Don’t read Chosen But Free (I saw this book recommended. It is full of fallacious reasoning and exegesis. It builds a strawman of Calvinism and then does a pretty substandard job of dismantling that. Don’t waste your time or money.
If you want an Arminian book, I’d recommend trying Picirrili. I disagree with him, but he’s far better than Geisler.
And, yes, God does predestine and determine ALL things (Rom 8:28; Eph 1:11). Rand Al’Thor. **You need to allow Reformed people to define their own positions. **If you want to disagree with that position that’s your business, but just because it doesn’t make sense to you doesn’t mean that it isn’t what we believe. Also, you speak as though we have no exegetical basis for our positions, and then use “logic” to argue against it. A better starting place would be the Bible and not what makes sense to you. Exegesis trumps “logic” any time.