Interesting Quotes From Gay Marriage Supporters

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That is as ridiculous as saying we want to fight for “equal rights” to breathe under water, because fish have that “right”.

It’s not in our nature to breathe under water.

It’s not in our nature to copulate with the same sex.

Denial of either of the above, then, is not a denial of anyone’s “equality”.
 
That is as ridiculous as saying we want to fight for “equal rights” to breathe under water, because fish have that “right”.

It’s not in our nature to breathe under water.

It’s not in our nature to copulate with the same sex.
It is the nature of gays and lesbians to do so

But aside from that why are you reducing marriage to nothing more than a sex act? Don’t you think that marriage involves a whole spectrum of actions and emotions?
 
It is the nature of gays and lesbians to do so
Like they are born that way? Is that what you’re saying–like there’s a gay gene?

Source, please.
But aside from that why are you reducing marriage to nothing more than a sex act? Don’t you think that marriage involves a whole spectrum of actions and emotions?
You are correct. The Catholic view of marriage is that the universe is changed forever at the moment a man and woman are united together in holy matrimony.

So it’s more than a sexual act. 👍
 
It is the nature of gays and lesbians to do so
Are you proposing that gays and lesbians are a separate species? Because when we talk of the “nature” of things we’re referring to the nature of human beings, not to the nature of distinct humans.

Natural law is a moral code for ALL humans; it doesn’t distinguish between gays and lesbians.
 
Like they are born that way? Is that what you’re saying–like there’s a gay gene?

Source, please.
Are you saying that gays and lesbians are not born as they are?

Evidence that homosexuality is somehow a choice or that it is some form of mental illness please
You are correct. The Catholic view of marriage is that the universe is changed forever at the moment a man and woman are united together in holy matrimony.
So it’s more than a sexual act. 👍
Yet you reduce same gendered couples to nothing more than a sexual act.
 
Are you proposing that gays and lesbians are a separate species?
Wow I’m really scratching my head here :confused:

The best I can guess is that this is some sort of straw man argument
Because when we talk of the “nature” of things we’re referring to the nature of human beings, not to the nature of distinct humans.
Well if we play with your straw man – left handed people are left handed because it is their nature to be so. Are you saying that left handed people are a separate species?
Natural law is a moral code for ALL humans; it doesn’t distinguish between gays and lesbians.
Misuse of Natural Law to justify discrimination is problematic at best. It usually involves ignoring logic in favor of personal prejudice. Those trying to use natural law for this purpose attempt to make what they refer to as “principled” arguments about why the recognition of same-sex marriages is somehow wrong while at the same time dismissing any pragmatic arguments with out explanation.

In writings about modern natural-law ideas of marriage we find that by “principle” something like this is meant: "Marriage must be between a man and a woman because only they can procreate.” As for infertile heterosexual couples…well they get grand fathered into being allowed to marry for no good reason other than the desire to employ a double standard.

I have read a couple attempts to justify this double standard by claiming that infertile heterosexual couples are excluded from discrimination because they can have sex of a reproductive kind. “Sex of a reproductive kind” is sex that involves a penis and a vagina, even if it can produce no more babies than could a male and a male or a female and a female. The conclusion of the argument is embedded in the “principle” and then offered as if it’s an argument. It doesn’t take a philosophy major to find the flaw there.

In the end those trying to abuse natural law as a justification for discrimination end up asserting that male-female marriage, and only male-female marriage, has an “intrinsic value” that cannot be demonstrated. Its a mystery value. Its value must be grasped in intuitively but cannot be grasped logically. This non-logical intuitive grasping of discrimination is something not everyone can do. “In the end, one either understands that spousal genital intercourse has a special significance as instantiating a basic, non-instrumental value, or something blocks that understanding and one does not perceive correctly.” Gerard V. Bradley

More simply put what those using natural law to justify prejudice are saying is: “Same-sex ‘marriage’ is not marriage because only male-female marriage can be marriage and cannot be defined any other way because we don’t want it defined any other way. Trust me.” They rely on anti-logical mental gymnastics to say that the only way to understand why infertile heterosexual couples are not bound by the same argument we are using to justify anti-gay discrimination is to agree with them and their prejudices.
 
