Intrigued by Catholicism, but just can't convert for many reasons

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Hi, Jmcrae,

Maybe I just lost the context here … but, are you saying that this is a problem?

No, no - it’s just that the person I was replying to was saying that a non-Catholic could receive the Sacraments if they were dying.

My reply is no - the dying person would first be welcomed into the Church with a Profession of Faith and First Reconciliation - by the time they receive the Sacraments, they will have already become Catholic - so they are no longer a “non-Catholic” - even though the process happens very fast.
If you carry this out a little further, then you have the person dying as a Catholic in the state of grace and being welcomed into Heaven … and, that sounds very good to me…👍
 
Hi, Jmcrae,

Oh… 👍

Sounds great.

Tom
No, no - it’s just that the person I was replying to was saying that a non-Catholic could receive the Sacraments if they were dying.

My reply is no - the dying person would first be welcomed into the Church with a Profession of Faith and First Reconciliation - by the time they receive the Sacraments, they will have already become Catholic - so they are no longer a “non-Catholic” - even though the process happens very fast.

Me, too. 🙂 👍

God bless
 
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Rights of gays to marry and adopt children, rights of women to choose what to do with their bodies, rights of people to gain access to contraception through their employer (USA) or government (outside the USA), right to end life, etc.
These “rights” are contrary to the Laws of God, and though they may be championed by the secular religion of which we are a apart, it is inappropriate to force Catholics to accept values and activities that go against the teachings of Jesus.
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Also I believe a poster asked who determines what civil rights are. Good question. Do rights really come from God, like US conservatives say? If so, then what gives us the right to deny rights to others? And if they don't come from God, then why does it matter and why does the Catholic Church care so much?
Yes, human rights do come from God. However we know that the “civil” rights are not always consistent with what God has ordained for civilization. When people claim “rights” that are contrary to the commandments of God (such as killing innocent life) it is necessary for the Church to make a stand. The CC “cares so much” because it is the duty of the Church to teach and protect the Truth, as well as the innocent, who cannot defend themselves.
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Btw, the RCIA instructor told me that people confuse the Catholic Church with Catholic political organizations....
This is very true, and also with so called “catholics” involved in political life that repudiate the teachings of Jesus.
So since you concede it doesn’t matter, let’s change the Magisterium to truly reflect loving one another by supporting the civil rights of everyone??
The Magesterium already reflects love, because they teach Jesus. It is not loving to confirm people in error, or to see them on the road to hell, and not speak up about it for the sake of their eternal souls.

When people claim 'civil rights" that violate the commandments of God, the loving thing to do is to resist.
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 But as I've said before, there's always another liberal parish that disagrees.  Doesn't this mean the Catholic Church is highly divided??
No. Members of her may be espousing values and ideas that are contrary to the Church, but this does not cause the Church to be divided. The Church has Jesus as her Head, and she is ensouled by the Holy Spirit. These divine elements make her unified and infallible. When people espouse the Truth they are in perfect unity with the Church. When they do not, they separate themselves from her.
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  Add to that the historical wrongs of the Catholic Church (which Benedict has gone on an apology tour for), and why would anyone be Catholic?
Good question. Judas betrayed Christ. Since he did, shouldn’t we all do the same? Why be Christian, since some people reject Christ? I think you can see how this line of reasoning lacks validity.
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It seems they leave me alone to explore for myself.  And if I ask questions I get nothing but platitudes as answers.
It’s ok. It is clear your values prevent you from being Catholic,so even if there was a perfect parish full of vibrant Christians in love with Jesus and each other, there would still be problems for you.
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I started RCIA at St. Monica's in Santa Monica, CA before moving to New Mexico.  The first meeting was about social justice.  But the guy was reluctant to even mention abortion, until I asked him "Hey we need to talk about abortion, right?"  And then he said to vote our conscience, that the Church would never reject someone from RCIA for how he votes, that there are many types of "pro-choice" (for example, some are pro-choice when it's the life or health of the mother), and that there are people in the parish that are struggling with the decision to have an abortion, and that every situation is different.
Hardly sounds like the position of the Vatican.
I am glad at least you recognize that such a position is contrary to the Teachings of the Chruch.
 
