Is Confession still encouraged?

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What is it like in your parish? I’ve heard much discussion about whether or not the church has changed sinse Vatican II? With regard to confession, have things changed?

I’m a fairly new convert, I just want to know if confession is still encouraged?
Are we supposed to go to confession regularily? Are we supposed to confess venial sins?

Thanks:)
 
Lisa44,

Confessions in general have declined over the past few years. There is at least one thread directly lamenting this, probably about a hundred more than that. There are lots of reasons for this, but a lot has to do with the clergy not directly encouraging while not discouraging.

Different parishes and different dioceses have different attitudes. My parish has confessions three times a day during the week and again on Saturday evening. The local Franciscans have a chapel on the bottom floor of the mall where they have daily confessions. My old parish had time set aside for confessions, but never held them. I tend to think most parishes are like that.

As Catholics, we have a duty to confess at least once a year. There may be something about the timing of that confession, but I’m not remembering for certain. You ought to go more often than that for sure, but once is the absolute minimum. Venial sins should be confessed.

Hope that helps.

Chris
 
There is grace there!!! Go to Confession regularly - Pope JPII went every DAY!!

It is strongly encouraged by those who know better - some will tell you it is not necessary, or that you only have to go once a year. Phooey. 😛

Do not become overly scrupulous, but it is never a bad thing to go regularly. My DH and I try to go about ever three weeks, more often if we feel we need to. Usually it is only for venial sins. But again, there is grace in the Sacraments!! And we can all use more grace in our lives!

👍

Nothing has changed - the Church has never changed on this. Only the personal opinions of some who feel it is necessary to water down our Faith. Don’t listen to them, they will only lead you away from the Truth, not closer to it. 🙂

~Liza
 
Yes confession is certainly encouraged. I am always encouraging my family and friends to go to confession. Some times I feel like a tick on a dogs ear because I’m always asking, “have you gone to confession?” or “Oops! Now you really need to go to confession.” It is the most awesome gift that Christ Jesus left us. At my parish there always seems to be a long wait, which goes to show that reconcillation is something Catholics do practice. I even know of a gentleman that arrives an hour early so he will be first in line. As for my self I try now to go weekly. I heard that John Paul II went weekly and he was the pope.
And one should confess all sins whether venial or mortal.
Think of it this way, we are recieving Jesus, we are the temple, reconcilation prepares us to recieve such a highly honored guest. Wow! Imagine Jesus coming to visit. His temple needs to be clean and swept out and readied. :getholy: Is he not worth all the trouble?
 
What is it like in your parish? I’ve heard much discussion about whether or not the church has changed sinse Vatican II? With regard to confession, have things changed?

I’m a fairly new convert, I just want to know if confession is still encouraged?
Are we supposed to go to confession regularily? Are we supposed to confess venial sins?

Thanks:)
In our parish, Confession is very much encouraged. Father mentions it at least once every Sunday.

But that hasn’t yet translated into good attendance at Confession. Unfortunately the former pastor didn’t “do” Confessions. There was no regularly scheduled times and he didn’t hear Confession by appointment either. So, many of the people in our parish are confused but coming around slowly.
 
Yes, confession is still taught.

You should always go as soon as possible after your repent of a mortal sin. You should go regularly to confess venial sins. (But if you have a mortal sin to confess, don’t also confess venial sins in that confession). Venial sins are forgiven with the graces we receive at Mass if we are repentent, but we should still go at least once a year.

We go every month as a family. Confession is scheduled 4x a week at our parish with lines every time, so I tell my children I will take them whever they want. We receive amazing graces from the Sacrament of Penance, so it makes sense to go regularly and of course, when it is required for moratl sin!
 
