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Should we allow ourselves to be blackmailed, by the people that supposed to be helping and representing you. I am a failure to my wife because I refuse to be blackmail causing her the loss of a lot of money that was due to her.
 
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Should we allow ourselves to be blackmailed, by the people that supposed to be helping and representing you. I am a failure to my wife because I refuse to be blackmail causing her the loss of a lot of money that was due to her.
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This sounds complicated. How about going to a priest, providing full details, and asking advice?
 
Your situation seems much too complicated for a message board of strangers. Great advice so far and I would do both; see a priest and a lawyer.
 
Thanks. everyone who have reply to my post. I have had a stroke due to the huge pressures on me, I tried one of my neighbours who goes to a local church to ask a priest to visit me but unfortunately I guess the father must have been too busy, I will try again to call her to ask if she could ask the priests to pop in.

As for a solicitor, they are the problem contributed to destroying both of our lives, I just felt that I had to say something rather than sitting here getting more ill over the matter.

Probably you all could advise me was I wrong to want justice for my wife, we went shopping in a cash-and-carry eight washing machines was stacked on the highest wrecking reaching up to 30 feet half of the stack fell 2 of the machines hit my wife causing brain injury and fractured three vertebrae, I wanted the case to go to court to get an apology from the firm involved, but our solicitor refuse to take the case to court, since they had delayed the case till nearly the end of the three years, I didn’t have much choice in dismissing them, first of all they threaten to come of the records, so I thought the court may allow me more time because it wasn’t my fault, but the firm changed its mind and said that they was going to bring in an official solicitor to take my wise place, giving us no say in the matter. They have totally ignored us since then as if we do not exist because we didn’t go along with their demands. I have to give my wife 24 seven care I have to do everything for her don’t have any time to myself. I am stuck in a lonely situation all I can do is worry and that is making me worse day by day. Should I just accepted their demands, I know it’s too late now for my wife but just wanted to know does anybody feel the way I do. Don’t my wife deserve a public apology from the firm for destroying both of our lives.
 
Colin how sad for you and your wife.
Please try not to second-guess your past choices. You tried to make what you felt was the right decision in the past, and maybe it was, maybe it wasn’t, but it is in the past. Most of us have decisions that in hindsight give us some doubts, but we can only live in the present moment.
I’m inclined to think that compensation is a fair thing to seek, as both your wife and you are profoundly disadvantaged by the consequences of a company’s failure to exercise duty of care to its customers. As you have had a stroke as a consequence of the stress, and your wife is disabled and needing 24/7 care, your lives are financially impacted as well as in other serious ways. I hope that justice will be delivered to you both soon.

My prayers for you and your wife,
kind wishes, Trishie
 
Trishie thanks for your advice, if you had to go through all what I have you would have done the same thing, we have had so many insults from the whole affair, experts saying that my wife was fabricating the whole thing it has been just one thing after another they tried every way to destroy the both of us including turning us against each other saying that my wife was fabricating it all, it is so soul destroying their behaviour, now years later they cannot say that she is fabricating it all. I have always thought my sons to be honest they even interrogated my son asking him if they gave him the power in court to represent my wife would he agree to what I propose, he told them he will always obey me because he trusts my decisions, so they refuse him to represent my wife, even though he had a job that gave him the powers that what the doctor or a priest have being able to verify people’s identity, at that time he worked for the office of fair trading.

I understand what you are saying, but I’m sure that my wife and I would sooner do without that blackmail at this late stage in life rather than join them in hell, and what sort of education would that be giving my sons.

I would like to add the accident took place in April 2003 they have all been paid except my wife the victim of this horrific accident what did they expect her to live on all this years, so it just goes to show they are prepared to let her die, please do not have any sympathy for this corrupted bunch of psychopath.
 
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Colin how sad for you and your wife.
Please try not to second-guess your past choices. You tried to make what you felt was the right decision in the past, and maybe it was, maybe it wasn’t, but it is in the past. Most of us have decisions that in hindsight give us some doubts, but we can only live in the present moment.
I’m inclined to think that compensation is a fair thing to seek, as both your wife and you are profoundly disadvantaged by the consequences of a company’s failure to exercise duty of care to its customers. As you have had a stroke as a consequence of the stress, and your wife is disabled and needing 24/7 care, your lives are financially impacted as well as in other serious ways. I hope that justice will be delivered to you both soon.

My prayers for you and your wife,
kind wishes, Trishie
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Trishie, I am just wondering if I am not allowed to represent my wife, are they expecting my wife to represent herself? it looks like their blackmail is working if we cannot represent ourselves, and no solicitor once to take the case on.

Sad that Catholic answers have not got any answers to a blackmail, of the victim that is totally incapacitated, I guess that’s how Jesus must have felt on the way to the cross.
 
colinberry1 said:
Trishie, I am just wondering if I am not allowed to represent my wife, are they expecting my wife to represent herself? it looks like their blackmail is working if we cannot represent ourselves, and no solicitor once to take the case on.

Sad that Catholic answers have not got any answers to a blackmail, of the victim that is totally incapacitated, I guess that’s how Jesus must have felt on the way to the cross.
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I don’t think it’s that CA posters don’t care, more a combination of the following factors:

–Catholic Answers does not allow posters to give legal advice, and that seems to be much of what you’re asking for;
–Even beyond the rule about legal advice, there’s also the fact that, going by your phrasing, writing style, and links, you are probably in the U.K. The overwhelming majority of us are in the US, and have little to no familiarity with the British legal system, so anything we suggest could send you in the wrong direction, however well-meaning the poster;
–Lastly, and I do NOT mean this as a criticism, only as an explanation: your posting style, especially your use of grammar and punctuation, can be a bit difficult to follow, or at least perhaps harder to follow if you’re on this side of the pond. Some posters may be unsure of exactly what your questions are, even if the questions weren’t somewhat legal in nature.

I very much hope that you and yours receive justice in this dreadful-sounding situation.
 
When my lawyer missed the filing date, he paid my damages out of his money himself.

Of course what you are facing is huge, I hope you can find some relief.
God bless.

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