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But if Catholicism is so true, why isn't it more alive in the West?  Why is it so moribund, confused, and divided?  I've read the article that Saintalphonsus sent me privately, but all Gary Hoge is doing is finding excuses.
Western Catholics, especially Americans, are poorly catechized, and are contaminated with a cultural legacy of individuality. They think they should have the “right” to pick and choose and that the Church is a democracy, which is not true. The Church is a theocracy, and doctrine is determinied by what Jesus taught, not the majority vote. So long as Catholics have a “cafeteria” mentality, the Church in the world will be weak.
Why am I disappointed at what I found? And once again, where is the desire for revival, evangelism, missions, Bible reading and preaching, and even people wanting to reach out and show love by befriending you??
I think that the consciences of many Catholics have been seared by accepting, practicing, and tolerating sin. When one is not in a state of grace with God, none of the fruites of such a relationship will be evident.
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Is it really true that under Benedict, such stuff isn't a priority, and that his primary goal is to write down the whole of Catholic teaching for a future generation to read?  After all, he did once say the Catholic Church may have to shrink before it grows again.
He said it is better to have a smaller church that is more pure. The road is narrow to Life and few find it. Benedict knows that the passion for evangelism and mission will flow out of being grounded in the Truth. Lukewarm Catholics don’t really help anyone, much less get there own souls to heaven.
This sounds offensive, but when even gays are friendlier than Catholics, how can I see Jesus in Catholics?
The Truth is not necessarily about being “friendly”. In fact, many times the Truth hurts! I don’t think you will be able to see Jesus in Catholics, because your personal values of what constitutes “Jesus” are quite a departure from what He taught. As a result, you will likely see in faithful Catholics what you consider offensive, divisive, and bigoted. 🤷
Faithful Catholics to not vote for, tolerate, or promote sin.
P.S. And I know drinking and smoking aren’t taboo in Catholic circles, but shouldn’t there be limits placed on that? After all, shouldn’t Catholics show they are different (salt and light) when it comes to the choice to smoke or drink?? Protestants show they are different. For example, all the dry weddings I’ve gone to are Protestant weddings.
Yes, Catholics most definitely should be better light and salt in the world. What you describe are Catholics who have lost their savor, with light hidden under a bushel.
 
=CaliLobo;10127514]Actually they don’t. Polls show most Catholics use contraception, and most Catholics voted for Obama. And I read Catholics on this forum admitting that most Catholics are poorly catechized
Yep; and we and God are working on correcting that that.

There are catholics who actually know, live and share our Faith, as many on thid Forum do, and then there are those for reasons that escape me; like calling themselves catholic, but don’t know their faith; [this part I do have some degree of understanding on], largely don’t care to learn it and certainly don’t live it.

We True catholics are called to share our faith with self called “catholics” as well as other unchurched or wrong -church folks, as God presents the opportunities to us. That is a primary motive for many of us being on CAF.
how can Catholics claim 1.2 billion members when most of them don’t go to Mass, go to confession, have basic biblical knowledge, put too much devotion to Mary and the saints, or follow the teachings of the Vatican?
Your point is valid; but your motive seems duplicious? And I’m not sure it’s “most.”

If you presume that only Catholics and not all Chrsitian faiths have similar issues; your either not informed orallowing your anti-catholic agenda to show?
Speaking of Magisterium, isn’t the only reason why the Vatican politically opposes gay marriage rights, contraception, and abortion because of the Magisterium–simply because the pope and bishops say so?
The answer is a resounding NO! God Himslef Opposes each of the Mortal sins you identified. The Magisterium simply expresses and articulates God’s will. God Himself will judge; not the CC.

**Heb.6: 10 **“For God is not so unjust as to overlook your work and the love which you showed for his sake in serving the saints, as you still do.

Rev. 22:12 “Behold, I come quickly; and my reward is with me, to render to every man according to his works”

This applies to me and you too friend.

