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I suffer anxiety and particularly in meetings where I need to get my needs heard.

I am paying a pyschologist to come with me and have a meeting with my daughters teachers. I’m blank at the moment and need to mentally prepare for wednesday and its monday afternoon now. This cause is very dear to me as my daughter is struggling with all aspects of high school life and aspergers and her learning is suffering.

Please pray that I can deliver my concerns and information to the teachers without falling in a panicked heap.

I just dont deeply believe people believe in what I say or that I am worthy of what I ask for, its sounds ridiculous but its a deeply grained schema, buried far down in my core.

I’m really packing it here

I need mental strength, my daughter needs it from me for her.
 
Praying that you will have calmness and clarity of mind at the meeting. Praying also for your daughter.
 
I am so truly sorry for what you and your daughter are going through. My father and I both suffer from anxiety disorders too, particularly OCD, so I can personally sympathize with you. I’m so sorry for the pain you feel inside, the sense of being unworthy of anything, always being inadequate. I know how deeply this can affect your capacities to interact with others, as well as their frequent insensitivity. I wish I could offer you a way out, a cure, but I’m sure there is little I can tell you that you haven’t already heard, especially since you seem to have a therapist. I can only say that, no matter what you have done or what has happened to you, you are a child of God, made in the image of the Divine, who suffered and died because He loved you and wanted to remove all that guilt and negativity you feel and replace it with the hope and love we all need and long for. No matter what else is happening, always try to remember God’s love and the promise of Heaven, the paradise of love everlasting.

I fervently pray for you and your daughter, that your anxiety and psychological and spiritual issues may be healed, that you may find consolation and strength in the love of Christ and in the intercession of the saints, and that your work to help and support your daughter may go smoothly. I also pray for your daughter’s healing from her aspergers and any other problems she may have, that she may find hope and solace in the promise of Heaven and support in your love regardless of what else is going on. I also pray for the forgiveness of all your and your daughter’s sins, and your protection from all evils. I ask for the intercession of the Blessed Virgin Mary, your and your daughter’s guardian angels, Job the Patriarch and St. Philomena, the latter two being patron saints against mental illness. God bless. 🙂

Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen.
 
Shae said:
I suffer anxiety and particularly in meetings where I need to get my needs heard.

I am paying a pyschologist to come with me and have a meeting with my daughters teachers. I’m blank at the moment and need to mentally prepare for wednesday and its monday afternoon now. This cause is very dear to me as my daughter is struggling with all aspects of high school life and aspergers and her learning is suffering.

Please pray that I can deliver my concerns and information to the teachers without falling in a panicked heap.

I just dont deeply believe people believe in what I say or that I am worthy of what I ask for, its sounds ridiculous but its a deeply grained schema, buried far down in my core.

I’m really packing it here

I need mental strength, my daughter needs it from me for her.
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Dear Shae,

Just having the Psychologist with you will be enough to show the school you are serious about getting your daughters needs met. She has a right to be treated fairly and given everything that the school can muster to help her with her education, and you as her parent have the right to demand to be listened to.

They will look at you seriously because you have professional support and a lot of time the psychologist does most of the talking and you just have to be there. I have had experience here as my son has Aspergers and we have regular meetings, I always attend with his psychologist. I have suffered terribly with anxiety before his diagnoses, especially when dealing with teachers but with the right professional support you are then able to stand up for your child–we are all they have so we have to be strong.

PRAYER TO THE HOLY SPIRIT
Come Holy Spirit, Replace the tension within us with a holy relaxation.
Replace the turbulence within us with a sacred calm.
Replace the anxiety within us with a quiet confidence
Replace the fear within us with a strong faith.
Replace the bitterness within us with sweetness of grace.
Replace the darkness within us with a gentle light.
Replace the coldness within us with a loving warmth.
Replace the night within us with your light.
Replace the winter within us with your spring.
Straighten our crookedness, till our emptiness.
Duff the edge of our pride, sharpen the edge of our humility.
Light the fires of our love, quench the flames of our lust.
Let us see ourselves as you see us, that we may see you as
you have promised and be fortunate according to your word.

“Blessed are the pure of heart, for they shall see God”.
 
Shae said:
I suffer anxiety and particularly in meetings where I need to get my needs heard.

I just dont deeply believe people believe in what I say or that I am worthy of what I ask for, its sounds ridiculous but its a deeply grained schema, buried far down in my core.
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I am praying for you and your daughter.

