No I showed it, but it doesn’t say polygamy and so you won’t accept it. It’s also been shown that Nathan said that God gave David his wives, but; still the rationality that the practice was acceptable to God and commanded of God is just too much for your to accept.
Nathan said that because in early Judaism, they did not have a distinction between God
allowing something, and God positively willing or
causing something. They reasoned that because God is all-powerful, if something happened, it must have been because God caused it. Even sin. They had the right premise but the wrong conclusion.
The earlier books of scripture reflect this incomplete understanding of God. If Pharoah sinned, it must be because God hardened his heart and caused him to, if David had multiple wives, then they must have been given by God etc… There was no understanding of the relation between free will and God’s providence, or God allowing things that He didn’t approve of.
But as the centuries went on their theology deepened, so that they could begin to see that not everything that happens necessarily happens because God positively willed it. A good example of this development is the way 2 Samuel and 1 Chronicles recount the same story of David holding a census against God’s will. 2 Samuel 24 says God himself caused David to take a census of the people, where 1st Chronicle’s version says it was satan that tempted him, not God. Chronicles was written after the Babylonian exile, which explains why the versions are so different. It reflects the deeper understanding Israel had of the nature of God at that particular time that they didn’t have at the time 2nd Samuel was written.
This gets even more explicit when we get to the book of Sirach, which was written a little bit after Chronicles. Even if you don’t accept it as Scripture, it’s still a good illustration of how Jewish thought developed on the issue:
Do not say, “Because of the Lord I left the right way”; for he will not do what he hates. Do not say, “It was he who led me astray”; for he has no need of a sinful man. The Lord hates all abominations,
and they are not loved by those who fear him. 14 It was he who created man in the beginning,
and he left him in the power of his own inclination. 15 If you will, you can keep the commandments,
and to act faithfully is a matter of your own choice. 16 He has placed before you fire and water:
stretch out your hand for whichever you wish. 17 Before a man are life and death,
and whichever he chooses will be given to him. 18 For great is the wisdom of the Lord;
he is mighty in power and sees everything; 19 his eyes are on those who fear him,
and he knows every deed of man. 20 He has not commanded any one to be ungodly.(Sirach 15:11-20)
Now we see there’s an explicit distinction between what God wants and what man does, which was not as clearly understood in the earlier books of the Old Testament.
Anyways, the point of all this is to show that just because a book in the Old Testament says God caused or did something, that doesn’t necessarily mean He approves of it. Otherwise we would have to say God also caused David to sin with the census, which is not true, according to the rest of the bible.
So, if we want to know what God intended for marriage, then we need to follow Jesus’ example: Don’t go back to David or Moses or even Abraham, go all the way back to the beginning, before sin entered the world, before mankind rejected God. And when we do, we see monogamy, not polygamy, is what God created. If God intended polygamy, then he would have given Adam multiple wives. But he didn’t. He gave him one.