Further the Pope and Magisterium in an absolute sense cannot but teach God’s truth on all Faith and Moral isssues. And yes this is biblical:)
I mean, there’s nothing about politics in the Bible–Jesus personally said he didn’t come to bring peace but a sword, but was also referred to as Prince of Peace. Which means he didn’t come to bring sociopolitical peace, but rather peace of the soul. And there’s nothing about holy tradition that can clue us in as to how to vote politically.
OF COURSE THERE IS: THE COMMANDMENTS AND THE BEAUTITUDES AND THE CC’S EXCLUSIVE MANDATE TO EXPLAIN AND TEACH THEM. Mt. 28:16-20; Mt. 16:19-20; Jn.14:16-17 /Jn.20:21-23 and John 20:19-23. all protected in Person by Jesus Himself as well as the HS.👍
So many books today by Protestants, like “Unchristian” by David Kinnaman, write about how young people are turned off by the Church’s meddling with politics, its anti-gay and anti-woman image, its behind-the-times image, and its judgmental image. These authors say that its imperative that the church rethink how it engages socially, politically, and ministerially, for it to win back the younger generation, who is turned off by organized religion in general.
So God should change HIS moral absolutes to please young [and many not-so-young] secular humanist? I wounder WHy God hasn’t thought of that:shrug:
Isn’t the answer of the Catholic Church simple–just to change the Magisterium with respect to social issues to win back the younger generation, who want religion that can connect with their era and their culture?
If the CC was a democracy: maybe? BUT we’re not. We have One King;[Christ], one set of Rules [Faith beliefs] that apply to all [and the ones you reference have been around for 2,000+ years], and One "Prime Miniser that we call a “Pope.” Which is what Mt. 16:16-20 details.

It’s not a popularity contest; its NOT polotical: its about what is Right; true and God’s Will. It’s about salvation; not votes.
Isn’t Gospel preaching more important than politics?{/QUOTE]
Always has been in the CC; but for you?
How would a Catholic parish welcome a woman who has had an abortion?
SURE! Why? Lk. 15:7 It’s done very often!
How would a Catholic parish welcome someone who honestly believes he was born naturally gay??QUOTE]
Here’s what WE Teach and try to live: “Love the sinner but hate the sin!”
How would a parish honestly be welcoming to these people if the Vatican politically opposes what they did in life??

Friend you are Sooooo wrong. God did not die and make the Church/Pope or Magisterium Judge. That’s God’s exclusive Territory. The task he left us is to make welcome; is to overlook past lives and open new opportunites to friendship with Christ; to teach and administer ALL of the Saraments; and to by example [yes humans can fail] live the life of Christ as a light on the hillside, for ALL to see.

The CC is the ONLY church that has the Seven Sacraments. One of which is the Sacrament of Reconcillation/Confession. The KNOWN forgiveness of sins. The CC welcomes back egerly and joyfully anyone who wants to repent; convert; and leatn what is absolutely necessary for one salvation.

You dear friend may want to look into that opportunity that God presents through HIS CC. I’ll pray that you do so.
 
What would happen is, they would be immediately received into the Church (or as soon as humanly possible) and they would receive the Sacraments after making their Profession of Faith and becoming Catholic - they would not be non-Catholics at the time of receiving the Sacraments.

So, even in this case, it is not the giving of Holy Communion to a non-Catholic - the person would be Catholic, for the few number of days that they had left to live.
well, that’s good to know. Now if the “as soon as humanly possible” could be possible…
 
calilobo,

re: your 654 pm post yesterday.

there is difference between having the power to do something and having the right to do something.

for a catholic, it is incomprehensible to say anyone has a right to sin. it is equally incomprehensible to say no one has the power to sin.

although the distinction between power and right may seem inconsequential and shallow at first, i believe after further contemplation you will come to understand that the difference is essential and vital to a well-ordered society.

because a person can do something does not make what that person can do right.

exercising the free will almighty God gives to every human being contrary to God’s commands and laws is the essence of a sinful act.

where do we go to learn God’s commands and laws? it seems to me, that questions is the essence of your inability to comprehend the differences between catholicism and all other religions.

catholics believe that only the roman catholic church contains the true and total deposit of faith God has made available to mankind.

based on your comments, you have not yet been granted that catholic faith by almighty God. however, if you persevere in your search for truth, i strongly believe, and hope and pray, God will grant you the gift of faith and bring you in to full communion with His Church.
Great post! 👍

I think that God is calling to CaliLobo, and that she is not willing to sell all, to buy the field in which the treasure resides.
 
