Is all this hated really reasonable?

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Ok, I would like to really get to the bottom of this entire mess. For a long time now, I have heard countless claims for the hated of our church. I will name a few:
  1. The claim that the church has actually covered up priests who molest children and that their bishops actually knew this.
  2. That during the Middle Ages, the church killed millions through the crusades, and that the church actually would tell the faithful that they could buy indulgence. It was a certificate given by the pope to a person whose sins had been forgiven. This certificate was intended to cancel some or all of the punishment a person would suffer after death for their sins.
  3. Some even say that it is anti-women, anti-gay among other things.
What I don’t get is if all of this is really true? Another thing that people claim is that during the middle ages, priests and nuns and even popes would have sexual affairs.

Now please let us have a clean disscussion about this. Now how do we respond to all of these claims?
 
In general, I would say it exists but it is not all “reasonable”.

Except for the “millions” killed in the Crusades which may be hyping the number, people could legitimately make the claims you state. They would not be true of all Catholics or throughout history, but people could (and do) provide evidence for each accusation.

Regarding illicit sex involving the religious, that can’t be confined to the middle ages, unfortunately.

In your second item, the issue of selling indulgences was the #1 reason behind Martin Luther’s break with the Church and the leading cause for the Reformation.

The Church and some of its leaders have made mistakes, some very serious ones, but that makes those people “bad”, not Catholicism as a whole. The actions of some in authority in the Church have been wrong in the past and the Church has admitted it. But that is a failure of people, not of the faith.

And many who use these reasons as a basis for “hate” would find something else if these didn’t exist.
 
Ok, I would like to really get to the bottom of this entire mess. For a long time now, I have heard countless claims for the hated of our church. I will name a few:
  1. The claim that the church has actually covered up priests who molest children and that their bishops actually knew this.
    Unfortunately, this is true. There have been priests who molested children, and there were those who knew, and did nothing to protect the children. I am sure there is a special place in hell for those people.
  2. That during the Middle Ages, the church killed millions through the crusades, and that the church actually would tell the faithful that they could buy indulgence. It was a certificate given by the pope to a person whose sins had been forgiven. This certificate was intended to cancel some or all of the punishment a person would suffer after death for their sins.
    I have no idea how many were killed. Corruption was present within areas of the church. Paying money for an indulgence was what Luther railed against. I think Luther was right on this. We cannot buy our way into heaven!
  3. Some even say that it is anti-women, anti-gay among other things.
    “some” say many things. The church accepts gays, just not the acts.
What I don’t get is if all of this is really true? Another thing that people claim is that during the middle ages, priests and nuns and even popes would have sexual affairs.
Priests and nuns TODAY have sexual affairs. Remember the priest in Florida? Rev. Alberto Cutie Recently? I am sure there are others who just don’t get the publicity.

Priests are human and sin. Priests are not sinless! They can (and do) make mistakes - sometimes pretty big ones, have errors in judgment, and even make really bad decisions sometimes.
Now please let us have a clean disscussion about this. Now how do we respond to all of these claims?
 
I would add that sometimes what you might see as hate is an impassioned sense of personal injustice. For example, I knew a woman who was civil to Catholics, but militantly Protestant. Her husband had been born and raised Catholic, and he was in a hospital near his end. The woman thought a priest might give him some comfort, but before the priest would do that, he insisted that the woman promise to baptize and raise their children in the Catholic church. She never forgave the emotional blackmail this priest used upon her, and took him as a representative of the Church, an agent of the Church, and so blamed the Church.

Likewise, when people feel the Church is demanding that society adopt unjust laws, their personal sense of justice is aroused. For example, many if not most people today know (and know they know) a gay or lesbian person. They may even be a relative. So when the Church opposes rights for gays and lesbians, people who do not automatically grant the Church moral authority can be aroused as they were during the struggle for African-American civil rights in the '60s. And when one remembers the Constitution is supposed to protect us from religious inspired law, it is not surprising that some people would say, “Who are they to talk about right and wrong? Who are they to tell me what to do?” The fact that so many bishops were complicit in the child abuse scandal is what really made it a scandal. The fact that they were often promoted up and out to protect them did not give anyone, members of their diocese include, a sense that the authorities of the Church were concerned with much besides protecting themselves. When Catholic spokespersons chastised Catholic reporters investigating the scandal with questions like, “What sort of Catholic are you?” , the implicit statement by the spokesperson was that this is a faith about respecting the authority of the heirarchy, not about justice for children.

