Invitation - how to get out of this little predicament?

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1ke said:
There is no promise!

Let this statement be your guide: “Both of us will be happier if there’s no contact”

In fact, in a PP didn’t you say she had told you NOT to contact her anymore?
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Not at all. There’s every pretence of healthy contact except there’s no actual contact. The last has been a simple exchange of Easter wishes, which would simply have been unseemly not to send. Not contacting her was my choice. I simply didn’t have much incentive after what I heard.
 
I haven’t followed too closely, but I will say Easter wishes wouldn’t have been unseemly to ‘not’ send if she didn’t send you any to begin with. It only would have been unseemly if she sent you an Easter greeting and you ignored it.

Personally, I would just not contact her anymore. If she doesn’t want to go with you then she won’t call you up to go to this event and then later use it as an excuse for the reason why she didn’t go.
It’s a nice passive way for her to get out of going and if you gird yourself up mentally…then you’ll be prepared that she won’t go.

Sorry man, it just looks like a downer situation, but really, take it as a learning experiance and then start looking for people that are happy and enthusiastic to spending time with you! 😃
 
MCGar said:
Sorry man, it just looks like a downer situation, but really, take it as a learning experiance and then start looking for people that are happy and enthusiastic to spending time with you! 😃
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Yup. Part (most) of the reason I don’t want to go with that girl.

It looks like I’ve just got to know the concrete date of the event, finally. Now I need to make it so that she doesn’t want to go with me… Or convince myself that it won’t be such a low act to “forget” about that arrangement. Edit: Oh. The cost of entry is quite heavy. Problem solved. She won’t be interested enough to pay, while if we’re mere acquaintances, according to her, I don’t have any incentive to pay. Bye… That’s pretty much a good reason not to contact her.

Time to look for another girl to keep me company.

Thanks, folks.
 
Or rather, I can now safely and remourselessly stag the party. 🙂

Oh, and it looks like it’s a closed party, no outsiders, no company, just the graduates of my department of the university.
 
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