As someone who suffered greatly with anxiety and the feelings you described about yourself, especially lacking worth of what you ask for, I would recommend finding a good psychologist to see for your own growth beyond this meeting. I think it could be very helpful for you. About 5 years ago I met with one frequently for about a year. It really helped me get to the root of my emotions and behaviors. Now, I am much better and I am thankful of the struggles I suffered because they have made me a better person. If you can afford a therapist, then I would highly recommend seeing one. The hard part is finding a good one that will help you get to the root of your feelings.
 
Praying for you, asking all the angels and saints in Heaven to join us in prayer.
 
Hail Mary, full of grace.
Our Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb,
Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God,
pray for us sinners,
now and at the hour of our death.
Amen.
 
I entrust you and your daughter to the care of the Blessed Virgin Mary. May your devotion to her and to her Rosary free you from your anxiety and fear, and help your daughter to improve in school. May she ease your suffering and help you and your daughter to pray for the graces you need to persevere in a state of grace. Amen.
 
For you and your daughter

Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come, thy will be
done, on earth as it is in heaven Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our
trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us, and lead us not into temptation
but deliver us from evil. Amen

Hail Mary full of grace the Lord is with thee
blessed art thou among women and
blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus
Holy Mary mother of God pray for us
sinners now and at the hour of our death
Amen.

Glory Be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning is now ever shall be world without end Amen
 
***Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb,
Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of death.

Amen***
 
Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come, thy will be
done, on earth as it is in heaven Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our
trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us, and lead us not into temptation
but deliver us from evil. Amen

Hail Mary full of grace the Lord is with thee
blessed art thou among women and
blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus
Holy Mary mother of God pray for us
sinners now and at the hour of our death
Amen.

Glory Be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning is now ever shall be world without end Amen
 
I feel so deeply touched by your compassion to pray for my daughter and myself. I do feel that I can do this. I have to.
I pray that I can ignore the negative voices that ‘say’ they can see your anxiety, and therefore you are not credible.

I’ll be there in two hours. I am so so grateful for your love and prayers. I’ll post about this later. Thankyou and God bless.
 
Shae there are clouds above, and they have a good message.
They seem substantial, don’t they. At the moment yours may be a layer of clouds, but think of towering cumulus clouds…they look kind of solid, don’t they. Fly into them, or walk through low cloud…and all is simply misty, insubstantial.
We look at other and see only how strong and confident and normal others are, because we see them from outside. But within us, there is uncertainty and doubt, a mistiness, you could say. I think clouds provide a fair simile for how we perceive other people, how we perceive ourselves, the less confident of us.

Dear Lord please help Shae to go forward in peaceful confidence.
 
Shae said:
I suffer anxiety and particularly in meetings where I need to get my needs heard.

I am paying a pyschologist to come with me and have a meeting with my daughters teachers. I’m blank at the moment and need to mentally prepare for wednesday and its monday afternoon now. This cause is very dear to me as my daughter is struggling with all aspects of high school life and aspergers and her learning is suffering.

Please pray that I can deliver my concerns and information to the teachers without falling in a panicked heap.

I just dont deeply believe people believe in what I say or that I am worthy of what I ask for, its sounds ridiculous but its a deeply grained schema, buried far down in my core.

I’m really packing it here

I need mental strength, my daughter needs it from me for her.
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Praying for your intention, God bless you.
 
*** Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb,
Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of death.

Amen
 
Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come, thy will be
done, on earth as it is in heaven Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our
trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us, and lead us not into temptation
but deliver us from evil. Amen

Hail Mary full of grace the Lord is with thee
blessed art thou among women and
blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus
Holy Mary mother of God pray for us
sinners now and at the hour of our death
Amen.

Glory Be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning is now ever shall be world without end Amen​

 
Shae said:
I feel so deeply touched by your compassion to pray for my daughter and myself. I do feel that I can do this. I have to.
I pray that I can ignore the negative voices that ‘say’ they can see your anxiety, and therefore you are not credible.

I’ll be there in two hours. I am so so grateful for your love and prayers. I’ll post about this later. Thankyou and God bless.
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Lord Jesus,

We pray that Shae may be comforted in the knowledge you are always by her side, even when she feels alone and in despair, we pray she recieves the many graces you wish to give her. We pray for her to trust in your mercy and love.

We also pray for her precious daughter you have entrusted in her care, please help and guide this child on her journey through life, let others be drawn to her and appreciate her differences and her unique way of being, let others see your face reflected through her.

We pray in Jesus Name. AMEN
 
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