Interested in Conversion to Catholicism

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As you can probably all tell, I am new here and this is my first post. I do warn you that whilst I have tried to keep this post in context, it may be long and somewhat tedious. In addition, please accept my apologies if I have posted this thread in the wrong forum or if this question has been asked so many times it is “old news.”

Prepare yourselves for a “little bit” of background information…

Edited by moderatorI decided to attend a youth Bible-Study at a local Anglican Church, since I wanted to learn more about what Christians believe. At that point in time, I reflected more upon how what I learnt was phoney, and how it couldn’t possibly be true.
Time went on, and around March/April this year, I decided to pick up my Bible (NIV) and read it. Even though I was only reading Genesis, and some “suggested” verses for hardship, which I cannot recall, I lost control and started crying. At that point, I realised that I had to do something, since that something was clearly missing.

Having built a friendship with a Co-Worker, I asked them if they could possibly enlighten me, and they agreed to help. The Church I started attending was a Non-Denominational Christian Church. For the record, I am not baptised in water. One Sunday, that person and their partner were on vacation, and I decided to attend by myself (Neither of my parents are religious). I stood next to another lady, who I knew and who is a family friend. There was a guest preaching that day (A pastor/preacher at another Church. We have no Pastor), and at the end he asked anyone who had not confessed their faith to raise their hand, and it could happen right there and then.
What followed was a particularly interesting experience. My hands became clammy, my heart started to pound. I became hot, uncomfortable and very nervous. I raised my hands, and it was not something that I did entirely out of conscious thought.
Following this experience, I began to wonder whether my two friends were intended to “assist” me onto the right pathway, but not be there forever in my growth. At this point in time, they are still good friends of mine, although they might be moving away due to work in the future.

Since that experience, I have began taking Communion. There does not seem to be objection in the Church to that, and my friends pointed out that one is baptised of the Spirit, not necessarily by water. Further reading and research seemed to prove this, although I am still not convinced. However, I am not a very sociable person, and am uncomfortable asking one of the Church elders for assistance, even though I do know a couple of them in person.

Recently, the lady that I stood beside that day I confirmed my faith stopped coming to our Church. The Anglican Church, which had been without a Pastor/Minister since last year (just after Bible Study finished) had regained a Pastor/Minister. She mentioned that she felt compelled to visit there, and had found it to be more fulfilling and traditional to our Church.
Since we spoke, my friends announced the possibility of them having to move away for work-related reasons. It was then that I seriously started to contemplate converting denominations, and that is the whole point of this post, so I will get onto that now.

Even though the Church I attend has a number of people I know in attendance, and despite the warmth that is there, I am known by many as having an “Old Soul.” I am a stickler for upholding tradition, and do oppose a lot of “new” in the world (Be it those in my interest fields, Computing/Aviation/Music or changes in the way things are done otherwise).
In Church recently, I have often caught myself drifting away slightly during worship. I seem to continually fixate on the idea of joining the Catholic Church. When I contemplate on this, I feel very compelled and weighed towards making contact with the Priest of the Church to see what its all about. With the possibility of my friends leaving, I am seriously contemplating this decision, and I have prayed for guidance on the matter. Even writing this thread is making me somewhat nervous.

So I guess what I’m trying to ask here is how I should go about making contact with the Priest, what they can do for me and things would “go about.”
I’m also interested in the differences between Catholicism and other sects of Christianity. Feel free to point me to previous threads or external web-links if possible. Is what I’m feeling just me being fixated on something I know very little of? (I won’t pretend to know much, if anything, about the Catholic denomination)

Thank-You to all who read and post for your time and support. Again, I wish to express my apologies for this long, and tedious post. Hopefully, it will help you understand the “issue at hand” better than a vague, blunt question might.
Take care, and God Bless.
 
Welcome! I’m glad you’ve found your way this far since, as you’re probably aware, the Anglican church fallibly broke away from from the Catholic Church and started doing their own thing in the 1500s. Catholicism is the original Church of Christ and the only one Divinely founded. Check your local diocese’s website and don’t hesitate to visit any Catholic parish near you. If you were to start going to mass Sundays, eventually and inevitably you’ll become a Catholic yourself. Most also consider me an “old soul.” Perhaps you’d also be equally interested as I am in our old Latin mass (Extraordinary form), if it’s available in your area.
 
If you like tradition, you’ll like the Catholic Church. I love it. It’s awesome! Try a traditional Latin (Tridentine) Mass if there’s one near you. Besides Catholic Answers, here’s a good site with a lot of apologetics material: lumenverum.org/apologetics/DefendtheFaith/page.html

It’s a lot to read but it really explains the differences between Protestant and Catholic theology, and why we believe these things. There’s also a very good documentary on the Church here: youtube.com/watch?v=Ya0uUc1yDN0. It’s one of the best I’ve seen. Also, if you want more people to see your posts, try posting during the day when more folks are awake. Peace!
 
