Inflammatory Breast Cancer

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I am very angry at God, and I don’t see how my prayer makes a difference anymore, because everything I pray for doesn’t manifest. However, I believe God listens to others. Maybe you. So this is my last ditch effort.

My sister in law went to the doctor today and she may have inflammatory breast cancer. She has all the signs but one. She has had cysts in the past, but none of this looks good.

If she gets sick and if she dies (and usually this cancer starts out at stage 3) it will ruin my brother. It will kill him. For a long time now I have prayed for my brother and his wife. I have asked God that I get their ailments. I’ve asked that they have children if it be His will. They are good people. And yet here we go.

Where is God? Where is God for my sister in law? Where is the hope?

I am asking you to pray for Heather Yerian. I am asking you to pray that she not have cancer. I am asking for you to pray to God in the hopes that He hears you, that he will love Heather and prevent this from being true.

I am very angry right now. I am wondering what the point of hope is. Please pray for my sister in law Heather, that she not have cancer, and that both of them will be guided, blessed, and protected by the Lord Jesus Christ.

Thank you.
 
Hail Mary, Full of Grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou amongst women, and blest is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

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Norm640 said:
I am very angry at God, and I don’t see how my prayer makes a difference anymore, because everything I pray for doesn’t manifest. However, I believe God listens to others. Maybe you. So this is my last ditch effort.

My sister in law went to the doctor today and she may have inflammatory breast cancer. She has all the signs but one. She has had cysts in the past, but none of this looks good.

If she gets sick and if she dies (and usually this cancer starts out at stage 3) it will ruin my brother. It will kill him. For a long time now I have prayed for my brother and his wife. I have asked God that I get their ailments. I’ve asked that they have children if it be His will. They are good people. And yet here we go.

Where is God? Where is God for my sister in law? Where is the hope?

I am asking you to pray for Heather Yerian. I am asking you to pray that she not have cancer. I am asking for you to pray to God in the hopes that He hears you, that he will love Heather and prevent this from being true.

I am very angry right now. I am wondering what the point of hope is. Please pray for my sister in law Heather, that she not have cancer, and that both of them will be guided, blessed, and protected by the Lord Jesus Christ.

Thank you.
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We humbly ask You two favours.

We humbly ask You to pour forth Your grace to help this person’s sister in law and through your faithful servant Saint Agatha we ask that you restore this person’s health and remove this breast cancer.

We humbly ask you to listen to this intention to sooth the feelings of anger in the heart of the op and to pour forth Your Grace to bring peace to this person and to help reconcile this person to You.

I pray this prayer to You.
 
I am a breast cancer survivor of about ten yrs. now, and I will pray for your sister in-law. Please do not give up hope. May the Holy Spirit guide you and keep you strong for your sister in-law. Ask Our Lady of Purpetual help to help you and pray the miracle prayer. You will find them on the internet. I will go and pray for the three of you now. God bless you. Brenda
 
Asking our Holy Mother to intercede with Heather’s life!

Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death.
Amen.
 
We pray;

Lord, you are the giver of life and each day is blessing. Please bring comfort and healing into the lives of this person’s family.

And we pray for an end to the suffering and causes of breast cancer for all mothers, wives, sisters, daughters, aunts, grand mothers, nieces, grand daughters and women everywhere.

We pray also you may turn anger and confusion into love and acceptance for our friend Norm640 in this time of testing.

Lord hear our prayer.
 
I’ve been praying for my husband for a long time and wondering why it seems nothing has happened… The answer came to me loud and clear one day as I was praying. God the Father loves my husband MORE than I ever could. God has a plan for my husband that I am not privileged to understand at this time. All will be accomplished in GOD’s time and in GOD’s way. Yes, He wants us to ask for things we think we need, but NEVER, NEVER think God doesn’t love your Sister-in-law. He may love her so much, He wants her with Him right now. Doesn’t God have that right? And He loves your brother and YOU just the same. Don’t be angry because you don’t understand God’s plan or that He isn’t doing the plan Your way… Talk to him and tell him all about it. Shout at Him. He loves you and wants you be “hot or cold” rather than luke warm.