And when the people advocating for the position the Church supports use deceptions and falsehoods to advance their cause, when opposition becomes villification, and when violence results, with no contrition from those who " poured the kerosene on the fire," that the polarization is reciprocal is simply logical. When any group of people gets carried away to the point where anyone who is not with them entirely is characterized as evil, then it is not surprising when The Other comes to feel the same way about them.

So the solution is obvious, if not simple. The Church has to become what it likes to think it is. It has to speak from love, and with love. It has to be willing to object to tactics which will hurt the Church in the long run even if they yield a short term gain. The problem with that of course is that some feel that the Church has been too accomodating already, and needs to be tough to return to what they feel is the true values of the Church. But the time has come for the Church to admit that ther is no return to the Middle Ages up ahead. An institution born in feudal times, it has had difficulty adjusting to a world of liberal democracy and religious tolerance. A Pope once feared a heresy in the US, which supposedly desired its own form of Catholicism. What he didn’t realize was that what was really needed was a new perspective based on an entire world of liberty and tolerance.

All the Christians, and most others too, know that Christ admonished us to love our neighbors as ourselves. If Catholics, who have benefited the most from religious freedom in the US, are not seen to respect the religious freedom of others, just as they themselves desire respect, then they are seen as un-Christian, and as un-American. That is why people liken them to the Taliban. And many people use those characteristics, as they understand them, to justify hate every day.
 
In general, I would say it exists but it is not all “reasonable”.

Except for the “millions” killed in the Crusades which may be hyping the number, people could legitimately make the claims you state. They would not be true of all Catholics or throughout history, but people could (and do) provide evidence for each accusation.

Regarding illicit sex involving the religious, that can’t be confined to the middle ages, unfortunately.

In your second item, the issue of selling indulgences was the #1 reason behind Martin Luther’s break with the Church and the leading cause for the Reformation.

The Church and some of its leaders have made mistakes, some very serious ones, but that makes those people “bad”, not Catholicism as a whole. The actions of some in authority in the Church have been wrong in the past and the Church has admitted it. But that is a failure of people, not of the faith.

And many who use these reasons as a basis for “hate” would find something else if these didn’t exist.
I agree with everything you said, but do wonder what he means by what is reasonable.
I suppose a person who believed in their faith, never questioned it (or really learned it) would be greatly disturbed by knowing what you said.
In that case, I would say the church has not been reasonable by not preparing these people from what could be a cause of scandal to their very faith. There is no easy way to solve it, but what if anything is being done to help these people?

Did any of them care about transitioning to Vat 2?

Too many people were simply cut off from dialouge, and then blamed for not liking things later on.
 
I agree with everything you said, but do wonder what he means by what is reasonable.
I took it to mean “deserved”. But when do you stop “bringing it up”? When a child misbehaves and the deed is discovered and punished, you move on from there. The same is supposed to apply to criminal justice. Does anyone deserve to be “punished” continuously for something they did wrong? Not by us; that is left to God.
I suppose a person who believed in their faith, never questioned it (or really learned it) would be greatly disturbed by knowing what you said.
In that case, I would say the church has not been reasonable by not preparing these people from what could be a cause of scandal to their very faith. There is no easy way to solve it, but what if anything is being done to help these people?
There are many people who are naive about the human frailties within the Church. Perhaps it is because we put the Priest and the Bishop, etc., on a pedestal, thinking that they are less subject to temptations, greed, pride and wrong thinking than anyone else. That is obviously not the case. The Holy Spirit can lead and provide guidance, but It does not dictate. We can miss the “signs”, fail to understand and respond to them, disagree about their meaning, or refuse to accept them. Jesus gives us many such examples in the Gospels, often by the “learned and wise” of the Temple.

