I think my friend pointed out best: between you, your confessor, and God. That’s why I’ll never bring myself to ask someone: “When was the last time you went to confession?”
Right, there is more to the path to holiness than just going to Confession. It certainly is a part of that journey, but not the only thing in that journey. That is what is being missed here. Our discernment on approaching for Communion isn’t summed up by one act, but our entire life and our entire journey. That is at least the Eastern way.
Actually they are not put apart (they only live separated and may have civil legal things done if necessary to sort out care of the kids etc).
They are still married.
Divorce does not dissolve their sacrament.
Again off topic
scborromeo.org/ccc/p2s2c3a7.htm#V
If you don’t live as husband and wife, you are not husband and wife. It is as simple as that. It is the same way with approaching Communion. Are you at least trying to live life as a faithful Christian. If you are, then it doesn’t matter if you falter in sin. It happens, it is a fact of our lives. We are on a journey to holiness, as long as we are on that journey and we are committed to that journey then we have discerned rightfully to approach. But if we are not, if we are stuck to our sins and refuse to reform, then we eat and drink judgment to ourselves. This is not summed up by one act.
Tell me this, if I legalistically follow Catholicism for the sake of following it. I show up to Mass every week and every Day of Obligation. I don’t eat meat when I shouldn’t eat meat, I fast the two days I am requried to. But I live a life of excess. I fornicate, I gamble, I drink to get drunk, I party. Holy Thursday I go to confession knowing I have the obligation to receive Communion once a year, so I stop all those things I do for 4 days. I receive Communion on Easter Sunday, then on Eastern Monday I go back to that life. Was I worthy to receive Communion more than someone who prays dails, fasts, goes to confession once a month, but it just happens that one Sunday morning they falter and commit a mortal sin, and then approach Communion? Who is worth and who is not worthy of these two? Who is the real Christian?
What I had in mind, when I asked, was the Latin thinking that led to said union. In other words, imagine asking the Latins in 1594 (the year before) “So what’s this Union of Brest you’re planning? What are you hoping to accomplish thereby?”
People would like to think this is all, “oh, they realized their faith is nothing without the Pope.” But there were more considerations for that. As the same with the Council of Florence, they tried to get Rome to help out with the barbarians and the threat of the Islamic armies. I haven’t delved into this history but I heard that Rome never sent the armies anyway. They also thought they could bridge East and West by being in communion with both. Also do not discount the political nature of the Churches in the former Rus. There are separate claims as to where the Royal Family of Rus did escape to. Moscow or Galicia.
I’m not talking about worthiness. I’m talking about the Eucharist being for the remission of sins. I am still puzzled why you think the Latins and Easterns are “worlds apart” on this matter. You haven’t provided any proof.
Blessings,
Marduk
19 pages of circular arguments on this thread isn’t proof? The fact that I’m offering the Eastern perspective and Bookcat is not buying anything of it shows how far apart we are. We do not only have different perspectives but there is also stubborness to understand the other side.
Dear brother ConstantineTG,
There’s a lot of ifs and buts in Latin Canon law. Perhaps you have never looked (admittedly, attitudes like Bookcat’s don’t help, but neither does yours).
Actually, your consistent failure to look at or admit the manifestations of oikonomia within the Laitn Tradition in their Canon law (indults, invincible ignorance, specific mitigations for extenuating circumstances, etc., etc.) can also be legalism. You should keep that in mind.
Blessings,
Marduk
Indults are only granted by Papal dispensation. And even dispensation is overtly legalistic, as it is outlined what can or cannot be dispensed. As Jesus said, the Sabbath was created for man, not man for the Sabbath. If the law disregards the human condition, then what good is it to the actual needs of man? Not just because there is a capability to excuse one from the law, it doesn’t mean it is the same thing. I think you are looking at these on a very high level which is why it appears to be the same thing. But when you examine closely that is when you will find out that there are differences.