You are about to begin a wonderful journey. Sometimes the road will be rocky but it will remain a beautiful way of life.
 
Just contact the local priest and inquire about RCIA (the Rite of Christian Initiation for Adults). You don’t even have to convert if you attend RCIA. People can just start attending to learn more about Catholicism.

Besides that, there are a lot of great resources both on this site, and on others, as people have pointed out. Furthermore, I’m sure many posters (myself included) would be happy to answer any questions in PMs or in threads.

And finally, Catholicism isn’t a denomination of Christianity. (Or at least not technically) It’d be like calling the original version of a story an adaptation 😃
 
The Catholic Church has something for people who want have already converted to the faith OR who haven’t converted but want to learn more. It’s called RCIA (Rite of Christian Initiation for Adults). Now, you could go to this group. It’s my understanding you do NOT have to commit to the Catholic Church at this point in the game. You can simply go, inform yourself, and decide whether or not the Catholic Church is really for you.

I’d recommend this route, since you’d be given all the information you would need to make an informed decision. Very importantly, people there would also be there who are trained in this, who would be able to answer questions from beginners.

I was raised with the Catholic Chuch, but I have to admit even I have trouble answering some questions posed by people in RCIA, for example. Well, to us old timers, these questions can seem like the spiritual equivalent of asking why the sky is blue, and believe it or not, they can be so basic that they can be extremely hard for us to answer.

So, I’d recommend you simply go to the Church you’re interested in, explain your situation, and ask them about their RCIA program.

I would imagine that it would make a person a bit nervous, especially if one was never raised in the faith. However, maybe once you have more information, you will be able to weigh all the issues, logically, and otherwise, and decide, for yourself, if you want to continue.

Further, RCIA knows the kinds of issues and questions you will probably come up with.

Let me close with a website for people in RCIA, so you can get a little more of a feel for what it actually is.

In any case, I think you are right to start by gathering more information in order to make an informed decision. Good luck with whatever you decide, and thanks for your interest in the Catholic Church!

usccb.org/beliefs-and-teachings/who-we-teach/rite-of-christian-initiation-of-adults/
 
Welcome Home! May God and Virgin Mary help you in seeking Truth! I will pray for you.
 
Congratulations! Welcome to the True Church founded by Our Lord Jesus Christ. Feel free to ask us any questions you may have about the Faith. We love to share it.

Find a parish where you feel at home, whether it be a bit more contemporary or Traditional (provided it is a Roman Catholic Church). In the RCC you will find the fullness of Truth.

May I make a recommendation? In addition to attending Mass, taking RCIA classes and contacting a priest you may want to purchase some good books. That would include a Catholic Bible, a Catechism (YouCat) is good and a rosary booklet. Then later you might want to get some philosophical/devotional and apologetic books. This website has some great apologetic books.

God bless you. We will be praying for you.
 
If you like tradition, you’ll like the Catholic Church. I love it. It’s awesome! Try a traditional Latin (Tridentine) Mass if there’s one near you. Besides Catholic Answers, here’s a good site with a lot of apologetics material: lumenverum.org/apologetics/DefendtheFaith/page.html

It’s a lot to read but it really explains the differences between Protestant and Catholic theology, and why we believe these things. There’s also a very good documentary on the Church here: youtube.com/watch?v=Ya0uUc1yDN0. It’s one of the best I’ve seen. Also, if you want more people to see your posts, try posting during the day when more folks are awake. Peace!
Definitely a TLM, but also go to an Eastern Catholic Church (if there is one in your area) for Divine Liturgy…
 
I would call your local parish and inquire about learning more. They may recommend RCIA for you. RCIA ends in confirmation (and baptism if you need it) in the church, but you don’t have to follow through with it. When I was going through RCIA, one person in the group went through RCIA twice before she joined. If you decide that it’s not right for you during Easter, then you can opt out. The group I was in didn’t frown upon opting out. Some poeple need more time than others. It’s a good starting place if you want to learn about the teachings of the church, I highly recommend it.
 
Thanks to everyone for your supportive responses here.

I have decided to continue doing some research, reading & researching the information (Including 800 pages of material linked) provided here, then making enquiries and so on.
I will probably “make the connections” early next year, as I am travelling during the Christmas period, and would prefer to make contact when I am not dancing about the globe, as it were. Reason being: Well, if you call up the Church, ask some questions and don’t make any contact for a month, I don’t know. It just doesn’t seem “right.”