But you just asserted that it is not “natural”
On what evidence do you base this assertion?
The evidence of biology. Male-male and female-female sex cannot procreate.
The evidence of mechanics. The parts don’t fit together.
The evidence of reason. Male-male and female-female sex is illogical.
The evidence of Scripture. See what the bible says.
The evidence of the Church. See what your Church proclaims.
 
Roll your eyes all you want you did reduce same gendered couples to nothing more than a sexual act. Can you explain why same gendered couples are reduced to just a sexual act but you don’t reduce opposite gendered couples in the same way?
🤷

I thought you’d find it funny.

I did. 🙂
 
Wow I’m really scratching my head here :confused:

The best I can guess is that this is some sort of straw man argument

Well if we play with your straw man – left handed people are left handed because it is their nature to be so. Are you saying that left handed people are a separate species?

Misuse of Natural Law to justify discrimination is problematic at best. It usually involves ignoring logic in favor of personal prejudice. Those trying to use natural law for this purpose attempt to make what they refer to as “principled” arguments about why the recognition of same-sex marriages is somehow wrong while at the same time dismissing any pragmatic arguments with out explanation.

In writings about modern natural-law ideas of marriage we find that by “principle” something like this is meant: "Marriage must be between a man and a woman because only they can procreate.” As for infertile heterosexual couples…well they get grand fathered into being allowed to marry for no good reason other than the desire to employ a double standard.

I have read a couple attempts to justify this double standard by claiming that infertile heterosexual couples are excluded from discrimination because they can have sex of a reproductive kind. “Sex of a reproductive kind” is sex that involves a penis and a vagina, even if it can produce no more babies than could a male and a male or a female and a female. The conclusion of the argument is embedded in the “principle” and then offered as if it’s an argument. It doesn’t take a philosophy major to find the flaw there.

In the end those trying to abuse natural law as a justification for discrimination end up asserting that male-female marriage, and only male-female marriage, has an “intrinsic value” that cannot be demonstrated. Its a mystery value. Its value must be grasped in intuitively but cannot be grasped logically. This non-logical intuitive grasping of discrimination is something not everyone can do. “In the end, one either understands that spousal genital intercourse has a special significance as instantiating a basic, non-instrumental value, or something blocks that understanding and one does not perceive correctly.” Gerard V. Bradley

More simply put what those using natural law to justify prejudice are saying is: “Same-sex ‘marriage’ is not marriage because only male-female marriage can be marriage and cannot be defined any other way because we don’t want it defined any other way. Trust me.” They rely on anti-logical mental gymnastics to say that the only way to understand why infertile heterosexual couples are not bound by the same argument we are using to justify anti-gay discrimination is to agree with them and their prejudices.
Sigh

ANOTHER person who has never bothered to actually look up natural law.

Educate yourself on what people who use natural law are actually talking about, then get back to me.

I’d start with this as a (very) basic overview: aquinasonline.com/Topics/natlaw.html

In more detail: newadvent.org/summa/2094.htm#article1

On homosexuality specifically: newadvent.org/summa/3154.htm#article1

A quote from the last one (I suggest not reading it until you read the first two. I also suggest e-mailing Dr. Edward Feser with questions. I e-mailed him and he got back to me within a day, although I don’t think he’s normally that fast.):

**Article 11. Whether the unnatural vice is a species of lust?

Objection 1. It would seem that the unnatural vice is not a species of lust. For no mention of the vice against nature is made in the enumeration given above (1, Objection 1). Therefore it is not a species of lust.

Objection 2. Further, lust is contrary to virtue; and so it is comprised under vice. But the unnatural vice is comprised not under vice, but under bestiality, according to the Philosopher (Ethic. vii, 5). Therefore the unnatural vice is not a species of lust.

Objection 3. Further, lust regards acts directed to human generation, as stated above (Question 153, Article 2): Whereas the unnatural vice concerns acts from which generation cannot follow. Therefore the unnatural vice is not a species of lust.

On the contrary, It is reckoned together with the other species of lust (2 Corinthians 12:21) where we read: “And have not done penance for the uncleanness, and fornication, and lasciviousness,” where a gloss says: “Lasciviousness, i.e., unnatural lust.”

