Thanks everyone, this is exactly the sort of stuff I’m needing.
I don’t think she’s a JW, she said she was a “non-denominational Christian”, having been raised Anglican and then having a falling out with a rather apathetic pastor who refused to baptise a dying relative.
I do work with a JW so this stuff is going to come in handy.
Be sure to phrase what you say to the JW gently. They, along with Mormons, are taught that rejection (itself) proves that their opinions from the bible are correct.
eg: Jesus said that if you speak his words, the “world” will hate you.
Rejection certainly can be caused by speaking Jesus’ words to the world – but it can also be caused by being obstinately wrong. They often don’t see the distinction and it’s an emotional trap for them. (as it can be for us, too, if we aren’t careful.)
The unity of the body of man and wife, taught clearly in Genesis – and re-affirmed by Jesus as “Law” (esp. regarding divorce) – it a very good thing to keep in mind when discussing the trinity with JW’s. For they see the trinity as an “amalgam” or “confusion” – but it is easily pointed out we are made in God’s image – and that man and wife become “one” without confusion of brain or even body – although we do give each other the “slime” of the earth from which Adam was formed; and we do have children which are “us” according to the flesh. My children are me and my wife, in the sense of his body.
A second thing to keep in mind, is that “firstborn” means highest quality, or “first fruits”. The allusion is to the degradation that bodies usually suffer through bearing children (stretch marks, anyone???), and often [but not always] the child who receives the best nutrition and head-start is the first child.
God called Israel (as a nation), his “firstborn” son in Exodus – but God decalred his “firstborn” as “Israel” to Pharaoh head of “Egypt”; and notice: Egypt (the nation) existed even before Abraham was born.
Israel isn’t the first nation to come into existence – and Egypt does belong to God – who is called the father of all (esp. government). St. Paul talks about obeying all civil authority which comes from God.
It may be a good idea to consider/discuss whether or not Egypt
really was the “firstborn” Son & nation (or if another nation was, before even Egypt??) – whom God disowned, or if these earlier nation(s) simply failed to be of good quality (first-quality AKA. Proto-token) in God’s eyes – and were rejected.
If the discussion is done tactfully, it will probably produce a fruitful conversation…
There are several other points about the J.W.'s doctrines that are important to study if you do get into a deeper scriptural argument with them. I find that often apologists attack some of their views un-neccessarily harshly.
The saying of God – that he made man in his image – is understood even in Catholic theology to potentially (or also…) include the heavenly court of Angels who are called “Sons of God” in scripture. We have spirits, the same as God, and the Angels – TOO – have spirits. So it isn’t a contradiction. They have a part in the ordering of our present world – and that is also why the devil will be damned with the remains of this world.
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DO think it quite appropriate to see the trinity as included in those words in Genesis – but I don’t think it something to use as an absolute apologetic against the J.W.'s.
If you break your conversations up into shorter pieces, telling them you need to think about what they say – because it seems at least partially right but there is something you can’t quite put your finger on that you want to share – that may help you get beyond the pressure of having to answer right away when you don’t know “the” right answer. We all have to learn – it’s no shame.
Regarding the friend at hand, rather than the hypothetical encounter to come:
Did she or anyone else attempt to baptize the dying friend? Did the dying friend
want baptism, or were they against it?
I’m wondering, because if she tried but used the wrong formula; there may be a deeper guilt feeling which is actually at the root of her argument. That would require us to talk about baptism and the Name of the Trinity in a different way.
eg: along the lines of the hope for those not sacramentally baptized in this world. She needs to know that all hope is not lost even if there was a failure to show forth the sign of baptism.
Your brother in Christ, Jesus.
–Andrew.