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cookie-san
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Ikr! That’s why I’m so concerned about myself. I tried talking to the counsellor but no one comes up with any good suggestions. So I planned on moving away and being by myself.
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Prodigal_Son
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I think moving away is a great idea. Your home situation sounds very toxic.I’m so concerned about myself. I tried talking to the counsellor but no one comes up with any good suggestions. So I planned on moving away and being by myself.
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Prodigal_Son
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I need to get going, since my family’s waking up. But I wish you a blessed Christmas, and I pray that this situation is resolved in a way that allows God’s grace and protection to be manifest in your life!
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cookie-san
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Thanks a ton. Merry Christmas to you and your family.
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Francis
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Have you attended any retreat or inner healing service in your parish have you tries ,i think it will be good for you and your family attending a retreat together.
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Francis
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@cookie-san I think you need a Generational Healing service it’s a part of the counselling, where forgiveness prayer is a part of inner healing ,sins against the 10 Commandments and hidden sin are revealed,to the Catholic Priest who has the gift of deliverance, prays over the person. Who is then set free, Sin has consequences, that’s why Jesus came into the world to save us, Hear the inclination of a particular sin are at times is a generational sin for eg lust ,if the great grandparent committed adultery the next 4 generation would be inclined towards the spirit of lust unless at least one of the family member is prayed over by a pious priest who has the gift of deliverance or lead a holy life and Jesus shows mercy and set them frees this can be even the second generation if its done then it will not effect the next generations.God Bless
1 John 3:8 Everyone who commits sin is a child of the devil; for the devil has been sinning from the beginning. The Son of God was revealed for this purpose, to destroy the works of the devil.
sin has consequences and God punishes us for it so that we may realize our mistakes and repent and come back to the Lord
1 John 1:8 If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. 9 If we confess our sins, he who is faithful and just will forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness. 10 If we say that we have not sinned, we make him a liar, and his word is not in us.
In the New Testament, Jesus talks about the blood of the prophets killed in previous generations being brought to bear on the current generation in Jerusalem (Matthew 23:29-36 and Luke 11:47-51)
“We have sinned like our ANCESTORS, we have done wrong and are guilty….” (Ps 106: 6-48).
Lamentations 5: 7: “Our forefathers have sinned and are now dead, and we bear their punishment.”
Pope John Paul II in his Apostolic Letter, “Adveniente Millennio Tertio,” made affirming statements regarding the need to heal the effects in us in the present resulting from sins committed in past generations. He urged the Bible-based mentality of Leviticus 26:40: “Confess your iniquity and the iniquity of your ancestors.”
We can’t blame our ancestors forever thing, our personal sin separate us from God and His blessings. But unconfessed sin brings curses.
Baptism heals us from original sin but not the effects of sin. This one sin has effected the whole of humanity so why is it hard to understand that certain grave sins can cause curses for generations, it’s not venial sin but gravity of Their sins like witchcraft etc can cause great damages to current and future family members.
I could write way more to explain the biblical sources and spirituality of healing of the family tree which doesn’t go against catholic teaching or theology.
God bless
1 John 3:8 Everyone who commits sin is a child of the devil; for the devil has been sinning from the beginning. The Son of God was revealed for this purpose, to destroy the works of the devil.
sin has consequences and God punishes us for it so that we may realize our mistakes and repent and come back to the Lord
1 John 1:8 If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. 9 If we confess our sins, he who is faithful and just will forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness. 10 If we say that we have not sinned, we make him a liar, and his word is not in us.
In the New Testament, Jesus talks about the blood of the prophets killed in previous generations being brought to bear on the current generation in Jerusalem (Matthew 23:29-36 and Luke 11:47-51)
“We have sinned like our ANCESTORS, we have done wrong and are guilty….” (Ps 106: 6-48).
Lamentations 5: 7: “Our forefathers have sinned and are now dead, and we bear their punishment.”
Pope John Paul II in his Apostolic Letter, “Adveniente Millennio Tertio,” made affirming statements regarding the need to heal the effects in us in the present resulting from sins committed in past generations. He urged the Bible-based mentality of Leviticus 26:40: “Confess your iniquity and the iniquity of your ancestors.”
We can’t blame our ancestors forever thing, our personal sin separate us from God and His blessings. But unconfessed sin brings curses.
Baptism heals us from original sin but not the effects of sin. This one sin has effected the whole of humanity so why is it hard to understand that certain grave sins can cause curses for generations, it’s not venial sin but gravity of Their sins like witchcraft etc can cause great damages to current and future family members.
I could write way more to explain the biblical sources and spirituality of healing of the family tree which doesn’t go against catholic teaching or theology.
God bless
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Francis
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while moving independently ,be very careful not to enter into personal relationship with any one .Try to increase your spiritual life by praying more, pray the Rosary as well do sit front of the Blessed Sacrament and surrender everything in the hands of Jesus and build a personal relationship with Jesus .God Bless
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cookie-san
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Thanks a ton Francis. I’ll surely go for an inner healing retreat.
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Johann_du_Toit
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As far as I am aware it is only a sin to doubt God, not people.
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Cruciferi
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You have every right to be suspicious and to protect yourself from unwanted attention or physical contact! I would advise moving out and seeing a psychiatrist.My dad’s mentally ill too I think and he sorta spaces out every now and then
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Catholicwife32
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No, it is not sinful. Something in this situation sounds unhealthy. Your Mom’s reaction seems quite bizarre and overly protective of your father. Even if he’s doing anything wrong, she should have talked to you and helped you through your feelings rather than fill you with shame for feeling uncomfortable.
At the very least, it should have been discussed with your Dad about not staring even if he’s not looking at you with eyes of lust. The fact that your mom reacted by attacking you seems like she feels threatened. Is anyone able to talk to him? How does he react to the needs of the family?
Honoring your father and mother does mean pretending they are perfect and creating an illusion for the world to see about how happy your family is. It’s simply an affirmation that of the importance of family bonds ESPECIALLY as we grow older and move out. Certainly, there are lessons to be learned for treating parents with respect when your young, but these lessons aren’t learned by shaming and acting like the parents are the victims of the children. It is the parents’ job to guide and teach children how to foster healthy relationships with each other and the outside world.
Not all parents are perfect. Some are abusive, and sometimes abusers latch onto bible versus and come up with expanded arguments to insist their behavior is totally okay. Sometimes it’s just not possible to have the type of relationship we want with our parents. Honoring and loving people can look different depending on the type of person we’re interacting with, but to have a need of yours dismissed and shame isn’t respectful or loving to you.
At the very least, it should have been discussed with your Dad about not staring even if he’s not looking at you with eyes of lust. The fact that your mom reacted by attacking you seems like she feels threatened. Is anyone able to talk to him? How does he react to the needs of the family?
Honoring your father and mother does mean pretending they are perfect and creating an illusion for the world to see about how happy your family is. It’s simply an affirmation that of the importance of family bonds ESPECIALLY as we grow older and move out. Certainly, there are lessons to be learned for treating parents with respect when your young, but these lessons aren’t learned by shaming and acting like the parents are the victims of the children. It is the parents’ job to guide and teach children how to foster healthy relationships with each other and the outside world.
Not all parents are perfect. Some are abusive, and sometimes abusers latch onto bible versus and come up with expanded arguments to insist their behavior is totally okay. Sometimes it’s just not possible to have the type of relationship we want with our parents. Honoring and loving people can look different depending on the type of person we’re interacting with, but to have a need of yours dismissed and shame isn’t respectful or loving to you.
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