Is a Protestant Christian welcome at Mass?

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Hello all,
I am a practicing Evangelical who is thinking about attending a Catholic Mass to experience what it is like and to respectfully observe the proceedings because I am curious as to the similarities and differences with my church. I haven’t been to a Catholic church in ages. I am thinking about attending on a Saturday night because I feel it would be wrong to miss my normal church service on Sunday. The Catholic churches in my city have Mass on Saturday evenings as well Sundays.

Questions:
  • Would I be welcome, even if I have no intentions to convert? I am an inquirer only.
  • Is there any kind of special protocol to follow besides not participating in communion or any of the other sacraments?
I don’t want to stand out like a sore thumb (a term my mother used a lot) or be disruptive in any way, although I have a feeling people will probably discern I am not Catholic by observing my deer-in-the-headlights demeanor. 🙂

Thanks in advance for your time and advice.
 
You are always welcome. The only major rule is that you would not be able to receive the Eucharist.

To answer your questions directly:
  • Yes you are welcome.
  • No special procedure, just don’t walk up for communion (stay in your pew and pray).
My suggestion to avoid sticking out is to not sit too far in front. That way you can watch and follow what others do in regard to sit, kneel, stand.
 
Would you be welcome? Most certainly.

One way not to “stand out like a sore thumb” would be to mimic the posture (standing, kneeling, sitting) of the congregation if you would be comfortable doing so. You can always simply remain seated but you would be less obvious if you were doing so near the back of the church. Human nature being what it is, there will be some folks thinking "why is that guy sitting when everybody else is standing (or kneeling).
 
Hello all,
I am a practicing Evangelical who is thinking about attending a Catholic Mass to experience what it is like and to respectfully observe the proceedings because I am curious as to the similarities and differences with my church. I haven’t been to a Catholic church in ages. I am thinking about attending on a Saturday night because I feel it would be wrong to miss my normal church service on Sunday. The Catholic churches in my city have Mass on Saturday evenings as well Sundays.

Questions:
  • Would I be welcome, even if I have no intentions to convert? I am an inquirer only.
  • Is there any kind of special protocol to follow besides not participating in communion or any of the other sacraments?
I don’t want to stand out like a sore thumb (a term my mother used a lot) or be disruptive in any way, although I have a feeling people will probably discern I am not Catholic by observing my deer-in-the-headlights demeanor. 🙂

Thanks in advance for your time and advice.
YES! you are most welcome! It seems like you already have a good grasp of what to do (and not) No one will notice if you are a step or two behind. If it is a parish with missalettes…follow along with the Order of the Mass (it will say that in the table of contents).
You may bless yourself with the holy water as it is a reminder of your Christian baptism.
And by all means introduce yourself to the clergy after mass.
I pray you have a joyful experience!
 
YES! you are most welcome! It seems like you already have a good grasp of what to do (and not) No one will notice if you are a step or two behind. If it is a parish with missalettes…follow along with the Order of the Mass (it will say that in the table of contents).
You may bless yourself with the holy water as it is a reminder of your Christian baptism.
**And by all means introduce yourself to the clergy after mass.**I pray you have a joyful experience!
Thanks for the quick replies, alwayslooking, felsguy, and Philomeena. I appreciate the feedback.

I am not familiar with blessing yourself with holy water. Can you describe how that is done? I am a baptized believer but may possibly do that if it is permissible.

Does the clergy typically stand somewhere to greet the parishoners after Mass or would I need to seek them out somewhere else? Just curious. Thanks again.
 
You are always welcome. The only major rule is that you would not be able to receive the Eucharist.

To answer your questions directly:
  • Yes you are welcome.
  • No special procedure, just don’t walk up for communion (stay in your pew and pray).
My suggestion to avoid sticking out is to not sit too far in front. That way you can watch and follow what others do in regard to sit, kneel, stand.
👍
Would you be welcome? Most certainly.

