly was just temporal, why did the Holy Spirit instruct St. John to insert it there? Do you really think that would make sense on God’s part?
In the Gospel according to St. John this disciple is unnamed is because THAT DISCIPLE IS YOU.
When Jesus therefore had seen his mother and the disciple standing whom he loved, he said to his mother: Woman, behold thy son. -John 19:26
Ahhh, the sweetness of Christ, to give us His mother! He knows how much we would need her and He thought of that on the Cross during His agony.
Whats between you and Jesus is calvary. Take Mary’s hand, she has walked that path with Jesus and will lead you
directly to Him!
The timing of Jesus’ decision to give us His mother is no coincidence; it was only at the utter peak of His Glory during the Passion that He gave us this wonderful gift of His mother.
Why would you throw away a gift from Jesus?
Also, if you read don’t read anything I suggest, I implore you to read Wisdom ch 7-9. These are quite possibly the most beautiful allegorical descriptions of the Blessed Virgin in scripture.