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Aramis
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On the Social Engineering side of things:
My mother, still a Latin-Riter, was complaining that we (my wife, kids, and I) do not do enough together.
I had decided, with my wife, that the early vigil DL of the Nativity at the mission at 6PM was the appropriate one due to our children; Christmas Morning would be at least 2 hours (Matins and St Basil), and they cop out at about 1:15… and the Christmas eve later DL was too late, being at 10:30PM, and being vespers and St Basil, likely to be 2 hours as well. So…
We invited Mom to join us; Dad was to be assisting at Mass at midnight and 10AM at their parish, so we didn’t expect him to come. (He’s a Latin-Rite Deacon, for those who don’t already know. He also long considered the Ukrainian Greek Catholic Church… Mom wasn’t so sure.)
Mom waffled…I pointed out that it is a minor indulgence to go to a different parish or mission for the first time. Hook! We picked her up, and Dad opted to join us. For the first time in more than 5 years, we sat as a family of 3 generations, together.
To those versed in the Roman concept of Purgatory and temporal punishment therein, an indulgence is a good motivator. Dad needed no hook to go. Mom went because of the hook of shaving some time off of purgatory. Dad went because he loves the liturgy, didn’t have to drive, and because it was a Family Gathering.
So, as social engineering goes, it works.
My mother, still a Latin-Riter, was complaining that we (my wife, kids, and I) do not do enough together.
I had decided, with my wife, that the early vigil DL of the Nativity at the mission at 6PM was the appropriate one due to our children; Christmas Morning would be at least 2 hours (Matins and St Basil), and they cop out at about 1:15… and the Christmas eve later DL was too late, being at 10:30PM, and being vespers and St Basil, likely to be 2 hours as well. So…
We invited Mom to join us; Dad was to be assisting at Mass at midnight and 10AM at their parish, so we didn’t expect him to come. (He’s a Latin-Rite Deacon, for those who don’t already know. He also long considered the Ukrainian Greek Catholic Church… Mom wasn’t so sure.)
Mom waffled…I pointed out that it is a minor indulgence to go to a different parish or mission for the first time. Hook! We picked her up, and Dad opted to join us. For the first time in more than 5 years, we sat as a family of 3 generations, together.
To those versed in the Roman concept of Purgatory and temporal punishment therein, an indulgence is a good motivator. Dad needed no hook to go. Mom went because of the hook of shaving some time off of purgatory. Dad went because he loves the liturgy, didn’t have to drive, and because it was a Family Gathering.
So, as social engineering goes, it works.