The Church never teaches that one person is to be saved over another, neither mother over child or child over mother, neither king over homeless beggar, rich over poor, etc. All of those involved in a situation are morally bound to do all that they can to see that EVERY life is saved.
I am sorry that your doctors did not provide you with this option, that they told you abortion was all you could do. It is a tragedy, pure and simple. In the modern world, there is ALWAYS another way.
Mother has a disease and the doctors say that she will die if she carries a baby to term. In that situation, the moral thing to do is for the woman to have close care by her doctor and her pastor, to do all they can to keep the mother alive until the baby can be delivered. If the time hits critical, mother is in imminant danger of death, the child would be delivered via C-section, and the medical professionals would work to help the child live if viable or to baptize and comfort a the child until she dies if she is too young to live. If you would like to see some heart touching photos and testimonies of parents who have been able to spend precious little time with pre-term born infants, go to
www.nowilaymedowntosleep.org.
The compassionate thing to do is to give the child and mother the BEST possible chance to live, delivery at the latest date possible by C-section. Not dismembering the child or burning it to death with acid or injecting poision into the child’s heart and pulling the bloody parts out of the mother’s vagina. What on earth is compassionate about directly killing a child?
As a mother, I would suffer, be tortured, live in abject poverty, and die a thousand painful deaths to save my child. My children, one living and one who has gone on, are the most precious gifts God ever gave me.