The Church, in imitation of Christ, must come to the aid of the victim, including those who have been harmed by representatives of their Church. That realization has been slow to develop, but is occurring now. We can’t undo most of the damage already done, but we can admit the sin and work to prevent it in the future.
 
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I still need to ask. Does anyone know exactly how many of out priests have had sexual relationships whether be with women or children?

The media seems to be saying as if all our priests are this way, and I’m sure that their not.

Also I once heard a claim that made that if the church really is the true church of chirst, then it can not fall into corruption like they say it did in the Middle Ages.

Any advice on this?
 
I still need to ask. Does anyone know exactly how many of out priests have had sexual relationships whether be with women or children?

The media seems to be saying as if all our priests are this way, and I’m sure that their not.

Also I once heard a claim that made that if the church really is the true church of chirst, then it can not fall into corruption like they say it did in the Middle Ages.

Any advice on this?
Well common sense would tell one that no not all priest are unfaithful, just like not all men are unfaithful.

The church is full of sinners, our priest are attacked more often than the lay man, simply because satan knows his enemies and goes after them. The Church cannot fall into corruption but her children can. We are the ones who sin not the church. If one is looking for a church that is sinless than they would be looking forever. If one is looking for the one true church that is lead by Jesus, than you can look no further.👍
 
I am a convert 😃 and have my own opinions

I think that many are looking for a scapegoat. The Church is the scapegoat because first, she’s most visible. And, lately, quite vocal. Her people are more vocal too, to the point of swaying political tides. How dare we?

There’s also the fact that there’s general outrage over sexual misconduct, and bishops, well meaning, but erroneously nonetheless, moved priests who continued to violate. People need someone to blame, so it was easier to fall back on the “evil” Catholic Church as a blame, instead of blaming individuals, who clearly were NOT representing the Church or Christ when committing their odious acts.

In today’s society, positive stories don’t get coverage…the negative ones do. So despite our countless hospitals, charity centers, and good deeds, individuals get the spotlight.

People also want easy answers .The Church doesn’t have them. We have black and white…right and wrong. There are no gray areas. That’s a hard pill to swallow. Extramarital sex is wrong. Actors are wrong. Musicians are wrong. Politicians are wrong. How dare we have morals?

And finally, ignorance. I know my mother’s family hates Catholics, but can’t tell you why. Ignorance abounds on these boards, too. We won’t change most minds.

All we can do is pray that they will learn the Truth.
 
Well common sense would tell one that no not all priest are unfaithful, just like not all men are unfaithful.

The church is full of sinners, our priest are attacked more often than the lay man, simply because satan knows his enemies and goes after them. The Church cannot fall into corruption but her children can. We are the ones who sin not the church. If one is looking for a church that is sinless than they would be looking forever. If one is looking for the one true church that is lead by Jesus, than you can look no further.👍
Thank you for the response but I still cannot understand it. How can it be if say the pope was to become corrupt, wouldn’t it mean that with his influence over the entire church, it would also turn corrupt?
 
Thank you for the response but I still cannot understand it. How can it be if say the pope was to become corrupt, wouldn’t it mean that with his influence over the entire church, it would also turn corrupt?
If you read Church history, you will find that there were indeed Popes who were morally corrupt. You will also find that there are those who led reform movements in the Church to counter the corruption. The Pope is not the Church, and even if he is corrupt, it does not necessarily follow that the Church will be corrupt. God has given the Church the Holy Spirit to protect it, and He has and does and will raise up faithful Christians who listen to His voice. If you believe Jesus, you believe that the gates of Hell will not prevail against the Church. Some of it’s members may be corrupt, but the Church will not be, and will be presented to the Father as a spotless Bride by Christ. It is the Holy Spirit who preserves the Church from corruption, and He has done it for over 2000 years, and will continue to do so. That is a basic tenent of our faith.
 