I answer that, As stated above (A6,9) wherever there occurs a special kind of deformity whereby the venereal act is rendered unbecoming, there is a determinate species of lust. This may occur in two ways: First, through being contrary to right reason, and this is common to all lustful vices; secondly, because, in addition, it is contrary to the natural order of the venereal act as becoming to the human race: and this is called “the unnatural vice.” This may happen in several ways. First, by procuring pollution, without any copulation, for the sake of venereal pleasure: this pertains to the sin of “uncleanness” which some call “effeminacy.” Secondly, by copulation with a thing of undue species, and this is called “bestiality.” Thirdly, by copulation with an undue sex, male with male, or female with female, as the Apostle states (Romans 1:27): and this is called the “vice of sodomy.” Fourthly, by not observing the natural manner of copulation, either as to undue means, or as to other monstrous and bestial manners of copulation. **

Natural law is not simply a “made up thing”. It can be learned through reason and applied practically to the world.

EDIT: BTW, in regards to this quote of yours:

As for infertile heterosexual couples…well they get grand fathered into being allowed to marry for no good reason other than the desire to employ a double standard.

PRmerger and I both agree that infertile heterosexual couples cannot marry.
 
In writings about modern natural-law ideas of marriage we find that by “principle” something like this is meant: "Marriage must be between a man and a woman because only they can procreate.” As for infertile heterosexual couples…well they get grand fathered into being allowed to marry for no good reason other than the desire to employ a double standard.

I have read a couple attempts to justify this double standard by claiming that infertile heterosexual couples are excluded from discrimination because they can have sex of a reproductive kind. “Sex of a reproductive kind” is sex that involves a penis and a vagina, even if it can produce no more babies than could a male and a male or a female and a female. The conclusion of the argument is embedded in the “principle” and then offered as if it’s an argument. It doesn’t take a philosophy major to find the flaw there.
Well for those of us who are not philosophy majors tell us where the flaw is, if you don’t mind. I would question the bold statement, as should you. Do you really think that the only reason infertile heterosexual couples are allowed to marry is in order to employ a double standard? Myself, I believe there is a very pragmatic argument to allowing infertile couples to be married, one of simple arithmetic. Percentage of heterosexual unions which are infertile: no clue but for argument let us assume it is pretty high 15%. Percentage of homosexual unions which are infertile: 100%. In other words, without other evidence there is no reason to believe that any particular heterosexual union is infertile and the tests aren’t generally performed until after the couple tries to conceive (or another problem), but there is every reason to believe that a homosexual union is infertile.
 
Wow I’m really scratching my head here :confused:

The best I can guess is that this is some sort of straw man argument

Well if we play with your straw man – left handed people are left handed because it is their nature to be so. Are you saying that left handed people are a separate species?

Misuse of Natural Law to justify discrimination is problematic at best. It usually involves ignoring logic in favor of personal prejudice. Those trying to use natural law for this purpose attempt to make what they refer to as “principled” arguments about why the recognition of same-sex marriages is somehow wrong while at the same time dismissing any pragmatic arguments with out explanation.

In writings about modern natural-law ideas of marriage we find that by “principle” something like this is meant: "Marriage must be between a man and a woman because only they can procreate.” As for infertile heterosexual couples…well they get grand fathered into being allowed to marry for no good reason other than the desire to employ a double standard.

I have read a couple attempts to justify this double standard by claiming that infertile heterosexual couples are excluded from discrimination because they can have sex of a reproductive kind. “Sex of a reproductive kind” is sex that involves a penis and a vagina, even if it can produce no more babies than could a male and a male or a female and a female. The conclusion of the argument is embedded in the “principle” and then offered as if it’s an argument. It doesn’t take a philosophy major to find the flaw there.

