Inviting the priest over?

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Would it be weird to invite the priest over to our house? My new baby is going to be baptized in December and that afternoon we are going to have a joint birthday party for my daughter and baptism celebration for him. We have a new priest that I really like, and I thought about inviting him over to celebrate with us. Is that weird? There will be non-Catholics present too because of the birthday party. :confused:
 
No, it’s not weird at all.
We invited our previous priest over several times for dinner, and he appreciated it. He wasn’t a great cook and loved a home cooked meal.
We also had him over to bless our house at one point.
Our new priest I invited, but he said he’s not up for that kind of thing. He’s apparently very shy and is uncomfortable in social situations, though he gives great homilies. I don’t understand how someone can speak in public but be shy with parishioners, but everyone’s different.
It would be nice to invite your priest.
 
As others have said, invite away, but don’t be hurt if he can’t come.

Our parish has about 9,000 parishioners and two priests. I’ve invited one of them over to dinner before, but it seemed to just stress the poor guy out: he seemed to want to come, but explained that he has Masses, Confessions, and meetings/counseling with various people every single night of the week and had no idea when he could take us up on the offer.

Pray for more good priests, is all I have to say.
 
No, it’s not weird at all.

Our new priest I invited, but he said he’s not up for that kind of thing. He’s apparently very shy and is uncomfortable in social situations, though he gives great homilies. I don’t understand how someone can speak in public but be shy with parishioners, but everyone’s different.
It would be nice to invite your priest.
I remember this political lobbyist in Albany, NY. She said the same thing about herself. She was no good at parties and such, but everyone knew she was great at public talks. She also wrote persuasive articles. I suppose the organisation that sponsored her sent somebody else to parties!🙂
 
Baptism, first communion, confirmations, weddings: we always invite the priest celebrating to the house for the party afterwards: always. Rarely are they able to come, but the invitation is always made.
 
Not weird at all.

We invite our Parish Priest for dinner at least 3 times a year. Like previously mentioned, they love the company and a home cooked meal. Also, I have found most priest are so knowledgeable and great conversationalist (not just religion) 🙂
 
Would it be weird to invite the priest over to our house? My new baby is going to be baptized in December and that afternoon we are going to have a joint birthday party for my daughter and baptism celebration for him. We have a new priest that I really like, and I thought about inviting him over to celebrate with us. Is that weird? There will be non-Catholics present too because of the birthday party. :confused:
We have always invited the priest over to the house. Sometimes it is the best way to actually get any time with a priest. We have moved several times and each time we find a parish we invite the priest over for dinner. He blesses the house as well. It has lead to many great theological and political discussions and is a very very good way to help the priest feel part of the community. But many priests are busy so if you are inviting a priest for a specific party please please please do not be offended of hurt if he cannot make it.
 
Thanks for the assurance!

I must say that I will be worrying my head off about cleaning the baseboards and bathrooms before he comes! :eek:
 
Would it be weird to invite the priest over to our house? My new baby is going to be baptized in December and that afternoon we are going to have a joint birthday party for my daughter and baptism celebration for him. We have a new priest that I really like, and I thought about inviting him over to celebrate with us. Is that weird? There will be non-Catholics present too because of the birthday party. :confused:
It’s a nice gesture to invite your priest, whether or not he can attend. What jumped out at me from your post however, and what I’m responding to, is that you’re going to wait until next month to baptize your baby. With all due respect, I would urge you to have it sooner, as soon as possible. Why would you deprive your child of sanctifying grace for one minute longer than necessary? You can still have the celebration at your daughter’s birthday party, even if the baby was baptized weeks earlier. Listen to this sermon: audiosancto.org/sermon/20131215-The-Importance-of-Timely-Baptism.html. The priest quotes from the Catechism of the Council of Trent: “The faithful are earnestly to be exhorted to take care that their children be brought to the church, as soon as it can be done with safety, to receive solemn Baptism. Since infant children have no other means of salvation except Baptism, we may easily understand how grievously those persons sin who permit them to remain without the grace of the Sacrament longer than necessity may require, particularly at an age so tender as to be exposed to numberless dangers of death.” (ewtn.com/library/DOCTRINE/BAPTISM.TXT)

I’m not trying to criticize you or give you a hard time. Many people are not aware of the requirement to baptize babies quickly. God bless you and congratulations on your new baby.🙂
 
It’s a nice gesture to invite your priest, whether or not he can attend. What jumped out at me from your post however, and what I’m responding to, is that you’re going to wait until next month to baptize your baby. With all due respect, I would urge you to have it sooner, as soon as possible. Why would you deprive your child of sanctifying grace for one minute longer than necessary? You can still have the celebration at your daughter’s birthday party, even if the baby was baptized weeks earlier. Listen to this sermon: audiosancto.org/sermon/20131215-The-Importance-of-Timely-Baptism.html. The priest quotes from the Catechism of the Council of Trent: “The faithful are earnestly to be exhorted to take care that their children be brought to the church, as soon as it can be done with safety, to receive solemn Baptism. Since infant children have no other means of salvation except Baptism, we may easily understand how grievously those persons sin who permit them to remain without the grace of the Sacrament longer than necessity may require, particularly at an age so tender as to be exposed to numberless dangers of death.” (ewtn.com/library/DOCTRINE/BAPTISM.TXT)

I’m not trying to criticize you or give you a hard time. Many people are not aware of the requirement to baptize babies quickly. God bless you and congratulations on your new baby.🙂
They are baptizing their baby quickly and under the direction of the parish that is under direction of the priest. You believe the parish is erring by scheduling it a month from now? What authority do you have to make that claim?
 
It’s a nice gesture to invite your priest, whether or not he can attend. What jumped out at me from your post however, and what I’m responding to, is that you’re going to wait until next month to baptize your baby. With all due respect, I would urge you to have it sooner, as soon as possible. Why would you deprive your child of sanctifying grace for one minute longer than necessary? You can still have the celebration at your daughter’s birthday party, even if the baby was baptized weeks earlier. Listen to this sermon: audiosancto.org/sermon/20131215-The-Importance-of-Timely-Baptism.html. The priest quotes from the Catechism of the Council of Trent: “The faithful are earnestly to be exhorted to take care that their children be brought to the church, as soon as it can be done with safety, to receive solemn Baptism. Since infant children have no other means of salvation except Baptism, we may easily understand how grievously those persons sin who permit them to remain without the grace of the Sacrament longer than necessity may require, particularly at an age so tender as to be exposed to numberless dangers of death.” (ewtn.com/library/DOCTRINE/BAPTISM.TXT)

I’m not trying to criticize you or give you a hard time. Many people are not aware of the requirement to baptize babies quickly. God bless you and congratulations on your new baby.🙂
My baby was born 3 weeks early after 2 weeks on bedrest and my parish requires that we take 3 classes prior to baptism, so I could not take the classes until November. The next available date for me to baptize him is not until December. They set the date, not me 😦
 

Our new priest I invited, but he said he’s not up for that kind of thing. He’s apparently very shy and is uncomfortable in social situations, though he gives great homilies. I don’t understand how someone can speak in public but be shy with parishioners, but everyone’s different.
It would be nice to invite your priest.​

Its actually kind of common. The guy who founded BNI (Business Networking International, a large organization for people to network and refer business) is actually an introvert. In social situations he isn’t good, but when its structured, he does just fine.

I’d say definitely invite your priest. Everyone likes a good party.
 
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