One way not to “stand out like a sore thumb” would be to mimic the posture (standing, kneeling, sitting) of the congregation if you would be comfortable doing so. You can always simply remain seated but you would be less obvious if you were doing so near the back of the church. Human nature being what it is, there will be some folks thinking "why is that guy sitting when everybody else is standing (or kneeling).
Hopefully, they’ll just think there’s a guest who is curious!!
YES! you are most welcome! It seems like you already have a good grasp of what to do (and not) No one will notice if you are a step or two behind. If it is a parish with missalettes…follow along with the Order of the Mass (it will say that in the table of contents).
You may bless yourself with the holy water as it is a reminder of your Christian baptism.
And by all means introduce yourself to the clergy after mass.
I pray you have a joyful experience!
👍
 
Thanks for the quick replies, alwayslooking, felsguy, and Philomeena. I appreciate the feedback.

I am not familiar with blessing yourself with holy water. Can you describe how that is done? I am a baptized believer but may possibly do that if it is permissible.

Does the clergy typically stand somewhere to greet the parishoners after Mass or would I need to seek them out somewhere else? Just curious. Thanks again.
You can see the Holy water / sign of the cross on you tube, or the web. You can also watch people coming into the church, and follow the example. No one will think anything about it if you do not do this, it is not a requirement.

Clergy usually will stand outside and greet congregants, but depending on the size of the Church this might require waiting in a line.

Guests are ALWAYS welcome. We have guests that just never stopped coming!
No pressure ever!
-E
 
Hello all,
I am a practicing Evangelical who is thinking about attending a Catholic Mass to experience what it is like and to respectfully observe the proceedings because I am curious as to the similarities and differences with my church. I haven’t been to a Catholic church in ages. I am thinking about attending on a Saturday night because I feel it would be wrong to miss my normal church service on Sunday. The Catholic churches in my city have Mass on Saturday evenings as well Sundays.

Questions:
  • Would I be welcome, even if I have no intentions to convert? I am an inquirer only.
  • Is there any kind of special protocol to follow besides not participating in communion or any of the other sacraments?
I don’t want to stand out like a sore thumb (a term my mother used a lot) or be disruptive in any way, although I have a feeling people will probably discern I am not Catholic by observing my deer-in-the-headlights demeanor. 🙂

Thanks in advance for your time and advice.
the Parish my family and I currently attend has a rock outside of it that says “all are welcome”. You are always welcomed to attend Mass. Some Catholic Churches do have the missel available and you can easily follow it and the readings are printed in it for that Sunday which you can easily open and follow along. I would also suggest that maybe watch the Mass on EWTN which might give you an idea of what goes on and the flow of things. I also think you will be pleasently surprised that the first part of the Mass, liturgy of the Word is dedicated to 3 readings from scripture. No one is going to think any different of you if you don’t seem to know what you are doing. It isn’t as scary as you think and with the amount of direct scripture used and quoted at Mass (I think about 45%) you will recognize a lot even coming from your background.
 
Hi Tommy999. All the other posters have offered great suggestions. My 2 cents is that because there is a set order during the mass, it can lead someone new to become overwhelmed simply because they aren’t familiar. So I would ask yourself if you want to “try to follow as much as possible”, knowing that it may be a little confusing OR if you just want to sort of let go and “let it come to you” and evaluate your questions afterward.

If you want to try the first, I would prepare ahead of time by looking at the “order of the mass” and the specific readings for the day you’re going. Just kind of read down through it. And like Robwar said, watch a mass or two on EWTN to help you. Warning EWTN, depending on the priest, does more prayers in Latin than you will probably experience in your local parish. No worries.

If you want the second, just kick back a little, observe what the priest is doing and the people, and you can let questions come to you afterward, when you don’t have to feel like you have pressure on you.
 
Hello all,
I am a practicing Evangelical who is thinking about attending a Catholic Mass to experience what it is like and to respectfully observe the proceedings because I am curious as to the similarities and differences with my church. I haven’t been to a Catholic church in ages. I am thinking about attending on a Saturday night because I feel it would be wrong to miss my normal church service on Sunday. The Catholic churches in my city have Mass on Saturday evenings as well Sundays.

Questions:
  • Would I be welcome, even if I have no intentions to convert? I am an inquirer only.
  • Is there any kind of special protocol to follow besides not participating in communion or any of the other sacraments?
I don’t want to stand out like a sore thumb (a term my mother used a lot) or be disruptive in any way, although I have a feeling people will probably discern I am not Catholic by observing my deer-in-the-headlights demeanor. 🙂

Thanks in advance for your time and advice.
Sure.

