Indulgences are at the top of my list, purgatory and some of the teachings that accompany these issues…that Mary, the Saints, and Jesus all achieved an over-abundance of merit into a treasury that is dispensed to all of us for visiting shrines and seeing relics and praying certain prayers on certain days. That stuff bugs me the most. Infallibility and papal supremacy is a stumbling block for me also.
What bothers me is how the Catholic Church never thinks anyone on the outside is necessary to keep the Church honest. If it weren’t for Luther and company, there wouldn’t have been a Trent and a counter-reformation. Without Protestants, Vatican II wouldn’t have happened (many in CAF think that would’ve been a good thing). Without the media putting on the intense pressure on the Catholic Church, we’d continue with the status quo of cover-ups, moving sex predators around and shuffling, we’d have more of the same with bishops and priests committing sexual atrocities. The hardcore apologists in here will turn and say “look how many protestant molesters there are!” and “the Church is made up of human beings,” and many would never ever ever accuse the pope of handling this wrong at all or having covered anything up or having even the slightest accountability.
I happen to think the Church needs checks and balances. The media is no saint. I know that. And often they are anti-Catholic and anti-religion in general. Is everything they report clean and honest? Nope. But the media does still have a role to play, keepin’ 'em honest. And the Protestants and Catholics need to keep each other honest, too.
The idea that we have to apologize for everything the Church does with a tribalistic constant defense mentality bugs me and the idea that any criticism is “out to get us” bugs me too.
I think issues like Natural Family Planning are hot-button issues that have alienated some folks. Some people have had different experiences with NFP that weren’t the utter joy and utopia that some in CAF portray. The divorce and remarriage annulments are a dicey subject and the Church talks out of both sides of its mouth with that issue at times.
Then there are pastoral issues. The entire diocese around here is lousy for pastoral care, ministry, getting people evangelized, religious education, and fellowship. There’s a lot of ethnic pandering and just going through the motions. At a parish level I’m burned out and at a theological level I have many questions and doubts. From all the people who IM me and with whom I talk in the forums, I know I’m not alone.