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well, that’s good to know. Now if the “as soon as humanly possible” could be possible…
Call the priest. Make an appointment. It’s exactly the same as making a doctor’s appointment.
 
I can’t imagine any priest who would not accommodate you.
Neither can I. Nor did I say that someone asking on my behalf was the only possible way to connect. But read posts 115 + 116.

Blessings
 
Neither can I. Nor did I say that someone asking on my behalf was the only possible way to connect. But read posts 115 + 116.

Blessings
I have read them, and I’m still confused. I don’t know what the problem is, so I can’t really offer any kind of specific solutions, but I am sure that with a little creativity on your part, you could see a way through.
 
I have read them, and I’m still confused. I don’t know what the problem is, so I can’t really offer any kind of specific solutions, but I am sure that with a little creativity on your part, you could see a way through.
“But if I can’t get to any priest and none (there are not many, BTW), return contact with me…”
I cannot make a priest return phone calls. Mission unaccomplished. I have run out of ideas. I am too tired to chase. I see my way through a bit differently and that’s okay too.

Blessings
 
Hi, CaliLobo,

Interesting.

One can almost see Christ as the Apostles are rebuking the women who want to bring their children to Him saying something like, “Hey, I’ve had a hard day - and universal contraception will certainly take care of these numbers - and, for contraceptive failures, universal abortion is the answer. God 'hard-wired women to bring life into the world - but, relax - having those young lives snuffed out as their bodies are torn apart, limb by limb is surely a right that trumps God’s Right through Pro-Creation!” Yes, one can almost see it now… at least if you listen to the Abortionists and their governmental puppets.

All rights come from God. And, it you have trouble with that statement, if you do not think this is a self-evident statement - a ‘given’, then just check out this link: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_States_Declaration_of_Independence

God is neither a Democrat or a Republican. Over the course of time, many have tried to pin a political affiliation on Him - but, it has never worked. But, this does not means that political organizations are devoid of any merit. Look for what most closely conforms to the Will of God - and pick pro-life as one issue, and then see who follows this most closely. Chances are, this is something to consider the next time you engage your RCIA Instructor in a dialogue on what we as Catholics are all about.

God bless
Sorry but using a secular, Protestant-influenced document to back up your claim weakens your argument. What does the Catholic Church have to say about where rights come from?

Regarding abortion, I am pro choice because my faith leads me to have compassion for women. Women shouldn’t have to suffer disproportionately for a creepy guy’s mistake. My heart weeps for the Irish South Asian woman who died because the government was so square to not allow an abortion to save her life!

How many more women need to die and suffer? You keep talking about the unborn. But the unborn don’t have rights in secular law. How about the suffering of women? How about the reduced crime, poverty, and drain on natural resources and the economy as a result of population control? Doesn’t God care about that too?

Also, the Bible has nothing on point about abortion, contrary to what most Christians think. God knew us when we were in the womb, but what does that have to do with abortion?

Same could be said about gay marriages; doesn’t the Bible forbid temple prostitution and not gay unions, according to some experts?

And if you’re so pro-life, shouldn’t you be anti-guns??

And isn’t euthanasia humane? Aren’t we playing God by extending life through medical technology? Why should patients have to suffer?

You mention pursuing the Truth, but it’s hard to see it in a church that shows hatred to others by infringing on their civil rights of others, along with all the other issues I posted in this thread about tradition, liturgy, and the lack of vibrancy. I see Catholic, Orthodox, and Anglican churches dying in Europe with stats to show it. I see more Truth being practiced in the nondenominational Protestant churches, even though they’re far from perfect. I only see Protestants evangelizing these days in today’s world.