Yes…confession is still encouraged…monthly is my schedual with my spiritual adviser…a priest/monk at the Monastery. Also, it is required as a secular Carmelite. I’m OCDS.
It’s interesting that in an old Latin Missal I have(and in a newer one too) the rule for confession is to go at the very least once a year IF you have a mortal sin. I had to re-read that a couple of times. That seems to say to me that once a year confession is not binding if you have NO mortal sins. But, for the sake of piety and enrichment of your soul it is encouraged even if you have no mortal sins, to confess venial sins which are actually forgiven by Communion. Confessing them can help you avoid a more serious sin. Now, remember, in those days for instance the rules during Lent were a little more difficult ( I have very devout sisters in law who tell me all about it)so if you did eat meat at the wrong time or didn’t fast at the right time ON PURPOSE, it was a mortal sin so people had to confess that before receiving Communion…therefore the lines were longer for Confession and usually shorter for Communion. And, as it is now, you must receive Communion at least once a year during the Easter season. That rule was so that people who had committed a lesser mortal sin(as compared to murder) would get to Confession and receive Our Lord. It’s pretty easy now with our Communion fast of only 1 hour to receive every week, or daily,but in the old days (of which I was not a part of) many people just went to Mass without receiving Our Lord because they couldn’t fast from midnight on, or even later it having been changed to 3 hours. I came in to the church in '72 when things were quite liberalized but I still went to confession even tho at our Parish not even 1st Communicants were encouraged to go. My kids were raised during a time of a lot of change so as a convert I had a difficult time knowing what to teach them. I’m afraid I failed. At 20, our oldest girl became mormon (we live in that territory)a very very hurtful time, another left the church when he went to college and still is away at 42, the 2 middle girls stayed with the church but did go thru difficult times and our 5th, 2nd boy, has fallen away. We’re still in the same parish and it has changed to a much more conservative one with the young priest we have. He tells the truth, however difficult…even “gasp” about birth control and abortion. We even have a Latin daily Mass once a week. In God’s love, M.A.👍
 
This is an interesting thread. I still go to confession, but I’ve found a daily self-renewal to be just as rewarding. When I was a child, the process of confession seemed more important, as I’ve aged, I find the need to sit in a confessional less needed. It’s interesting to read all the different opinions and experiences.
 
We have 4 confession times they all last about an hour and there is always a long line.
 
The church will never not have confessions, it is a Sacrament.

Shame on the priests who are too lazy to take the time to adminstered the Sacrament of Penance.

Our parish also offers the face-to-face confessions as well. The young people seem to like that better.
 
The church will never not have confessions, it is a Sacrament.

Shame on the priests who are too lazy to take the time to adminstered the Sacrament of Penance.

Our parish also offers the face-to-face confessions as well. The young people seem to like that better.
Not this young person I get a little scared when I think of it.
 
Are we supposed to go to confession regularily?
Yes. You will notice that there are people who can go a whole year without committing any mortal sins.One thing you will notice about these people, is that they go to Confession once a week. 🙂
Are we supposed to confess venial sins?
While not required, it is a very good thing to confess your venial sins, and overcome your small problems, in order that your venial sins will never grow up to be mortal sins, and your small problems will never grow up to be big problems. 🙂
 
I’m not Catholic yet, just a catechumen, but in my parish confession is encouraged. The pastor offers it every morning before mass for about 30 minutes, and also for a longer period of time on Friday and Saturday afternoons. He recommends once or twice a month confession for most people, and more often if you have committed a mortal sin or are struggling with habitual sin. The religious sisters in our parish go to confession every week.
 
Well here in Austria, society is quite secular (many people are catholic so they can get their children baptized and marry in a church, the total members-count is falling though, partly because of people leaving the church because they dont want to pay taxes) so i guess that the deathbed-confessions will be most likely the longest priests will hear. I have to admit its been quite some time that i have confessed last time, but i watch the Popes Urbi et Orbi blessing at least once a year so to get at least absolution for my venial sins.
 
=Lisa44;5336133]What is it like in your parish? I’ve heard much discussion about whether or not the church has changed sinse Vatican II? With regard to confession, have things changed?
I’m a fairly new convert, I just want to know if confession is still encouraged?
Are we supposed to go to confession regularily? Are we supposed to confess venial sins?
***Much has changed since the end of Vatican II, some good and some obviously not so good.

vatican II ended in 1965, and most of the* "post Concillar [after the end of the Council, but as a direct result of the Council] documents, were written and published by 1970.

In 1970 The PEW Report Survey states that about 75% of professed Catholics were regullarly attending Sunday and Holy day Mass. In 2007 that number was about 25%and I heard before Easter that it had dropped to about 23%.:eek:

The Sacrament of Confession was regularly used by about 70% in 1970 and today that number is something less than 10%! :eek: !!!