You’re always welcome!
 
Hello all,
I am a practicing Evangelical who is thinking about attending a Catholic Mass to experience what it is like and to respectfully observe the proceedings because I am curious as to the similarities and differences with my church. I haven’t been to a Catholic church in ages. I am thinking about attending on a Saturday night because I feel it would be wrong to miss my normal church service on Sunday. The Catholic churches in my city have Mass on Saturday evenings as well Sundays.

Questions:
  • Would I be welcome, even if I have no intentions to convert? I am an inquirer only.
  • Is there any kind of special protocol to follow besides not participating in communion or any of the other sacraments?
I don’t want to stand out like a sore thumb (a term my mother used a lot) or be disruptive in any way, although I have a feeling people will probably discern I am not Catholic by observing my deer-in-the-headlights demeanor. 🙂

Thanks in advance for your time and advice.
There may or may not be someone at the door greeting people–this is different than most Protestant parishes, and you may or may not be ushered to a seat. There usually are ushers available, though, to assist you if you need it. If you follow what the others are doing, you will be fine, although we don’t expect you to kneel during the Eucharistic prayers and Consecration as a Protestant. People don’t really think anything about it when someone does not go up to Communion, so don’t worry about that.

The first part of the Mass is called the Liturgy of the Word and consists of greetings, prayers, maybe a prayer called the Confetior (confession), prayers asking for God’s mercy for our sins, a reading from the OT (except now it’s from the book of Acts), a sung psalm with responses (sometimes it is just recited), a reading from the Epistles, and a reading from the Gospel, followed by a homily and intercessory petitions. You will hear a LOT of Scripture during the Mass. Then there is the Offertory when the collection is taken and bread and wine are brought to the altar. and the Liturgy of the Eucharist begins. The main part is the Eucharistic Prayer and the Consecration of the bread and wine and Communion. If you listen carefully to the prayers said, you will find much taken from the Bible and will be familiar with a lot of the wording. The Lord’s Prayer is recited and the Sign of Peace (usually a handshake with those around you) is given before Communion begins. Throughout the Mass there are songs and hymns, the priest may chant or sing some of the prayers. Some are standard and heard at every Mass, such as the Gloria, the Holy, Holy, Holy, and the Lamb of God. Catholics generally do not sing as enthusiastically as Protestants do in my experience, don’t be surprised.🙂 Then we are dismissed. Don’t be afraid. If you listen to what is being said and sung , you will hear God being praised most beautifully and, like I said, a lot of Scripture. We are though, much more subdued than your average Pentecostal service, so that will be a big change for you. You will not usually see any hand-raising, hand-clapping, etc.

This Sunday is Pentecost Sunday, a very special day on the Church calendar. There may be incense used and the vestments worn by the priest and deacon (if there is one) will be red. Relax and enjoy the Mass. It is a beautiful prayer.
 
Another thought came in that you list yourself as Assembly of God which of course is pentacostal and a very different type of service than a Catholic liturgical Mass. For Protestants with a background or from pentacostal/charismatic church services, a liturgical worship like the Mass can come across as too formalized and ritualized but please don’t let that scare you off and allow yourself some understanding in the differences. Now you will have to let us know how it goes!
 
Hello all,
I am a practicing Evangelical who is thinking about attending a Catholic Mass to experience what it is like and to respectfully observe the proceedings because I am curious as to the similarities and differences with my church. I haven’t been to a Catholic church in ages. I am thinking about attending on a Saturday night because I feel it would be wrong to miss my normal church service on Sunday. The Catholic churches in my city have Mass on Saturday evenings as well Sundays.

Questions:
  • Would I be welcome, even if I have no intentions to convert? I am an inquirer only.
  • Is there any kind of special protocol to follow besides not participating in communion or any of the other sacraments?
I don’t want to stand out like a sore thumb (a term my mother used a lot) or be disruptive in any way, although I have a feeling people will probably discern I am not Catholic by observing my deer-in-the-headlights demeanor. 🙂

Thanks in advance for your time and advice.
Come whenever and as much as you like. You are most welcome anytime.
 