And it’s disappointing. I wanted to find the Truth in the CC but couldn’t. I find myself too clever for Protestant churches (the rhetoric and emotions are predictable), but at least I find more fire and love in them, so that’s why I continue being Protestant.
 
By the way, Merry Christmas. I’m so sick of Happy Holidays… Political correctness gone wrong. Merry Xmas to Cheezey, I have no idea of your situation but I wish you the best.
 
No it’s not vague. Statistics show that more people leave Catholicism in the US than enter it. Statistics show most Catholics contracept (a very alive topic on this forum). Statistics show Protestants are more likely than Catholics to vote against abortion and gay marriage rights (and ironically, Protestant churches tolerate political difference whereas the Vatican doesn’t!) Catholics concede that Protestant converts have a lot of Biblical knowledge, and some accuse Protestants of hijacking the Catholic Church (all topics discussed in this forum)!

With that kind of weak manifestation of their faith, can we be honest and concede there are NOT 1.2 billion Catholics, as many keep saying? Protestant churches are much more honest and will deny that people who show that kind of weakness are true believers. To us the situation is more dire… statistics show only 4% of people under 30 attend church regularly. The situation is even more dire in Europe, from the testimonies of missionaries to England, France, Netherlands, Poland, Russia, and Lithuania that I have met. In all of these countries, the Anglican, Catholic, and Orthodox churches are MORIBUND.

Where is the desire among lay Catholics for REVIVAL?
That desire is right here. I can only speak for myself but that is what I pray for. Again, as many have pointed out truth and popularity have nothing to do with each other. Have Catholics who believe been remiss in preaching the gospel? Probably. Will that change? There is no doubt in my mind.
Exactly. So how does meddling into politics and opposing people’s secular civil rights fit in with not condemning them? How is this open arms, to say they don’t have the same civil rights as men to choose what to do with their own bodies, or that they don’t have the same rights as straight people to form committed, loving relationships?? Is this open arms? No, more like a message of hate.
Meddling in politics? Are they not Americans? Have they no right to advance their views in public? What is the constitution for if not that? Freedom of religion means freedom to practice that religion including in the public square.

Women have chosen to do what they want with their bodies. If that makes them pregnant they now have another life involved. God says that murdering that child is a intrinsic evil and the Church simply points out this fact. That is hate, killing a child to “fix” the result of previous actions.

Gay people have been forming whatever relationships they wanted to for a long time, for thousands of years. To now want to steal the exclusive relationship of “marriage” is not to claim rights denied, it is to usurp something God ordained and civil governments have codified long ago as well.
When Jesus said “render unto Caesar that which is Caesar’s” he also said “render unto God that which is God’s.” Marriage is God’s.
What’s so immoral or moral about meddling into secular politics? What does this have to do with Gospel preaching?? Or even love?? Why does politics even matter?? Why don’t we see the Catholic Church advocating bringing back laws against divorce? Why don’t we see the Catholic Church advocating bans on porn? Has the abortion and gay rights issue hijacked the Catholic Church? How do we know that the Catholic Church isn’t hijacked by the USCCB? Isn’t there an honest debate between the conservative and liberal Catholics going on here? I don’t see the much-touted unity of the Catholic Church.
Yes, some gays and some who have had abortion will still enter the Church. But let’s be honest, most will feel angry, condemned and judged.
It is possible to enter the Church without repentance. Priests and bishops and lay Catholics do not have the power see into the souls of men and women. One can go through the motions. How many Catholics, born and raised have done just that and have never been back except for weddings and funerals since?

Feelings are not the difference between salvation and condemnation. Jesus is the one with the power to judge. All that we can do is point out the truth, which in this case is that if someone comes to the Church from a non-Catholic background having been baptized, or if a Catholic is returning home, the requirement is a good confession.

If you were to look up the sacrament of confession you would notice that it involves not simply telling your sins to the priest, but also true sorrow for having sinned, repentance, in other words, and a firm purpose of amendment, in order to be a valid confession.

It is Christ that is forgiving those sins through the priest. You may fool the priest but you cannot fool Christ. If there is no repentance or firm purpose of amendment, that is, not to repeat the sin, there is no forgiveness, even though the priest has given the absolution.

