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I have to respectfully disagree with you on this. Catholic marriage is exactly what Sufjon claimed. It all about Love, it there is no Love there is no marriage.TRUE… no one person can tell you… but I vehemently reject the the idea that ALL marriage is about is “love” and ‘feelings’ – that is a totally non-Catholic view of marriage. Catholics believe that marriage is MUCH more then mere feelings. It is a commitment, a sacrament, it is about raising children, about 'the 2 becoming one" - spiritually, as well as physically.
So I have to disagree with Sufijon’s response. Sorry to say. It “sounds” good on the surface and is the type of answer you’d get from a romance movie and the secular world…but it doesn’t have a whole lot of substance to it.
No offense intended. Just giving you a different perspective.
Again… I have to disagree, only that Marriage is about MORE then love. Not just feelings and isn’t merely an intuitive thing. YES God commanded us to love thy neighbor as ourselves… but he did not command us to MARRY everyone we love. Marriage is a different thing then love. We should not reduce it to such a casual thing. I may have love and charity for my fellow man… some more then others…but I do not marry everyone I love.
I have gone to a Catholic School and was always taught with LOVE and God in your life anything is possible.
Even in the most difficult marriage problem if the couple has God and Love in that marriage it will survive. Because what is LOVE? Love is giving oneself to oneanother and God.
And when a couple are truly in love and are married in the Church and as Sufjon does attends Mass on a regular basis with his spouse that marriage will survive.
Marriage is a sacrament in the CC and when it is in Love. it is a true marriage and is instituted by Christ to give GRACE. It is that Grace that grows every day those People attend his Mass that the Grace is given more and more to beat the odds.
I bet if they did a survey on Catholic Marriages who attend mass on a regular basis and have stayed together the results would be amazing.