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Again, I do appreciate these comments. I will pray on them and consider them very carefully. I appreciate everything you have written and everything everyone else has written as well. I am thankful people are willing to devote their time to answering my questions.I can certainly understand how all this can be confusing. I am about to leave for a 4-hour drive so I hope my following statements will prove to be helpful, as it will be quite awhile before I can do any follow-up commentary.
The Holy Spirit, in his love and mercy, makes himself available to people in a variety of ways. These ways can be divided into two categories: sacramental and non-sacramental. When we talk about miracles, the yearning of people to know God (and seek baptism), and many experiences in our daily prayer life, we are describing what the Holy Spirit does in a non-sacramental capacity (and I’m speaking generally here).
The work of the Holy Spirit in the sacraments, however, provides a special grace, “sacramental grace”. This grace is “fine tuned” to do what the sacrament is designed to do. For example, the “ordinary means” that God absolves us from mortal sin is the Sacrament of Reconciliation. God can (and does) absolve us from mortal sin through what is called “perfect contrition”, but this is not sacramental absolution, but rather an “extraordinary means” for dealing with post-baptismal sin (and here, “extraordinary” simply means, “outside the norm”, not “incredibly good”). The benefit of going to confession over relying on perfect contrition is that it is hard for us to gauge whether or not we truly have perfect contrition to begin with. But in order to receive absolution in the Sacrament of Reconciliation, we simply have to be at least somewhat sorry for our sins, properly confess them, have a firm purpose of amendment and do our penance. Objectively speaking, I can know whether or not I made what is called a “good confession”, but I usually cannot know if I have perfect contrition. But perfect contrition, fortunately, is not a requirement for making a good confession in the context of the Sacrament of Reconciliation (all we need is “some” contrition, not “perfect” contrition).
I know that this thread is focusing on Confirmation, so the only reason why I brought up Confession is because I think it helps to understand the difference between sacramental grace and non-sacramental grace. We have certain assurances with the sacraments.
As I stated earlier, each sacrament is regulated by “matter” (the material utilized) and “form” (the words spoken). These are the parameters for a sacrament to be valid. For example, the matter for baptism is water, not sand, so if a person goes to get baptized and the minister pours sand over his head instead of water, it is not a valid baptism. It could be argued that the person received “baptism by desire” (i.e., an extraordinary means of obtaining God’s grace) but not a valid sacramental baptism (i.e., an ordinary means). Generally speaking, when we speak of “extraordinary means” we are often theorizing how God does things, but we have the assurance of God’s revelation concerning his “ordinary means.”
The Church’s teachings concerning the matter and form of a sacrament are doctrinal, and therefore we believe that such information is part of God’s revelation. The matter and form for the sacraments includes designating the “ordinary” minister for each one. This is the person empowered by God to administer the sacrament in question. A baptism does not require a member of the clergy for the purposes of sacramental validity. But Confirmation requires a bishop or (in certain circumstances) a priest. This is what has been known and understood within the Church since the beginning, and if someone wonders why this is a rule, the simplest answer is because it is the way God revealed it to us. It is considered part of the apostolic ministry (to which deacons are able to participate in but only to a certain degree).
The sacrament of baptism is the ordinary means by which God initially absolves us of sin and confers upon us the gifts of the Holy Spirit. Confirmation is the ordinary means by which God strengths (or “confirms”) these gifts that we previously received in baptism. God can absolve, confer gifts and strengthen these gifts in extraordinary means as well, but when such actions are done in the ordinary, sacramental capacity, they are to involve those properly designated as the ministers, because these ministers are empowered by God to do so.