If a person feels hurt because the Church has taught or preached or publicly advocated against a particular sin, is it not reasonable to think that they have not really repented anyway?

As to what the Church believes re: homosexual acts, just read the first chapter of St. Paul’s letter to the Romans. That sums it up.
 
Also, the Bible has nothing on point about abortion, contrary to what most Christians think. God knew us when we were in the womb, but what does that have to do with abortion?
It means that the child has a relationship with God. He or she is fully human. What do we call it, when we directly and deliberately kill an innocent human being?
Same could be said about gay marriages; doesn’t the Bible forbid temple prostitution and not gay unions, according to some experts?
:confused: It sounds like you’ve been reading some kind of “Jesus Seminar” speculation. Keep in mind, those guys are only speculating - they are only saying, “What if the Scripture writer had meant to say … instead of whatever he actually said.”

The Church doesn’t speculate, though. We trust that the writers of Scripture were not idiots.
And if you’re so pro-life, shouldn’t you be anti-guns??
We are - except for certain American Catholics. 🤷
And isn’t euthanasia humane?
Only if human beings were pets. Pets don’t have souls, so there is nothing to be gained if they endure suffering - they can’t learn from it, and they can’t join it with the Cross for the redemption of souls. Human beings can, though.
Aren’t we playing God by extending life through medical technology?
It depends on what we use the technology for. The Church does not require us to extend life unnaturally. She only forbids us to strangle, starve, or poison our parents.

But you would not be required to put your parents on expensive medical treatments or life support - only to not interfere with the natural course of events.
 
And it’s disappointing. I wanted to find the Truth in the CC but couldn’t. I find myself too clever for Protestant churches (the rhetoric and emotions are predictable), but at least I find more fire and love in them, so that’s why I continue being Protestant.
Actually, that’s not really the choice you are making. Rather it is, either follow Christ or follow the world. Those so-called rights you advocate are not of Christ, Protestant or Catholic, although many Protestant groups have capitulated to the world.

You did find the truth and it didn’t conform to your view of civil rights. As one poster said on another thread in an online Catholic publication that he was forced to choose between being a good Catholic or a good American and he chose to be a good American. That is becoming more and more the choice facing Catholics and those who might think about being Catholic.

If you want to read a specific condemnation of abortion written by the early Christians, and I think most Evangelical Protestants at least believe they are New Testament Christians, read the Didache. Here’s chapter 2;
CHAPTER 2
2:1 But the second commandment of the teaching is this.
2:2 Thou shalt not kill; thou shalt not commit adultery; thou shalt not corrupt youth; thou shalt not commit fornication; thou shalt not steal; thou shalt not use soothsaying; thou shalt not practise sorcery;*** thou shalt not kill a child by abortion, neither shalt thou slay it when born***; thou shalt not covet the goods of thy neighbour;
2:3 thou shalt not commit perjury; thou shalt not bear false witness; thou shalt not speak evil; thou shalt not bear malice;
2:4 thou shalt not be double-minded or double-tongued, for to be double tongued is the snare of death.
2:5 Thy speech shall not be false or empty, but concerned with action.
2:6 Thou shalt not be covetous, or rapacious, or hypocritical, or malicious, or proud; thou shalt not take up an evil design against thy neighbour;
2:7 thou shalt not hate any man, but some thou shalt confute, concerning some thou shalt pray, and some thou shalt love beyond thine own soul.
Notice 2.2, both acts are done in “hospitals” in America.

I do hope you are clever enough to realize what you are choosing and give it some sober reflection. Catholics are far from perfect and this has been a problem since St. Peter. But this has never stopped the Church from holding fast to the Truth, which is Jesus Christ, and handing down what has been given from the Apostles having received it directly from Jesus Christ.
 