Again thanks for your support. I shall keep you posted. As this grows, I guess I will start posting more, but I probably won’t go beating about stuff I have no clue on!

On a quick side-note, if any have noticed the “odd” times of which I have posted here, I probably should inform you that I live in Australia. I don’t think I could stay up till 1am - even 9pm is a bit of a struggle a lot of the time 🙂
 
Curious Mike….I’ll add to the congrats on coming this far…There is so much richness in the Catholic tradition and history! Anglicanism is a very beautiful religion as well.

I would recommend starting with the documents of the Second Vatican Council… Pope Emeritus Benedict XVI declared this past year to be the “Year of Faith” and asked the faithful of focus on learning what the council taught and bringing those teachings in to their lives… I’ve recommended this site to a number of folks and have received great feedback ….vaticantwo.wordpress.com. This site offers daily learnings for that cover all 16 council documents so that after one year, you will have covered them all!!

I’d would start there to understand the fundaments of what the Church teaches and then move to learning about the different stages of development the Church has gone through… If you like history, it will be quite a ride!!

Also, look up Professor Bill Cook from SUNY Geneseo in NY for his video series on the Catholic Church. A great book would be James Hitchcocks “History of the Catholic Church - From the Apostolic Age to the Third Millennium”

In Jesus, Mary and Joseph,
Dan
 
Congratulations on your journey. Others have mentioned some good advice so I won’t repeat it.

Edited by moderator, I would say one thing is realize this is a journey to which God is calling you. Your decisions now do not have to be forever. As you grow in your faith your understanding will change, though your understanding should never take you away from teaching which is Biblical and in line with the tradition of the early church. The Catholic Church is a wonderful church and you should investigate it. It is not the only way to become Christian though (read the Catechism).

If you are comfortable with Anglicanism I would encourage you to look into it further. If you are in England or Canada (you used the term “whilst” which I see as an English term), I would be very careful about the Anglican church you connect to. If it has walked away from Biblical Ordination and does not hold fast to Scritpure I would stay away as if they have compromised on that, they have compromised on other issues. If in the US, an “Anglican” as opposed to Episcopalian will probably be more Biblically orthodox, but some have as well walked away from Biblical Ordination which will invalidate the Sacraments.

If you look towards Catholicism, the Traditional Latin Mass Churches tend to be safe as far as orthodox teaching and practice go.

Good luck in your journey.
 
One suggestion I have that might help is listening to Catholic radio. If you have a local station that’s great, but you can also find EWTN on iHeart radio app for your phone or tablet. You can also just listen to it off the web. Just google “Catholic radio stations” and you’ll see you can connect to most of them. I spent 3 years listening to Catholic radio, learning everything I could about the faith before I went to RCIA. I have learned so much just by listening daily. It might be a good place to start to learn more about our faith and to answer a lot of those pesky question us converts have.

I became a full member in the Church Easter of 2011 and I’ve never looked back or regretted my decision. I cried like a baby when I was given the gift of the Holy Spirit.

Good luck on your path of faith.
 
The other day, I decided to visit the lady whom was with me the day I confirmed my faith in Jesus in order to discuss faith and the possibility of changing Churches.

We were discussing the different Churches around and I finally managed to postulate the question I had - and that was about the Catholic Church. It more or less boiled down to the response I got being “Don’t go there! Please!”
Several things were then pointed out to me that make Catholicism “Religion” and not just worship.

For example:
~ People are only supposed to pray to God through Jesus - there is nothing in the Bible about praying to the Virgin Mary.
~ There is also nothing Biblical about Confession (Although I Googled this when I got home, and I think I might have falsified that - as we are command to be Baptised, Confessing our sins)
~ Communion, which in other Churches is done in remembrance of what Jesus did for us - whereas it is apparently taken as the actual body and blood of Jesus in the Catholic Church (In my ESV Bible, I think that is refuted: Please refer to John 6:42 and Luke 22:14-23)
~ And apparently Catholics are not Born Again, since they do not believe in the Holy Spirit. I knew that was incorrect when I heard it - since that Apologetic material linked above makes specific reference early on to this (Around page 110?)
~ Being saved by Grace as opposed to Works - Again, I think this might be distortion in what the Bible describes. I think the Bible says those who are saved are characterised by good works, or something along those lines.

I think this is the point at which I need to get in touch with a Priest to confirm the beliefs and how everything works at my local Catholic Church.
As much as this lady is a great friend, who is very spiritual I feel she is mistaken in her explanation - and as mentioned, the Apologetic material “Defend the Faith” posted above seems to stand with me, not against me.