Here’s a little prayer that may help you. I will say some more for you and your family.

O Sacred Heart of Jesus, we place our trust in Thee.
Whatever may befall us, Lord, though dark the hour may be,
In all our woes, in all our joys, though naught but grief we see,
Oh Sacred Heart of Jesus, we place our trust in Thee. Amen
 
You sound like a very loving, devoted sister to your brother and sister-in-law. They are very lucky and blessed to have you in their lives:)

I’m praying for Heather’s health and for you, dear one, so you can turn to God with your frustration. Trust me, He can handle your pain. Give it to Him. He’s handled greater pain before, so you can count on Him to tackle yours!

God Bless:signofcross:
 
Litany to Our Lady of Fatima

Our Lady of Fatima, pray for our dear country.
Our Lady of Fatima, sanctify our clergy.
Our Lady of Fatima, make our Catholics more fervent.
Our Lady of Fatima, guide and inspire those who govern us.
Our Lady of Fatima, cure the sick who confide in thee.
Our Lady of Fatima, console the sorrowful who trust in thee.
Our Lady of Fatima, help those who invoke your aid.
Our Lady of Fatima, deliver us from all dangers.
Our Lady of Fatima, help us to resist temptation.
Our Lady of Fatima, obtain for us all that we lovingly ask of thee.
Our Lady of Fatima, help those who are dear to us.
Our Lady of Fatima, bring back to the right road our erring brothers.
Our Lady of Fatima, give us back our ancient fervor.
Our Lady of Fatima, obtain for us pardon of our manifold sins and offenses.
Our Lady of Fatima, bring all men to the feet of thy Divine Child.
Our Lady of Fatima, obtain peace for the world.

O Mary, conceived without sin, pray for us who have recourse to thee!
Immaculate Heart of Mary, pray for us now and at the hour of our death. Amen.

Let Us Pray:

O God of infinite goodness and mercy, fill our hearts with a great confidence in Thy dear Mother, whom we invoke under the title of Our Lady of the Rosary and Our Lady of Fatima, and grant us by her powerful intercession all the graces, spiritual and temporal, which we need. Through Christ our Lord. Amen.
 
Petra, you appear to be saying that it doesn’t really matter if we pray or not, because God is going to do what God wants. God loves Heather so much he wants her to be with Him? And so by His design it is OK to put her through agony? Not to mention the intense suffering of her family?

Basically you’re saying praying is like playing the lottery. Unless- by chance- what we’re praying for jibes with God’s own plan we cannot affect the outcome. And God is cool with us little ones shouting and praying and being angry at him, because it is cute. Not because he really cares that we’re upset, but because we’re like little puppies that growl.

So praying is useless. All we can do is hope that our prayers- which are totally and completely ineffectual- are congruent with God’s wishes.

Jesus said our faith can move mountains. But can it, really, if it is all just useless and dependent on God’s never-changing plan?

And if that is the case then all we should do is just shrug our shoulders and await death because God loves us but doesn’t give our prayers much import. He just likes us to be dependent on him.

Ok. I am hoping that God’s plan is not to have Heather be sick. I am hoping that God’s plan is that Heather lives many more decades, has children, and is happy, healthy and safe. I am hoping that God can wait just one more blink of an eye to take Heather away from us and her family. I am hoping that God can see it fruitful to give me, or someone else more deserving, the intense pain and suffering that will await her if it is cancer. I am more despondent than ever. Heather doesn’t deserve this, and I don’t care if God thinks I’m cute for being upset about it. She doesn’t deserve it.
 
Dear Norm, of course God doesn’t wish your sister-in-law to be ill. There may be some genetic tendency, something familiar to me as my family and I tend to have genetic tendencies to elevated autoimmune antinuclear antibodies, and God did not cause our illnesses but stress after her husband’s accident accelerated my sister into Polyositis, and grave concerns for a son’s prolonged hardship caused my levels to rise astronomically so that I must live in calm and trust or I tip into Lupus as my doctor repeatedly warns…these things aren’t God’s fault, Norm…but prayer and trust can help, hopeless as things may sometimes seem. If you look at my profile you should be able to see a scientific experiment regarding prayer that shows it is of practical as well as spiritual benefit.

