I’m so glad to see an interest in the Lit of the Hours. I first began to recite the Hours during a brief period of lay-off from my job. I was also going through a personal struggle (spiritually), and ended up experiencing a major conversion of Faith. I didn’t realize how attached I had become to worldly things.
I now recite Morning and Evening on my own, but when I began, it was in a group setting, under the direction of the priest. And, of course, I was completely lost for long while (we used the Pauline one-volume text, which is rather confusing when you’re just starting out). I’ve continued to use the one-volume text because it’s portable, and I can pack it in my brief case when I travel.
I usually follow each intention with the general refrain, and ALWAYS add my own when I recite Evening prayer. In the group setting, the priest would typically read the introduction, the congregation would follow with the response. Then for each intention, the priest would recite the first part and congregation would recite the second part–without reciting the response.
On another note:
The Lit of the Hours is a wonderful way to make a personal commitment to daily prayer. Our whole life is a road to holiness, and daily prayer helps you stay focused.
The church I’ve been attending (since my conversion) is very traditional, and our Pastor has even conducted evening adult education courses, one of which was focused on the Liturgy of the Hours. This also helped increase my understanding of the Liturgy.
I really wish the Church would be more active about encouraging and educating the laity to recite the Liturgy. It’s a beautiful devotion.
Best of Luck
Jim in Virginia