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Likewise, when people feel the Church is demanding that society adopt unjust laws, Wait a minute. The Church is not demanding that society adopt unjust laws–the Church is lobbying against society changing current law and adopting positions that the church feels are detrimental to society as well as immoral. their personal sense of justice is aroused. For example, many if not most people today know (and know they know) a gay or lesbian person. They may even be a relative. So when the Church opposes rights for gays and lesbians, Please enumerate the rights the Church is arguing should be denied to gay and lesbian people–as I am unware of what those are? The Church argues against allowing marriage laws to be turned on their head–but marriage is not a right (in the sense that say free speach or voting is)–and the state has always seen fit to regulate who it allows to marry–hence age restrictions, restrictions against marrying your cousin, requiring blood tests,. you can’t marry your dog, pedophiles can’t marry children, etc. And when one remembers the Constitution is supposed to protect us from religious inspired law, Where do you find this in the constitution? Please cite article or amendment. The Constitution prohibits a state established church–like the Church of England. Not murdering–is a religious inspired law and I do not see anyone arguing that it is unconstitutional. The constitution helps protect us from the tyranny of the majority not religious inspired law. it is not surprising that some people would say, “Who are they to talk about right and wrong? Who are they to tell me what to do?” The fact that so many bishops were complicit in the child abuse scandal is what really made it a scandal. In reading the paperwork I see a lot of bishops trusting the word of psychologists who used to claim people could be rehabilitated. Many Bishops trusted these reports. There is no justification for what was done once it became clear that there is no rehablitation–and none of those priests should have been put in contact with children ever but the reporting was often not fair nor truthful regarding what occurred.-- and that is when people get defensive–right or wrong.
That said–where is all the uproar and hate for our schools and our teachers? Several stories have shown rampant abuse in our schools–the Oregonian did a 3 day series–and I believe the AP also did an investigation and ran a series–hardly a ripple–never saw it on the nightly news. Yet it appears abuse in our schools is as bad or worse than it was in the Church and it is still going on. They ship teachers from district to district and state to state and even have a name for it – it’s called “passing the trash”. Teachers unions fight tooth and nail any disclosure of this info and make it difficult for a district hiring a teacher to find out if a teacher coming to them left because of child abuse. No one is suing the teachers union or there local school. There is no survivors network for those abused by teachers. There is no public outcry --why is that? Why isn’t this as big a story? Lots of people complicit here.
Most child abuse occurs in the family home–by mom, dad or a close relative and most of the family is complicit in the abuse–by allowing it to go on.
Our priests and bishops should be held to a higher standard but that they often fall short should be of know surprise–one would hope that they do better–but it has no impact on the truth of what the Church proclaims afterall no one would argue that 2 + 2 is not 4 simply because a local math teacher abused a child.
And when the people advocating for the position the Church supports use deceptions and falsehoods to advance their cause, when opposition becomes villification, and when violence results, with no contrition …When any group of people gets carried away to the point where anyone who is not with them entirely is characterized as evil, This sounds more like opponents of the Church than those advocating for the Church. My daughter has been yelled at, and spit at and called all sorts of foul names–for simply standing with a protest sign in front of a Planned Parenthood abortion mill. It is not the Church that is carried away–it is those who hate the Church and what it teaches and will do anything to tear it down. I think you’ve got it backwards.

it has had difficulty adjusting to a world of liberal democracy and religious tolerance. The Church supports liberty and tolerance but I sense that you confuse tolerance with acceptance and fail yourself to tolerate the Churches unchanging moral teachings. The Church has not really had difficulty adjusting to a world of liberal democracy but liberal democracy has a difficult time accepting the fact that the Church will not change its moral teachings to fall in line with secular society and its desires–so much for tolerance. And in a good portion of this world there is no such thing as religious tolerance–try visiting the middle east or china for instance.

All the Christians, and most others too, know that Christ admonished us to love our neighbors as ourselves. If Catholics, who have benefited the most from religious freedom in the US, are not seen to respect the religious freedom of others, Would you please provide examples fo this? Its was not protestants who were shuned, who were turned out of families, cut off, denied employment or club membership in the US–it was Catholics. Who’s not respecting whos religious freedom? It was the fact that JFK was Catholic that had many americans thinking he should be disqualifed from being president. Just how are Catholics not respecting others religious freedom?
 