So one must answer your question by stating what “is” and then share what “is supposed to be happening.”

I will not go into the reasons, as they are many and varied as to why these things have happened at this time.

At root is the old adage that “predicting and planning for doom, is a self fulfilling prophecy, and nearly always accomplished.”

Because of a lack of priest; there has been a “natural” reduction in hours for Confession. Because fewer people availed themselves of ths Sacrament, even fewer opportunities to Confess became available. And on and on the cycle went to today, a great many parishes offer Confession for 30 minutes to an hour before one of the Sat. / Sun. Masses.

In our parish with a main Chruch and a Mission Church and a staff of five priest, Confession is offered only on Saturday evening Mass for 30 minutes, and at The Mission, Confession is offered 30 minutes B4 Sunday Mass.

One can make an appointment for a private Confession.

1 John 5: 16 “If any one sees his brother committing what is not a mortal sin, he will ask, and God * will give him life for those whose sin is not mortal. There is sin which is mortal; I do not say that one is to pray for that. 17 All wrongdoing is sin, but there is sin which is not mortal.” MAKES CLEAR that Mortal sin is a reality; and can condem one to HELL if UN Confessed!

John 20: 22-23 " 21 "Jesus said to them again, “Peace be with you. As the Father has sent me, even so I send you.” 22 And when he had said this, he breathed on them, and said to them, “Receive the Holy Spirit. 23 If you forgive the sins of any, they are forgiven; if you retain the sins of any, they are retained.”

The Catholic Catechism states:

1484 “Individual, integral confession and absolution remain the only ordinary way for the faithful to reconcile themselves with God and the Church, unless physical or moral impossibility excuses from this kind of confession.” There are profound reasons for this. Christ is at work in each of the sacraments. He personally addresses every sinner: “My son, your sins are forgiven.” He is the physician tending each one of the sick who need him to cure them. He raises them up and reintegrates them into fraternal communion. Personal confession is thus the form most expressive of reconciliation with God and with the Church."

1456 Confession to a priest is an essential part of the sacrament of Penance: “All mortal sins of which penitents after a diligent self-examination are conscious must be recounted by them in confession, even if they are most secret and have been committed against the last two precepts of the Decalogue; for these sins sometimes wound the soul more grievously and are more dangerous than those which are committed openly.”

When Christ’s faithful strive to confess all the sins that they can remember, they undoubtedly place all of them before the divine mercy for pardon. But those who fail to do so and knowingly withhold some, place nothing before the divine goodness for remission through the mediation of the priest, “for if the sick person is too ashamed to show his wound to the doctor, the medicine cannot heal what it does not know.”

In summation, I believe one can say that every priest and certainly every Bishop and Definitely our Pope wish more would avail themselves of this very necessary [for nearly all of us] Sacrament if we desire to get to heaven. That said I see very little evidence that outside of Rome, that any serious effort is being mande to change these dismal perticiaption figures,

God remains in charge; we are not to dispair!

God help us!😊**
 
Originally Posted by Sr Sally
. (But if you have a mortal sin to confess, don’t also confess venial sins in that confession).
*The reply *
While it is true that as an absolute necessity, one is not required to confess ones venial sins [less seriois sins] The Evangelist John simply quotes Jesus: “whose sins you shall forgive are forgiven and whose sins you shall retain, are retained.”
It is a common and highly recommended practice to Confess all of ones sins in order to grow in humility and piety and to allow ones Confessor to suggest ways one may make even further growth in ones own spiritual life. There have been great Saints who Confessed daily, as a means of self improvement. Many, Many Saints Confedded weekly, and most were only Confessing venial sins. One is given extra grace every time one Confesses.
 
Why would that be? I’ve never heard anything like that before.

Betsy
I haven’t either. I have heard the advice “worst things first” - that is to say, begin your Confession by mentioning your mortal sins first - but this is the first I’ve heard that you can’t confess your venial sins at the same time as your mortal sins. 🤷
 
=jmcrae;5345270]I haven’t either. I have heard the advice “worst things first” - that is to say, begin your Confession by mentioning your mortal sins first - but this is the first I’ve heard that you can’t confess your venial sins at the same time as your mortal sins. 🤷
You may and you can! It is a pious practice recommended by the RCC. In a strict sense one is not obligated to, still we should do so!
 
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