At what point does dancing become immodest? For example, this kind of dancing, “contra dancing,” is popular around here.
youtube.com/watch?v=4G2DmPRIALc
Now, I have been invited a few times do these dances, and I have to confess that there have been many times that it has made me feel uncomfortable. I don’t know if that video conveys the full effect, but the dance still has you putting your hands all over all the other women in the room and embracing them. And this is just about the most mild sort of dancing I’ve ever been to. I don’t want to be overly scrupulous about this sort of thing and risk passing any judgment concerning any activity if others participate in it blamelessly, and this activity would not be abnormal according to the common culture, but at the same time, the common culture is a poor guide in moral matters, I don’t want to participate in this if it is indecent, especially when it potentially brings strong temptation to lustful thoughts.