I was Pentecostal before I joined the Catholic church and I attended once in a blue moon until I became interested and then two years before I joined. I always felt welcome and I find the Catholic churches are some of the quietest places to pray in. The Pentecostals can learn from the Catholics on this respect.

One thing the other respondents, did not say was instead staying in your pew during communion, if you wish, you can go up for a blessing. To receive one, you can cross your arms on your chest a little before you see the priest, and leave your arms crossed as he says a prayer over you. It is quite special to receive a blessing and it is something I encourage you to do. It doesn’t mean you have to join the church. It simply means you are joining them in prayer. Blessings are meant for everyone who either haven’t been fully entered into the church through first communion and confirmation or for those who for whatever reason do not feel worthy to participate in the communion but wish to have a simple prayer over them instead.

If you have questions, you can always make an appointment to meet with the priest at a later date. Most priests I know are always interested in answering questions from those who are curious about the faith.

Most of the priests in my diocese and the neighbouring diocese are very good about that.
 
I was Pentecostal before I joined the Catholic church and I attended once in a blue moon until I became interested and then two years before I joined. I always felt welcome and I find the Catholic churches are some of the quietest places to pray in. The Pentecostals can learn from the Catholics on this respect.

One thing the other respondents, did not say was instead staying in your pew during communion, if you wish, you can go up for a blessing. To receive one, you can cross your arms on your chest a little before you see the priest, and leave your arms crossed as he says a prayer over you. It is quite special to receive a blessing and it is something I encourage you to do. It doesn’t mean you have to join the church. It simply means you are joining them in prayer. Blessings are meant for everyone who either haven’t been fully entered into the church through first communion and confirmation or for those who for whatever reason do not feel worthy to participate in the communion but wish to have a simple prayer over them instead.

If you have questions, you can always make an appointment to meet with the priest at a later date. Most priests I know are always interested in answering questions from those who are curious about the faith.

Most of the priests in my diocese and the neighbouring diocese are very good about that.
We must be careful here. Going up to receive a blessing is not a universal practice, it is not done in most churches, and is not encouraged by Rome, although it seems more common than it is by reading CAF. If you go up for a blessing in a church where it is not the custom, you might be embarrassed. And, only the priest can give a formal blessing. In my parish blessings are not usually given, except for infants and small children with their parents, and only by the priest. It is better to just sit in the pew during Communion to avoid confusion.
 
Thanks to all who responded. To SecretGarden, I sense that you are a very welcoming and nice person and if all people at your parish are like you, I would like to visit a church like that.

However, I think I will heed the advice of those who recommended that I sit toward the back and observe and/or participate in a low key way and to not do anything else to draw attention to myself, although I wouldn’t mind meeting and shaking hands with a priest at the end of the service. I’ll have to play the rest of it by ear.

Thanks again to all for you replies and the good advice. like that from robwar, sousley, esieffe, and CB Catholic.
 
Thanks to all who responded. To SecretGarden, I sense that you are a very welcoming and nice person and if all people at your parish are like you, I would like to visit a church like that.

However, I think I will heed the advice of those who recommended that I sit toward the back and observe and/or participate in a low key way and to not do anything else to draw attention to myself, although I wouldn’t mind meeting and shaking hands with a priest at the end of the service. I’ll have to play the rest of it by ear.

Thanks again to all for you replies and the good advice. like that from robwar, sousley, esieffe, and CB Catholic.
You are welcome. Let us know how it goes. 🙂
 
Thanks to all who responded. To SecretGarden, I sense that you are a very welcoming and nice person and if all people at your parish are like you, I would like to visit a church like that.

However, I think I will heed the advice of those who recommended that I sit toward the back and observe and/or participate in a low key way and to not do anything else to draw attention to myself, although I wouldn’t mind meeting and shaking hands with a priest at the end of the service. I’ll have to play the rest of it by ear.

Thanks again to all for you replies and the good advice. like that from robwar, sousley, esieffe, and CB Catholic.
Please let us know what you think of the service when you decide to go. I would also encourage you to visit more than one Catholic Church. I went to around 4 or 5 before joining and then later converting. There is and never will be pressure to convert, though the Pope is placing an emphasis on outreach. [But no one will ever give you a hard sell.]
We are glad to have you here on CAF as well!
 
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