It seems like now I’ll have to take a seat and READ, to try and make sense of all of this.
 
=CuriousMike;11458311]As you can probably all tell, I am new here and this is my first post. I do warn you that whilst I have tried to keep this post in context, it may be long and somewhat tedious. In addition, please accept my apologies if I have posted this thread in the wrong forum or if this question has been asked so many times it is “old news.”
Prepare yourselves for a “little bit” of background information…
Edited by moderatorI decided to attend a youth Bible-Study at a local Anglican Church, since I wanted to learn more about what Christians believe. At that point in time, I reflected more upon how what I learnt was phoney, and how it couldn’t possibly be true.
Time went on, and around March/April this year, I decided to pick up my Bible (NIV) and read it. Even though I was only reading Genesis, and some “suggested” verses for hardship, which I cannot recall, I lost control and started crying. At that point, I realised that I had to do something, since that something was clearly missing.
Having built a friendship with a Co-Worker, I asked them if they could possibly enlighten me, and they agreed to help. The Church I started attending was a Non-Denominational Christian Church. For the record, I am not baptised in water. One Sunday, that person and their partner were on vacation, and I decided to attend by myself (Neither of my parents are religious). I stood next to another lady, who I knew and who is a family friend. There was a guest preaching that day (A pastor/preacher at another Church. We have no Pastor), and at the end he asked anyone who had not confessed their faith to raise their hand, and it could happen right there and then.
What followed was a particularly interesting experience. My hands became clammy, my heart started to pound. I became hot, uncomfortable and very nervous. I raised my hands, and it was not something that I did entirely out of conscious thought.
Following this experience, I began to wonder whether my two friends were intended to “assist” me onto the right pathway, but not be there forever in my growth. At this point in time, they are still good friends of mine, although they might be moving away due to work in the future.
Since that experience, I have began taking Communion. There does not seem to be objection in the Church to that, and my friends pointed out that one is baptised of the Spirit, not necessarily by water. Further reading and research seemed to prove this, although I am still not convinced. However, I am not a very sociable person, and am uncomfortable asking one of the Church elders for assistance, even though I do know a couple of them in person.
Even though the Church I attend has a number of people I know in attendance, and despite the warmth that is there, I am known by many as having an “Old Soul.” I am a stickler for upholding tradition, and do oppose a lot of “new” in the world (Be it those in my interest fields, Computing/Aviation/Music or changes in the way things are done otherwise).
In Church recently, I have often caught myself drifting away slightly during worship. I seem to continually fixate on the idea of joining the Catholic Church. When I contemplate on this, I feel very compelled and weighed towards making contact with the Priest of the Church to see what its all about. With the possibility of my friends leaving, I am seriously contemplating this decision, and I have prayed for guidance on the matter. Even writing this thread is making me somewhat nervous.
So I guess what I’m trying to ask here is how I should go about making contact with the Priest, what they can do for me and things would “go about.”
Thank-You to all who read and post for your time and support. Again, I wish to express my apologies for this long, and tedious post. Hopefully, it will help you understand the “issue at hand” better than a vague, blunt question might.
Take care, and God Bless.
Hi Mike!🙂 we are delighted you joined CAF.

1st. a cautionary note: SPACE IS LIMITED HERE SO don’t expect a long post getting a FULL response.:rolleyes:

PLEASE do not “receive” Catholic Holy Communion until and unless you actually become a Catholic. Here’s why:

ONLY in the Church’s that have DIRECT Apostolic Succession [can trace their history back to the Apostles DIRECTLY] are that Seven sacraments VALID. And ONLY in the Catholic church’s are the Sacraments both Valid and Licit.

So Valid sacraments are found in the Catholic Church’s and eastern Orthodox churchs only.

Here’s the REASON:
The sacraments are instituted by Christ Himself. The Sacrament of The Most Holy Communion is truly and really: “the Body, Blood, Soul and Divinity of Jesus HIMSELF” TRULY and Substanually present in the Sacred Host.

Non-Catholic Christians offer a “reminder” or some such description; BUT NOT NOT Christ. Therefore until is able to understand and accept what Jesus Himself accomplished; it is not appropriate to avail oneself of the Sacraments.

The Priest or Minister does NOT know your not Catholic, so they do offer it to you. BUT your not receiving any grace or Spiritual benefit from this practice and MIGHT actually be doing some harm to your Spiritual search for God’s truth.

JUST call the rectory of the Catholic Parish and ask to speak to a priest:thumbsup:

I’m going to send you a private message also:)

GOD BLESS YOU!
Patrick [PJM] here on the FORUM
 
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