So I now say to you: You are Peter and on this rock I will build my community. And the gates of the underworld can never overpower it. - Matthew 16:18 (NJB)

The Lord clearly stated that His Church would not fail, but He never stated that EVERYONE within the Church would be perfect. Far from it! In fact, long before the night of His betrayal, He said:

"Jesus replied to them, ‘Did I not choose the Twelve of you? Yet one of you is a devil.’`` - John 6:70 (NJB)

And then there`s the parable of the darnel (weeds) growing amongst the good wheat:

He said to them, “Some enemy has done this.” And the labourers said, “Do you want us to go and weed it out?” But he said, “No, because when you weed out the darnel you might pull up the wheat with it. Let them both grow till the harvest; and at harvest time I shall say to the reapers: First collect the darnel and tie it in bundles to be burnt, then gather the wheat into my barn.” ’ `- Matthew 13:28-30 (NJB)

So YES, there has been some corrupt people within the Church… and Jesus KNEW that this would happen from the beginning. However, the Church as a whole has continued to teach the truth about God and the Way to Salvation… and it shall remain until Christ returns at the great Judgment.
 
So I now say to you: You are Peter and on this rock I will build my community. And the gates of the underworld can never overpower it. - Matthew 16:18 (NJB)

The Lord clearly stated that His Church would not fail, but He never stated that EVERYONE within the Church would be perfect. Far from it! In fact, long before the night of His betrayal, He said:

"Jesus replied to them, 'Did I not choose the Twelve of you? Yet one of you is a devil.’`` - John 6:70 (NJB)

And then there`s the parable of the darnel (weeds) growing amongst the good wheat:

He said to them, “Some enemy has done this.” And the labourers said, “Do you want us to go and weed it out?” But he said, “No, because when you weed out the darnel you might pull up the wheat with it. Let them both grow till the harvest; and at harvest time I shall say to the reapers: First collect the darnel and tie it in bundles to be burnt, then gather the wheat into my barn.” ’ `- Matthew 13:28-30 (NJB)

So YES, there has been some corrupt people within the Church… and Jesus KNEW that this would happen from the beginning. However, the Church as a whole has continued to teach the truth about God and the Way to Salvation… and it shall remain until Christ returns at the great Judgment.
Thank you, this is by far the best post.
 
I have another question. I don’t if any of you watched a debate that was about the church, if it was a force of good, but one of those against the church sad that the church considers homosexuality as evil and he even sad that the pope once called it a great evil.

I would imagine about the church that it considers it disordered. Maybe the man understood it by saying that this was evil.

Another thing that they claimed was that the church approved of the slave trade. As for as I knew, the church condemned this actions.

It makes me wonder. Can you believe that they mocked the church by saying that the church had millions if not billions of dollars that they had stolen from the poor?

This really makes me kinda sad.:bighanky: All I can say is that we must pray for them.

What do you all think?
 
  1. The claim that the church has actually covered up priests who molest children and that their bishops actually knew this.
Claim? That’s exactly what some people in the Church did. But, on the “upside”, schools have done the same thing. Some priests, lay people, bishops have done evil things but the Church itself is perfect in Her truth and teachings. A “few” evils acts doesn’t discredit our religion. Just like a few predator teachers doesnt’ discredit education, a few bad doctors doesn’t make medicine bad. As for the crusades, the muslims started it by harrassing Christian pilgrims. We were trying to save the Holy Land and prevent the spread of Islam.

Sorry, those are the best responses I can think of. We can’t condone pedophile priests or immoral bishops. we can defend the Teachings, though, given to us by Christ.
 
  1. The claim that the church has actually covered up priests who molest children and that their bishops actually knew this.
Claim? That’s exactly what some people in the Church did. But, on the “upside”, schools have done the same thing. Some priests, lay people, bishops have done evil things but the Church itself is perfect in Her truth and teachings. A “few” evils acts doesn’t discredit our religion. Just like a few predator teachers doesnt’ discredit education, a few bad doctors doesn’t make medicine bad. As for the crusades, the muslims started it by harrassing Christian pilgrims. We were trying to save the Holy Land and prevent the spread of Islam.

Sorry, those are the best responses I can think of. We can’t condone pedophile priests or immoral bishops. we can defend the Teachings, though, given to us by Christ.
Thank you for your post. Any answer is great.

Thank you,

Art321
 
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