In the end those trying to abuse natural law as a justification for discrimination end up asserting that male-female marriage, and only male-female marriage, has an “intrinsic value” that cannot be demonstrated. Its a mystery value. Its value must be grasped in intuitively but cannot be grasped logically. This non-logical intuitive grasping of discrimination is something not everyone can do. “In the end, one either understands that spousal genital intercourse has a special significance as instantiating a basic, non-instrumental value, or something blocks that understanding and one does not perceive correctly.” Gerard V. Bradley

More simply put what those using natural law to justify prejudice are saying is: “Same-sex ‘marriage’ is not marriage because only male-female marriage can be marriage and cannot be defined any other way because we don’t want it defined any other way. Trust me.” They rely on anti-logical mental gymnastics to say that the only way to understand why infertile heterosexual couples are not bound by the same argument we are using to justify anti-gay discrimination is to agree with them and their prejudices.
Tracer,

This is so simple. Here, let me help you.

Marriage is between a man and a woman.:yup:

I believe this.:tiphat:

My beliefs cannot and will not change:knight1:

I believe that marriage is between a man and a woman.:yup:

No argument will change my mind.:tsktsk:

There…it is that easy…OK…:aok:
 
Rather biased. I could get some pretty bad quotes from “traditional” marriage supporters.
 
PRmerger and I both agree that infertile heterosexual couples cannot marry.
Actually, Marc, an *impotent *individual cannot marry.

But an infertile couple can certainly marry, provided that they are able to complete the conjugal act. That act is objectively procreative, although it may be subjectively infertile, and is therefore a moral act.
 
False equivalency.

California had equal protection under the law for same sex couples…

in 1999.
297.5. (a) Registered domestic partners shall have the same rights,
protections, and benefits, and shall be subject to the same
responsibilities, obligations, and duties under law, whether they
derive from statutes, administrative regulations, court rules,
government policies, common law, or any other provisions or sources
of law, as are granted to and imposed upon spouses.
leginfo.ca.gov/cgi-bin/displaycode?section=fam&group=00001-01000&file=297-297.5

But we still had a 10+ year push for “marriage”.

Simply put, anyone who tells you the reasoning is anything other than de facto acceptance of a lifestyle choice is lying.
 
Incidentally, there is much evidence that homosexual men are molded from having a sensitive, artistic nature, a domineering mother and an absent, uninvolved father.

Sounds plausible to me. 🤷

But, like I said, I really have no idea.
Nicolosi? Really? You’re going with this guy as an authority? Really?
The same guy who’s “ex-gay” therapy included drinking Gatorade to flush away the gay?
The man who actually said whites did blacks a favor by enslaving them?
The man who suggested that if you want to raise your sons to be heterosexual introduce them to porn?

Really?

Well if you want to go there it’s your choice.

The net is full of people spouting off nonsense. What you have to look at is how is the argument backed up. And Nicolosi doesn’t back up his argument. Nowhere is he citing legitimately published scientific studies that support his claims.

In fact, every major American medical authority has concluded that there is no scientific support for Nicolosi’s view, and have expressed concern that the so called “reparative therapy” he touts actually causes harm. Iin 2006, the American Psychological Association (APA) stated: “There is simply no sufficiently scientifically sound evidence that sexual orientation can be changed.” The APA added, “Our further concern is that the positions espoused by NARTH and Focus on the Family create an environment in which prejudice and discrimination can flourish.”

But if what he is saying (and not backing up) about absent fathers sounds so reasonable to you lets engage in a thought exercise. If this is a reasonable explanation as to why some men are homosexual then it stands to reason that in populations where there are absent fathers there should be a higher incidence of homosexuality. Two such populations in the United States would include boys whose fathers were overseas and/or killed in the second world war and currently in the African American community who admits there is a crisis of absent fathers. DO these populations have a higher incidence of homosexuality than any other population in America? I’ll save you some time and answer that no these populations do not vary in any way in the number of homosexuals vs heterosexuals.
 
The evidence of biology. Male-male and female-female sex cannot procreate.
Neither can a rather large percentage of opposite gendered couples.
The evidence of mechanics. The parts don’t fit together.
If the parts didn’t fit together then gays and lesbians wouldn’t be able to have sexual intercourse. The fact that they do says your point is invalid
The evidence of reason. Male-male and female-female sex is illogical.
Based on….?
The evidence of Scripture. See what the bible says.
The bible also says that bats are insects and the earth is flat
The evidence of the Church. See what your Church proclaims.
So in other words your declaration that an entire minority is not “natural” is baseless
 
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