I politely attend protestant churches when invited by my in-laws, but I do find them incredibly hard to sit through, despite having been a protestant evangelical for 20 years.
They lack the life of the Catholic church, there is no Real Presence of Christ, no liturgy - handed down through centuries, I don’t have the sense that I am worshiping with a billion other Catholics throughout the world.
Your concerns with the Catholic faith just indicate that you’re not very familiar with it. I suggest you attend RCIA. You don’t have to join to learn about the Church.
I knew little about it when I joined, I did mostly because my husband is Catholic and I read that “you can believe almost anything and be a Catholic.” A totally false statement, but hey, it did its work and got me into the church.
God bless.
 
Hello… I’m a Protestant from New Mexico.

Sorry this is long and unfocused, but my mind is in such conflict about all areas of Catholicism.

For the past few years I’ve been more and more intrigued by the Catholic Church. I like the intellectual edge it has, and its claim to be the original that Jesus founded.
Hello.

I wonder if this is the Holy Spirit working in your life… just wondering… My opinion, please, take it or leave it, is to do some follow-up reading or investigation on the Catholic Church. Maybe call up on one of the radio shows like Open Line or Catholic Answers Live…maybe have a long discussion with God about this and see how He answers your questions… just some thoughts of mine…just some thoughts…
But the more I look into it and ask around, the more I get confused. And because of this confusion, it just makes it impossible to pull the trigger and convert.
…with God nothing is impossible!
 
It appears that most of your objections to the Catholic Church rest upon political questions and the tendency of self-professed Catholics to follow the teachings of the Church at the ballot box. I will share my opinion in brief, because I feel it requires not a lengthy statement.

The Church teaches Truth. Pope Benedict XVI, as the Vicar of Christ, will make pronouncements on Truth, and the Magisterium (the teaching arm of the Church, so to speak) will develop Truth of faith and morals. Truth depends not upon whether man/woman follows it, whether in everyday life or in political decisions, especially in the U.S. Some priests may fail in their calling because they are human; some lay Catholics may fail in applying the faith to their lives because they are human. All fall short of the glory of God. Regardless, the Truth of the Church lies within Sacred Scripture, within Tradition, within the Holy Father, within the Magisterium. Seek not truth from Man; rather, seek Truth from Christ as given to us from the Church that He founded.

May Christ guide your journey and allow you to focus on Truth! 👍
 
Therein lies the pickle of a conundrum. There was one member of a local Church - one I could get to easily - who was to speak to a priest on my behalf. He didn’t. He either can’t - or won’t- understand the situation. (The church member) Doesn’t matter. I think at this point I gotta leave it up to Him. Can’t really ask for anyone better, right?!
Cheezey,
Do not rely on someone else to speak to the priest for you. Either he will forget of the priest will not take it that seriously due to pack of communications, or whatever. Can you get to the church? Does the priest not stand outside after Mass at your church? If you wait until the end of the line, then you can often catch the priestto speak to him for a few minutes to have a preliminary conversation.

Do you have a phone? I have to admit, most priests are good at returning calls, but I had one who was very bad at that.

Anotyer option if you have already bugged the priest, is to start calling the diocese and anyone else around. Just explain briefly that you are looking for help in converting abd have serious health problems. Figure out how to put what you have to say quickly–I am always calling people and making no sense because I didn’t do that! Say things like The doctor says X; or, I am in a wheelchair and need help getting around<< just very basic things. You could include the Catholic chaplain attached to the hospital where you usually go among those whom you call.

And just keep calling people until you get the right person.

Merry Christmas!

Matthew 11
28 "Come to me, all of you who are tired and have heavy loads, and I will give you rest.

Matthew 7
7 "Ask, and God will give to you. Search, and you will find. Knock, and the door will open for you.
8 Yes, everyone who asks will receive. Everyone who searches will find. And everyone who knocks will have the door opened.

Matthew 25
40 "Then the King will answer, ‘I tell you the truth, anything you did for even the least of my people here, you also did for me.’

Prayers would be most appreciative. :gopray2:

Blessings and thank you. :thankyou:

And a very merry Christmas to you and yours…

P.S. I figured you may not have known more of the specifics, at least as I have offered previously… Understandable. There’s a lot to read here!! No to mention, I have posted this issue on a few forums and I can’t remember which is which anymore…Thank goodness for the statistics option!!
 
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