In need of help!

[brendenseth]

Of CORSE I don’t know all the details.

You opened this thread with the facts that you had a wife who was pathologically lying, cheating over the internet, has brain injuries and deep sexual problems in her past. My first though and concern is for your child.

It’s not divoce her and toss her in the dirt. It’s making sure that you have 100% custody so that if someone tricks your wife or does something malicious over the internet your child is not in danger. You can continue to help her heal, and then when she is mentally right remarry (or now perhaps revalidate) the vows.

You don’t always find what you look for on the internet. There will be people who disagree with you, or are unnerved by your choices.

Actually you first said "Keep your daughter away from this woman, even if she looks like she’s making progress, visitation should always be supervised. She is very ill, and not in a way that can be cured, just tempered.

File for divorce and annulment. You do not want to be legally tied to her. It’s not heartless, its so that if she turns into an offender you do not become involved. It also ensures that if she ever hurts your child you can testify against her."

What other way was I supposed to interpret that?

 

[brendenseth]

If thats what he wants, that’s great for him. Leagal protection is good, too. The whole situation is extremely sad. I do think regardless he needs things on paper. He made the choice to marry her, so he has to live with it. if he chooses to.

BTW I’m not the only person who suggested that he has a hard row to how if he chooses to stay with this woman. I really am not sorry for what I said at all.

No, we don’t know the whole story. We never can. But he opened the thread saying he was married to a pathological liar who was cheating with online sources. My first thought, care and concern is for the child involved, not for his wife. If he can get and keep his child out of danger then perhaps his marriage can survive.

And thank you for making a difficult time for me worse. You’re not sorry for how you treated me? That’s pathetic, all I can do is turn the other cheek. I should of known better than to engage with a bully.