How loving you are, Norm, to feel so deeply about your brother and sister-in-law.
God is very much in you that you have so much love and wish to give so much support to them. You are yourself a witness to God’s love and grace.

The research regarding breast cancer is improving outcomes, and I’m sure your sister-in-law will receive wonderful care. She won’t face the hopelessness of the poor outcome that was only possible when Saint Therese’s mother had breast cancer back in the 1800s.

I’ll pray for your sister-in-law, your brother, and you. And of course, ask Blessed Zelie Martin, St Therese’s mother, to pray for you all.

With love,
Trishie
 
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Petra, you appear to be saying that it doesn’t really matter if we pray or not, because God is going to do what God wants. God loves Heather so much he wants her to be with Him? And so by His design it is OK to put her through agony? Not to mention the intense suffering of her family?

Basically you’re saying praying is like playing the lottery. Unless- by chance- what we’re praying for jibes with God’s own plan we cannot affect the outcome. And God is cool with us little ones shouting and praying and being angry at him, because it is cute. Not because he really cares that we’re upset, but because we’re like little puppies that growl.

So praying is useless. All we can do is hope that our prayers- which are totally and completely ineffectual- are congruent with God’s wishes.

Jesus said our faith can move mountains. But can it, really, if it is all just useless and dependent on God’s never-changing plan?

And if that is the case then all we should do is just shrug our shoulders and await death because God loves us but doesn’t give our prayers much import. He just likes us to be dependent on him.

Ok. I am hoping that God’s plan is not to have Heather be sick. I am hoping that God’s plan is that Heather lives many more decades, has children, and is happy, healthy and safe. I am hoping that God can wait just one more blink of an eye to take Heather away from us and her family. I am hoping that God can see it fruitful to give me, or someone else more deserving, the intense pain and suffering that will await her if it is cancer. I am more despondent than ever. Heather doesn’t deserve this, and I don’t care if God thinks I’m cute for being upset about it. She doesn’t deserve it.
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Petra"s post was so kind and inspiring to me. She is just a realist and is telling us that the best way to pray is to be sincere with our Lord and that when we pray we should respect God and add always; Your will be done. After all He does know what is best for us and He can call us whenever He choses to. I think sometimes we forget that we truly do belong to Him. His whole purpose for creating us and sending His only Son to die for us was so that hopefully one day we will be with Him for eternity. Isn’t that alone awesome. Nothing is imposible with God. He answered my prayers, He cured my cancer. Trust Him.
 
Norm640 said:
I am asking for you to pray to God in the hopes that He hears you, that he will love Heather and prevent this from being true.
Thank you.
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Dear Norm,
This is the line in your OP that must have caught my attention the most. (And I wanted to be a prayer warrior… ) In replying to you I only made it worse for you. I’m sorry about that. I just wanted you to know that GOD does love Heather–already. So we don’t have to pray for that.

I do want to join you in praying for good news for Heather. Good news that it won’t be cancer…

Dear Father in heaven, please let all people know You are real and You do LOVE them with a never-ending love. Please fill Heather and her family with faith, strength, peace, hope and love. Send them lots of love, Father, because love is the hardest thing to find here on earth. Bless them with good news from the doctors. May they be able to rejoice and praise you from the bottom of their hearts, now and always. I ask this in Jesus’ name, for He gave all for us. Amen.
 
Lord please surround and fill Heather, her husband, and Norm with Your healing, embracing love.
 
Hail Mary, Full of Grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou amongst women, and blest is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

:crossrc:
 
Praying for Heather’s healing and that the Lord may bless her and her husband.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou amongst women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death. Amen
 
Jesus meek and humble of heart, make our hearts like unto thine.
Bless Heather and the whole family. Give them strength, faith, peace, hope and love.

Glory be to the Father and to the Son and to the Holy Spirit, as it was in the beginning, is now and ever shall be, world without end. Amen
 
Hail Mary, Full of Grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou amongst women, and blest is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

:crossrc:
 
Hail Mary, Full of Grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou amongst women, and blest is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

:crossrc:
 
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